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Shea Stella

1984 - 2019

Shea Stella obituary, 1984-2019, San Francisco, CA

Shea Stella Obituary

Shea Michele Stella

August 24, 1984 – March 9, 2019

On March 9, 2019, Shea Michele Stella passed away from GBM brain cancer. For 10 months Shea responded to every complication of this cruel disease with courage, humor and kindness.
Shea is the daughter of Mark Robert Stella (deceased) and Michele L. McGill and Mario F. Flores (stepdad) and sister of Jaime Stella and Brian Luenow (brother-in-law) and aunt of Xavier. Shea was preceded in death by her pug "Weezer," her grandparents Mac & Marilyn McGill, Kay Lynch & Gene Mooney, and Max Ramos, who have all wrapped her in their loving arms.
Shea was raised in San Francisco where she attended The Discovery Center School (1998). Shea was the salutatorian of her high school class at Mercy Burlingame (2002). Shea was beloved by the patrons of the Irish Cultural Center. At age 15, Shea solo swam the Golden Gate supported by the South End Rowing Club. Shea earned a Bachelor of Science in Chemistry with a minor in Philosophy from UCLA (2007, Irish Club, Alpha Chi Sigma). Shea had many talents and was a licensed massage therapist, real estate agent and notary. More recently she paid the bills as a property manager and bookkeeper, while she pursued her passions as an artist and dancer, philosopher and author, leaving her energetic impressions in the eternal rain of the stardust falling from the heavens. (Sheastella.com)
Shea was courageous and took life as it came. The perfect mix of female duality, young Shea lived as a Bohemian goddess in Los Angeles, followed by a career in cut-throat real estate in Manhattan, then returning to San Francisco with her husband Martin Gonzales to begin anew. Shea's proudest achievement was her paintings created through her unique form of dance art. Shea was inspired by nature where she loved to hike, swim, or just enjoy the sunshine. Shea packed a vibrant, energetic, full life into her 34 years. Shea loved to share her laughter and exuberant spirit, forming solid friendships wherever she went. Shea is admired, loved and treasured as a precious gift of the universe.
Shea's life will be celebrated and remembered on April 14, 2019 at 10:00 am at the United Irish Cultural Center, 2700 Forty-Fifth Avenue, San Francisco. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Lighthouse For The Blind (lighthouse-sf.org/donate) or to Mercy Burlingame (mercyhsb.com/giving/mercy-fund) or by paying it forward with random acts of kindness.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Mar. 23 to Mar. 24, 2019.

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Kathleen Melee

December 23, 2019

Dearest Michele,
Shea Stella is the star of my heart this Christmas. Her fortitude is legendary. What a beauty inside and out. Although my friendship with her was never in the same town or at the same time, when we spoke it was with a passion for life and art. Your daughter is my inspiration. When I look up at the vast Montana sky and see the multitude of stars, I know she is hanging them one by one just for you. She is Artemis the huntress and so many other constellations, swimming in the deep cosmos with a spirit that never ends and always begins. Michele, you are a lifesaver. None of us will ever be able to stop the tears on earth. But, in heaven, well, I believe.
Yours,
Kathleen Melee

MarianoJeanette Aurelio

April 12, 2019

Dear Michele, Mario and Families.

Our condolences and warm hugs. May this artistic, wonderful and beautiful person rest in peace.

Tom O'Malley

April 5, 2019

Sincere condolences to all the family. RIP

March 30, 2019

I have known Shea since she graduated from UCLA. We are fellow members of AXE (Alpha Chi Sigma) and she showed me some of the lighter moments in life. Some different dance classes and swimming in the Bay. Her courage was remarkable, her light truly amazing.

Jorge Bermudez

March 27, 2019

My deepest condolences to the whole Flores family. God Bless Shea Stella

Jorge Bermudez

Temitope Sonuyi

March 26, 2019

Love and condolences on your earthly loss. Even from this planet she shined a radiance that was heavenly and beyond the body. Thanks for raising such a wonderful person.

Susan Montalbano-Ramirez

March 25, 2019

What a lovely life story about a beautiful young lady. May the light of God shine upon her in heaven. My deepest sympathies to Shea's family and friends.

Kingsley Elezieanya

March 25, 2019

It's been a shocking news at your demise from this world, those who have communicated with you knows how nice you are, may your gentle soul rest in peace.

March 25, 2019

I hadn't seen Shea in many years, but I always remember what a kind and loving person she was. You always felt happier when she was around.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Shea was a great person and such a bright light.

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