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Dr. Stephen Michael Krause

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Dr. Stephen Michael Krause Died suddenly on August 21, 2008. Born on May 2, 1938 in Los Angeles. Stephen was a proud alumnus of Notre Dame High School, Marquette University, and the Medical College of Wisconsin. He completed his psychiatric residency at McAuley Neuropsychiatric Institute at St. Mary's Hospital in San Francisco. During his nearly 40-year career at St. Mary's, he served on countless committees and fulfilled numerous leadership roles. He served as chairman of the Department of Psychiatry and as medical director and director of clinical services for McAuley Behavioral Services. From 1995 to 1999, Steve served as president of the medical staff of St. Mary's. Currently, Steve was serving on the St. Mary's Medical Center Community Board while maintaining a private practice in San Francisco and Novato. He was married for 42 years to his wife Carole with whom he had four children: Karen, Michael, Scott and Mary. He loved sharing his time with his family and his children remember him as being a kind and gentle parent who was endlessly supportive and understanding. In addition to avidly following sports, especially boxing and track and field, Steve found adventure and fulfillment in traveling, Italy and Denmark being two of his favorite destinations. Over the past few years, he cultivated his interest in cooking, an expression that complemented his developed appreciation of red wine (especially Caymus Cabernet and Roche Pinot Noir.) Stephen is survived by his wife Carole; his children Karen (Barry), Michael (Heather), Scott (Rikke), and Mary; his grandson Marcus; and his sister Valerie Smart. A Vigil will be held on Tuesday, August 26 from 7-8 P.M. at St. Ignatius Cathedral in San Francisco followed by a Funeral Mass at St. Ignatius on Wednesday, August 27, at 10 A.M. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his name to the McAuley Adolescent Unit at St. Mary's Hospital.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Aug. 26, 2008.

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Annie Allen

August 20, 2022

Dr. Krause was my amazing psychiatrist for 14+ years. He helped me so much with his love and support. He would always return my calls. I still miss him terribly. He was such a comfort to me in this world. He allowed me to bring my dog to our appointments. He died much too young. I want his wife and family to know I remember him always.

Annie Allen

August 21, 2020

I still think of you all the time. You were the best doctor I ever had and you gave me so much hope. I still miss you so much , Doc. I still wonder what happened since I never knew the cause of your death. I hope you are happy wherever you are now. Thank you for everything. Love always, Annie Allen

Tish Cortez

August 20, 2020

I feel you Dr. Krause. I see you. Thank you and I love you.

Zoe Marshall

September 23, 2008

I will miss Dr. Krause greatly. Without him, I am not sure I would still be alive today.

I have known Dr. Krause for many years and he knew me better than most anyone in this world. I am sad I never had a chance to show him how big of a difference he made in my life. I owe him my life.

I am sorry to all of his loved ones for their huge loss and I will eternally be thanking Dr. Krause for saving me.

Mark Wedgley

September 9, 2008

Dr. Krause I don't know how to say how much I'll miss you and how shocked I was.I pray for you and your family;they were very lucky to have a man like you as father husband or close friend.
I was just lucky enough to have you as my Dr. for the past six years,I only found out yesterday Sept. 8th by mail.It's hard to find someone to put trust in I will greatly miss you.
I pray for your family in this sad time.I like many of your patients family and friends will find it difficult as I will miss you as a Dr. and I like to think friend.May God bless you and keep you and wqatch over your loved ones.
good-bye Dr. Krause
Mark Wedgley

Julie Amoroso(Moran)

September 9, 2008

To the family of Doctor Krause,I am so very sorry for your loss!Doctor Krause helped me during a very hard time and I will never forget him!I remember in his office there was a beautiful picture of his wife and children and how when he talked of all of you his face would light up!Another angel is in heaven.

annonymous

September 4, 2008

I am shocked and deeply saddend by the passing of Dr. Krause. He was a kind, patient and dedicated doctor who greatly helped me and many others. He will be greatly missed. My most sincere condolensces go out to his family, friends and other patients.

Tish Cortez

September 3, 2008

I am speechless and shocked by this sudden turn of events. Dr. Krause was the closest person to me in the last few years and owe him so much. And i'm sure he'd say that all I owe him is to live MY life as well as I can...and so I will do my very best in his honor.

Francie Schusterman

August 29, 2008

Steve Krause was the kindest and most giving of anyone I have known.I worked with Steve as a nurse in Mcauley from 1975-1978.Steve was always there whenever I needed him. He was a strong man and could be firm but it always came through how much he cared about people.We will all miss him greatly.

Ed Ellis

August 28, 2008

What a wonderful man. As a therapist and true friend, he helped me turn my life around. His legacy will live through his wonderful work, warm insights, and great stories. Knowing Stephen, he is now sailing with some new wind, and on some fresh waves.

August 27, 2008

Dear Dr. Krause's Family,
WE are very sorry for your loss. Your husband, father, and grandfather was very helpful to us. He made a difference in our lives as he did many others. His presence will be missed greatly. Our thoughts are with in during this time.
Sincerely,
Trevor Bishop and family

Annie Allen

August 27, 2008

Dear Doctor Krause,
I am struggling with the reality of this terrible news. I called just to hear your comforting voice again on your very familiar answering machine- to leave you one more message- but your mailbox is full. So it must be true. Please call me back and tell me everything is alright again.You are okay and I will see you again next month as planned.I don't know how this world will go on without you in it. All I know is how much you helped me for the last 14 years. I was so blessed to have been referred to you then and for you to take me back after I left- continuing to support and take care of me even when I moved away and lost my insurance and was unable to pay. I wonder how many others you carried on your back, like me, just because you really cared. You were so much more than a doctor and I really loved you- as I hope you knew how much I appreciated all the things you did to help me- even though you were SO busy you ALWAYS took the time to return my calls and follow up. Just knowing you cared for me and would always be there was a great comfort. And I count you among my greatest blessings- right along with my dear mom and dogs. Your kindness, GENEROSITY and total COOLNESS changed the world while you were here. I hope you know how much you were loved and appreciated. I just can not say goodbye to you. Please be my angel forever, even now you MUST still be there. I will still be consulting with you and listening for your reply.Thank you for EVERYTHING......you even let me bring my dog to your office - and brought your lovely wife, Carole to dinner at the restaurant I worked at. You dispensed hugs and pats on the back as well as your life-saving medicine and light-hearted, non-judgemental support for me. You never let me down- and I want you to know your kindness and efforts were not wasted on me. I will not let YOU down now. Rest in peace, Doc. YOU RULE! ~~ Love ALWAYS,
Annie from Petaluma,Seattle, Pasadena....wherever.........

Patrick & Shirley Twohig

August 26, 2008

Dear Carole, Scott and family:

We were deeply shocked to hear about Dr. Krause. He was a kind and wonderful man. Our prayers and love are with you during this very difficult time. We pray that the good Lord may hold all of you in the hollow of His hand. Our thoughts go back to our years in Novato when our children were growing up together. Scott, Brendan has always thought of you as a great friend! And we appreciate that friendship.

Our love and thoughts are with you!

Pat & Shirley

Carol Ostermann

August 26, 2008

Dr. Krause was my Chief of Staff (elected physician leadership position) when I came to St Mary's in 1998 and remained a friend until I left in 2004. He was a kind and thoughtful boss who constantly worked to mediate differences and bring resolution to whatever problem that was directed his way. He wasn't perfect and didn't pretend to be. I enjoyed his friendship. I'm sorry that he didn't get to do more cooking, traveling, wine-tasting. My deepest condolences to his family.

Paula Rheaume

August 26, 2008

Steve was a remarkable man; a devoted husband, a proud and loving father, an inspirational colleague and a wonderful clinician. He will be deeply and sadly missed. Paula Rheaume

Bill and Margaret Payne

August 25, 2008

Steve was a friend and mentor and we will miss him!

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