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Memories and Condolences
for Stuart Brotman
Stacy Davis
January 24, 2024
I´m so sorry to hear this. Stuart was truly a warrior when it came to working with students with special needs. My heart is saddened.
Kimally Samuels
February 15, 2023
I miss you my friend.
Your Sister Bren
January 28, 2022
Miss you every day my brother. Give dad a big hug for me. I love you.
Liz Groepler
January 28, 2020
Miss you and your great joy, my brother!
Jessica Brownell
October 15, 2017
I miss you Stuart.
Myron Tapper
June 29, 2011
Dear Martin and Farron and Family,
We were recently shocked and extremely saddened on learning of the tragic loss of your beloved son Stuart. We did not share the priviledge of knowing Stuart, a beautiful person and kind, sensitive human being who brought joy and happiness to his Family.
I, Myron, grew up with Martin,attending preschool, Talmud Torah, Kelvin High School and the University of Manitoba with him.
The Brotman Family has always shown incredible kindness and generosity to me. Etched in my memory forever is a tragedy that befell my family some years ago relating to the tragic loss of my young aunt, Rose Levine. On the evening of that sorrowful event the Brotman Family, Israel and Helen, Martin and Shirley took me into their summer home and comforted me during a period of terrible sorrow.
Martin and Farron and Family we feel the sorrow of your devastating loss. Our thoughts are with you during this most difficult time.
Myron and Myra Tapper.
Barbara Welden
February 28, 2011
What a delightful human being your Stuart was and will always be. I have read through this guest book and was struck by the incredible generosity of all who wrote here about just what a light in the world he was . . . rare, precious and few. Your grief and your pride must be great. Our hearts are with you.
Much much love,
Barb and Joel
Matt Ockner
February 28, 2011
Even from the age of 5, Stuart's good heart and contagious happiness made him a great friend and neighbor. He made the world around him a better place by sharing these gifts with the kids he worked with. I am so sorry that we have lost him so soon, but we will all carry happy thoughts of Stuart with us forever.
February 25, 2011
DEAR FARRON AND MARTIN
WE ARE SO VERY SADDENED AT THE NEWS OF STUARTS PASSING. WE FEEL PRIVELEGED TO HAVE MET AND SPENT TIME WITH HIM ON SO MANY OCCASIONS. HE WAS A TRULY WONDERFUL PERSON. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
SHEILA AND ROY LEONARD
February 16, 2011
Dear Farron and Martin,
We are very sadden to hear about the passing of your son Stuart. Even though we did not know him, we know he was an exceptional human being. We send you our love and sincerest condolesnces.
Bonnie and Barry Walner
Shindleman
February 15, 2011
We were all deeply saddened to learn about the passing of Stuart. Our thoughts are with you during this most difficult time.
The Shindlemans
February 14, 2011
We are deeply saddened to learn of the loss of such a wonderful young man, Stuart Brotman.
Eric & Erin Hull
Avery Nusgart-Herman
February 14, 2011
So sorry to hear about the passing of Stuart. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
February 13, 2011
Martin and Farron: Lynn joins me in sending you our deepest sympathy
George Meyer
Serena Ventura
February 11, 2011
I am deeply shocked and saddened to only now just hear of the untimely loss of your beloved son, Stuart. Know that you and your family are, and will remain, in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you in this time of profound grief.
Oliver Greer
February 11, 2011
I just learned of Stuart's passing this morning (2/11).
I went to school with Stuart for 7 years in Tiburon - grade school at Bel Aire and junior high at Del Mar. Two memories stand out for me:
First, at Bel Aire, Stuart was the one you wanted on your kickball team because he could kick the ball clear across the playground!
And second, in 1977 Stuart and Gail Davis were cast to do voices for RACE FOR YOUR LIFE, CHARLIE BROWN. There was much excitement at school when that happened.
Part of Stuart lives on forever in RACE FOR YOUR LIFE, CHARLIE BROWN, so, when you have a chance, watch the film.
Safe journey, Stuart, and bless heart.
Skyy M.
February 9, 2011
Stuart guided me to a better place in my life and helped me to open my eyes to all it's possibilities. Even though I left the program, he still mentored me! He was always patient and encouraging. Stuart was a beautiful person and this world is a bit darker without him. My heart goes out to his family.
I am going to miss him so very much.
Larry Fritzlan
February 8, 2011
My condolences. I met Stuart one time when he was marketing his work with teens. He was a kind, creative, and loving friend of the young people.
February 8, 2011
Dear Brotman Family,
Just heard of Stuart's passing, so sorry to hear this. All the good he has done and so many he has helped seems clear. Enjoyed meeting him at your family events, very special person. A loss for many in the past, present and future.
Our best wishes are with you,
Dr. Bill Bresnick and Family
Jessica Brownell
February 7, 2011
Stuart,
You saved my life. If it weren't for your help, I would not be here today. You and I were two souls that crossed paths and learned a lot from each other. I will forever miss you and you will always be in my heart.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Ray & Colleen Beck
February 7, 2011
Bike trips, road trips, ski trips, boat trips – I feel fortunate to have spent many years of my youth, adolescence and adulthood in the company of my good friend Stu. We grew up on the same street and literally left a permanent mark on Corte Palos Verdes and Reed Ranch Road ….. blood, sweat, tears and the famous “Pee Stains” that the Beck Boy’s and other neighborhood contributors are so familiar with. Stu’s presence always heightened an experience to something special, as his smile and laugh were truly infectious. I feel that I am a better person for knowing Stu and hopefully a few of his qualities have miraculously rubbed off on me over the years. Stu always had a knack for lightening the spirit in a formal situation …. He would generally start out with some good natured conversation, followed my some light antics, followed by a meatball rolling down his shirt and tie. I always had the idea when looking at Stu that somehow he was having more fun than everyone else.
When my wife Colleen and I first learned of Stu’s passing, we were in shock and couldn’t believe it …. We still can’t believe it …. This one is going to take a long time to get over.
The memorial service was truly remarkable and the outpouring of love for Stu was not surprising as he was such a very good person and true “Gentle-Man”….as I stated on the guest register at the memorial service “Keep them laughing in heaven buddy !!!”.
Love, Ray and Colleen Beck
Susan and Sol Genauer
February 6, 2011
Stuart was a special person, and will be missed by all whose lives he touched. We wish we had a chance to know him. Our prayers are with Farron and Martin and family.
Jessica Brownell
February 6, 2011
Stuart,
You always had a smile on your face, no matter how loud I screamed at you. I never saw you without a smile on your face. You were by my side at my most troubled moments, and you were there at my happiest. You taught me how to cope. Without your help, I would not be alive. You are a true hero and you will always be in my heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Adrienne Hankin
February 5, 2011
To my dear cousin Stuart, you were the fun, the light, the personality and the character of the “kids” in our generation. You always have been and will continue to be here with us. We will always save a place for you at the table and you will continue to always be included on the party list. When I drive by your childhood house, look at the creek, walk the streets of the neighborhood or play with our kids in the Bel Aire school yard – I will always think of you. I will tell Abby and the other little cousins the stories of our childhood and actively participate in creating new memories for them. I promise to always be there for your amazing wife, your incredible parents and your intensely loyal, loving sisters. Brenley and I will honor and look up to you as we did in so many ways while we were growing up. I will miss your big hugs and your endlessly positive attitude, but I will always see you in the eyes of your daughter.
Brad Hankin
February 5, 2011
Dear Uncle Stu, I love you and I miss you. I will hike Ring Mountain for you and I will take care of Abby. I talked about you at Bel Aire School. I am leaving a special picture I drew for you at the cemetary. Love, Brad
Lois & Harry Becker
February 5, 2011
Dear Farron and Martin,
It is almost impossible to express the sadness we feel for you and for your entire family. Although we never had the good fortune to meet Stuart, we feel as though we know him after reading the many heartfelt expressions of love and respect from his friends and colleagues. He was a treasure to so many. Our hearts go out to you at this sad and difficult time. People from Winnipeg seem to have a special connection. We send love to you and to all who mourn this terrible loss.
Brad Hankin
February 5, 2011
Dear Uncle Stu, I love you and I miss you. I will hike Ring Mountain for you and I will take care of Abby. Love, Brad
Ron & Meg Beck
February 5, 2011
The Becks grew up on Corte Palos Verdes knowing and loving Stuie. As many have said, to know Stu is to love him. We flew in from Seattle for the service which was so incredibly touching. Many of the old grade school and high school gang gathered afterwards to grieve, cry, laugh, toast and tell Stu stories. We agreed that the world would be a much better place if we all adopted Stuart's crazy fun and deeply thoughtful approach to life. There won't be a day that goes by where we don't think of Stuart, Liz, Abby and the amazing extended family and friend network surrounding them. We love you.
Lees Family
February 5, 2011
To the entire Brotman family:
Our family has been deeply touched by the loss of Stuart.
Every single person who got to meet Stu knew instantly that the person standing before them was someone outstandingly unique in every sense of the word. One of those people you only have a chance to encounter once in a lifetime. Of all things, Stu was just incapable of leaving you unchanged. He would seamlessly instil in all of us a true love for life and thirst to seize every moment. It was impossible not to feel the warmth of his smile and the generosity of his actions.
He truly personified the remarkable values inherited from his parents Martin and Farron. He could make everyone laugh and feel at ease just as his father and create that special empathy and connection just like his mother. He had been gifted with the ability to transform the ordinary into the extraordinary with such ease that would leave us all feeling in awe. Each moment spent with Stu had the imminent potential to become a cherished and long-lasting memory.
The most recurrent word that we will always hear whenever someone refers to him is truly SPECIAL. Adjectives such as “one-in-a-million” and “one of a kind” irremediably fall short when you try to refer to such a unique soul.
“Too quickly. Too soon. So painful” are words that have been constantly in our minds ever since we heard the news of his passing and a cloud of sadness covered our thoughts. Stu had left us to join those who dwell after life...at the same time we cannot help but smile when memories of Stu telling us stories of Abby and him coming up with ideas to play a joke on Liz, help eclipse our pain and make us think how privileged those up there who now have Stu with them are and how blessed we are because we got to know him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
The Lees family, Marbella (Spain)
Amy Love
February 4, 2011
I was a colleague of Stuart's at Seneca and was always so impressed by his open-heartedness and honesty. Some of the teens and staff he worked with are making his family a video and cards about how he impacted all of us. Please know that the youth I saw him work with felt connected and important because of Stuart and his ability to engage with them and their families. I am sending prayers and thoughts to his entire family and community.
February 4, 2011
To the entire Brotman family,
Brian and I send our heartfelt condolences on the sudden, untimely passing of your wonderful son, father, uncle and friend to so many. May God give you all strength at this difficult time.
Renee and Brian Kaplan (Winnipeg, Manitoba)
Rene Romero
February 4, 2011
To the entire Brotman family:
I'm very impressed and sad for the loss of Stuart. He always was a nice guy, happy and smart. God keep him in peace.
Danny Pollock
February 4, 2011
To the Brotman Family,
Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of your Son Stuart. I know where you are as I lost my son Steven Pollock, aged 45 6 months ago. May God grant you the strength and courage to continue on.
Alfonso Garcia
February 4, 2011
May god bless the Brotman family from all your family at CPMC Pacific campus, Alfonso Garcia And family and Housekeeping Dept.
Claudia Romero
February 4, 2011
To the Brotman Family.
I was very lucky to have met Stuart, Liz and Abby. Such a great guy, always with a smile and a positve attitude..I remember when he 'll bring Abby to my Day Care always happy and very funny.
My Condolences to his entire family.
Janet Nicksic
February 4, 2011
I see Stuart's smiling face and hear and feel his constant giggle about 2 inches away from my face. Constantly. This is how I know he is still burning so brightly and he is still so alive.
My heart goes out to Liz and to his Abby who he will always continue to protect, guide, and watch over from wherever he is right now. Many heartfelt wishes I send to all family and friends so close with Stuart. There are so many of us as he touched so many of us.
I will miss new memories of hugging him as we'd jump up and down so excited to see each other, his girlishly excitement in having "girl talk", our deep analytical conversations, his sparkling compassionate eyes, his inquisitive eyes, the way he always has a perma smile on his face as he talked, his beautiful heart and beautiful brain, all our "old gang" dinners we shared, watching you and George together and the comments that would leave tables surrounding us jolted from our laughter...
I thank you Stuart in advance for continuing to make me a better person long after you have passed from this lifetime. With all the sadness I feel from your loss I also know that you are always still so present here because I can feel you, see you, and am still laughing so loudly with you. So much love to you. Your laughing & adoring friend always, Janet
February 4, 2011
To the Brotman and Benazra Families:
How lucky we have been to be included in family events and celebrations where we were able to get to know Stuart and Liz and Abigail and the extended Brotman family. We are heart-sick at the loss of Stuart. He was so sweet and happy, lighting up the room with his smile. Reading the other entries from family and friends and the people he helped through his work reaffirms how special he was. Our condolences to you all.
Esther Hirsch and Jonathan and Marvin Bernstein
Michelle Blye
February 4, 2011
When talking of family, I always told Julian and Jeremy that Stuart is one of the good ones in this world. What a shock to have them tell me he's gone. Although Stu has left this world too soon, I know he will forever live in the hearts of all those whose paths he crossed.
Yussie and Shirley Marton
February 3, 2011
To the entire Brotman family from your extended family members living in Israel,
We were all so saddened to learn about the tragic sudden untimely passing of your precious Stuart. Please accept our sincere deep heartfelt condolences.
From our conversations with our relatives who merited to know him personally we realize what a precious loving giving soul we have lost. His light has only reached us now - just like the light of the stars reaches us so many light years after they have physically ceased to exist, in the same way the light that was Stuart has reached us here thousands of miles away in Eretz Yisrael and we feel ourselves basking in the warmth of his holy neshama and we feel blessed that he was part of our family and that he brought so much happiness and good to those he touched. He has truly touched all our hearts. May you be comforted together with all the mourners of Israel.....
Yussie and Shirley Marton and families
Gonzalo Martinez
February 3, 2011
Impossible to express how sad we are for your loss. It is overwhelming. Stuart was so warm and fun and smart. He made such an impression on us so we can only begin to imagine your loss. Praying the closeness and love in your family is getting you through these long days. Our love, Gonzalo and Jill Martinez
Charles Kreling
February 3, 2011
He was taken too soon. I had only a small number of interactions with Stuart but he left a big impression. He was a special person and I could see the immense love shown at his service.
Hearing the speakers was an amazing insight into his life through the eyes of those most close to him. It was impressive, heart warming, sad and enlightening all at once.
My very best wishes to the family and we are here for you if you need us.
Jenny Lawler
February 3, 2011
I only met Stuart a few times as he was scootering his daughter to school. He was new in the hood. We had great conversations about life, his work, and getting our families together. He had a great spirit, a quiet energy. I'm sorry we didn't get to know him better. All our love to his family.
February 3, 2011
A tragic and senseless loss. Knew Stuart as a teen and in college through family friendship. Had not seen him in years but greatly admire his professional efforts. May his name be for a blessing.
Daniel A. Weiner
Chung Kao
February 3, 2011
Dear Stuart, I know you are still here. Or, maybe we just still have the happy memories you bring.
I know you are still here. Because I still feel you are still alive.
I know you are still here because we are talking about you!
Dear Stuart, your caring sense of spirits definitely heal the ones that come across to you, the number one fun inspiring positive mentor for life!
We all know that, words can go on and on...but the memories of you keep smiles that last on the faces you've met.
You bring hope and lights to many.
You are our joyful friend. You are our compassionate companion. You are still here.
Thank you, always.
Chung Kao
February 3, 2011
Dear Stuart, I know you are still here. Or, maybe we just still have the happy memories you bring.
I know you are still here. Because I still feel you are still alive.
I know you are still here because we are talking about you!
Dear Stuart, your caring sense of spirits definitely heal the ones that come across to you, the number one fun inspiring positive mentor for life!
We all know that, words can go on and on...but the memories of you keep smiles that last on the faces you've met.
You bring hope and lights to many that you love and love you, too.
You are our joyful friend. You are our compassionate companion. You are still here.
Thank you, always.
Johnny Kao
February 3, 2011
Hi big boy, you are alway give to people and never ask anything in return. I knew you more than 30 years from Rob, I still remember you Rob and Mike Rose came to Taiwan to visit me and we all have a lot fun and it just like was yesterday. My English is not good, but you always can understand what I mean, I'm sorry because my English still not so good, I wish that I can write more with my poor English. Hi big boy, I'll tell you that you are the number one best person in my family and of course in Lee family too! We always remember you, I still keep that you sent text message said Happy New Year in my cell phone during New Year morning and I will keep this message as long as I can. Stuart we all LOVE you and MISS you too! Believe you are 100% understand my poor English.
- from uncle Johnny -
Joey Kao
February 3, 2011
You've always bring positive vibe to every single family events.. I remember spoken to you on the phone for the first time.. You were so eager to help the family out. Every time I see you, there's that confidence smile on your face.. Always brings laughter to the people around you.. I wish I could go back in time and get to know you more.. The familys going to miss you.. A lot..
Elizabeth "the other Liz" Groepler
February 3, 2011
I will always love Stuart.
A true Brotman, Stu was always reaching out and making connections with people. For many years I had the privilege of being a frequent guest in the Brotman home. My early memories of Stuart involve him bounding through the door with that big infectious smile and his beloved Barrack and Sherite in tow. I can see him 17 years old, standing there, just itching to tell his latest joke or anecdote. I distinctly remember thinking that there was something so enchanting about watching him as he shared a joke or a story with his family. Stuart always chuckled just like his dad. The chuckling would start, he would then get his mom going, and soon the rest of us were along for the ride. To love Stuart, you have to love his family.
Many people appreciated Stu for his God given gifts, but I think he was loved for what he did with those gifts. He made the effort to mirror the best things in his family, his friends, his community, and his work. When you talked with him you wanted to make him smile or see if you could make him laugh. A simple victory that made you want to claim him as confidant, friend or brother.
For his cherished Liz and beloved Abby, you made him even better, and his legacy will live on through the both of you
Stu, I know where you are. I have a pretty good idea about what you are doing, and I am so very proud!
February 3, 2011
So sorry to hear about Stuarts passing....he was a bright to many. Love & our sympathy goes out to your entire family for this lifetime. I
Lisa Crossett
February 2, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with the Brotman Family, Liz and her family. The memorial service yesterday was deeply touching and truly demonstrated how much Stuart was loved by everyone. Stuart touched many people's lives in such a positive way. We are so lucky to have known him and experience his positive outlook on life. May God comfort both Stuart & Liz's families and friends during this difficult time. Stuart you will be truly missed!
Sarah Wiebe
February 2, 2011
Stuart's heart, energy and passion will live on in each of us that had the honor to know him. I loved hearing about all the special connections Stuart had with people. He was so honest and in touch with himself that he knew how to be an amazing friend. I am honored to have had him as a friend. He could make any task new and exciting. He could turn a terrible day into a great day. He could make me believe that I could do anything. I can still see the way his face light up when he spoke of Liz and Abby during our 'therapist dinners' you couldn't help but feel his love and excitement and feel better because of it.
Liz and Abby and Stuarts family I send you all my strength and love. Know I think of you often and will carry Stuart in my heart always.
Laurene Bresnick
February 2, 2011
What an amazing man, a true mensch. The world became a better place because of him. His amazing parents, family and friends should be proud and honored to have been part of his life. So sorry for your loss.
Lorena Sanchez
February 2, 2011
Stuart was an amazing human being and will be missed always.. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to meet him, and work with him. He will be forever missed.. My heart goes out to the Brotman family..
Dore Frances, PhD
February 2, 2011
I just found out about Stuart this afternoon. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family and friends. I am heartbroken over his loss, and what so many will need to learn to live without. Stuart was just on my radio show, December 20, 2010. You can still hear this wonderful man here -http://www.latalkradio.com/images/Dore-122010.mp3. He was in Lake Tahoe on holiday when he did the show from his car. He smiled the entire time!
Shauna Matlin
February 2, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Brotman family and their extended family and in-laws. The winnipeg connection brought us all together and the California connection kept us all close for all these years. Stu and I shared many fun times during our bar/bat mitzvah year and beyond and our parents were and still are very close. You will be greatly missed and I wish you eternal peace.
Much love,
Shauna
Sandy Shindleman
February 2, 2011
To the Brotman family. The Shindlemans of Winnipeg were blessed to be included in the family simchas, where we met Stuart and the family.He was a wonderful mentor and friend to all who surrounded him. We send our sincere condolences at this horrible time.Pass our thoughts along to everyone. The Shindlemans of Winnipeg , Canada.
Gail Davis McCallister
February 2, 2011
The service for Stuart yesterday was heartbreaking and incredibly beautiful. I feel so blessed to have grown up with Stuart. He was so funny, engaging and caring. I can't picture him without a huge smile on his face. I will always remember the fun we had getting out of school early to go tape Peanuts in San Francisco, getting rides home from Redwood in his convertable and so much more. What an incredible man he became. Sending my thoughts, prayers and love from the whole Davis family. Gail Davis McCallister
Sue Terrell
February 2, 2011
No words can describe the sadness we feel in our hearts. My family is heartbroken over the loss of you. Too quickly, too soon. Through these SFGate entries, we now understand why you were never on time for anything ... you were always taking care of others. Jack and I agreed that there isn't another one out there like you. I wished there were, because it'll make this world a better place. Barry was right when he said what you have accomplished in your short 44 years is far greater than most people try to do in 88 years. Simon was spot on when he said "no one can be that nice....." My family is grateful to have you in our lives. I will always remember you as the freckled face kid who cleaned out our fridge on the daily basis, my brother's loyal partner-in-crime for 34 years. Because of you, I met the love of my life, Jack. Thank you. Rest assured, all of us will make certain Liz and Abby are never alone. We will take care of them as you have taken care all of us. Thank you for the memories. Love you, kiddo!
Jonah Opler
February 2, 2011
I was so sorry to hear the news about Stuart. I am so happy that I got to meet this nice and funny guy one time, in November.
Jonah Opler
Cindy and Michael Opler
February 2, 2011
We have been trying to compose our words for the last several days. The tragedy of the loss of Stuart has not left our minds. From the few times we have been together over the years it has become so clear to us the huge impact that Stuart had on so many people's lives, from family to friends to the many people he worked with. Like everyone, we too could not help but be attracted to the warmth that Stuart exuded. We feel fortunate to have spent some time with Stuart a few months ago. We wish and pray for strength for the loved ones he has left behind and send our deepest condolensces to Farron and Martin, Liz and Abigail and the entire family.
Cindy and Michael
Randal Schnoor
February 2, 2011
We are so sorry about the tragic loss of Stuart. The memorial service was such a wonderful tribute to a truly SPECIAL person. Wow. We should all strive to follow his example. Our thoughts are with Liz, Abigail and the extended Brotman family.
With Love,
cousins Randal Schnoor, Marsha Moshinsky, Jaeli and Shea
Ellie & Jerry Mednick
February 2, 2011
Dear Ferron & Martin: We were at the heart-wrenching but beautiful memorial for Stuart yesterday, where as parents of people that age, our hearts were broken for all of you. I regret that we had to leave immediately after for a medical appointment, and were unable to give the hugs we were aching to give you. We send our heartfelt condolences from our family to yours. Our son Ben reminds me that he and Stuart went to Israel together with Confirmation, and Lisa remembers ballet with Ilana at Ruby Christiansen's. How very dear to see all the Winnipeg contingent there! We will visit during the week.
We send much love, Ellie & Jerry Mednick
Marie Mintz
February 1, 2011
To Our Dear Stuart,
Tonight after your memorial service, several of your Seneca colleagues gathered together to share stories and eat Zachary's pizza in your honor. We know how you loved it. There was much laughter and many tears in remembering our shared experiences which you enriched immeasurably with your humor, enthusiasm, creativity, and love. Not only did you change the lives of the teens with whom you worked but you also encouraged and inspired many young (and not so young) staff members. In you, they saw the model of the kind of counselor/therapist they wanted to be. You took the time to really listen to the teens and you were there for them during their hard times. Always kind, respectful, AND always up for fun and adventure. The teens loved you. And we loved you. As your sister said, "To know Stuart is to adore Stuart". Thank you for all you gave. And thank you to Stuart's family for the lovely man you loved and nurtured and shared with all of us.
Brenley Morris
February 1, 2011
Stuie, it's your sister again. It is hard to believe that your funeral was today. Over one thousand people attended your memorial service. You live in the hearts and souls of all of us.
I love you,
Brenley
Julie Key Kelly
February 1, 2011
I am so sad to hear this news. Stuart, you made a deep impression on me when you led our trip to Israel in the early 1990s. You showed me what a caring adult looked like, and helped me believe in myself. My heartfelt condolences to the Brotman family on the passing of a generous, funny, great-hearted man.
February 1, 2011
It was my great privilege and joy to work with and learn from Stuart years ago at Grant Grover Day Treatment. He touched the lives of so many children as well as all of us staff with his special charm, empathy, and love of life. We are all so blessed to have had him in our lives. Cathy Kennedy
Tracy Notaro
February 1, 2011
Stuart....you were an inspiration to me in this life, as you are as you transition to the next.
You have always made me more mindful, but now more than ever, I have made a promise to dedicate my life to being the best person that I can be....each and every day. The beauty of you, is that you taught me so much, and you still teach me.
Life is precious....life is fragile.
Live every day as if it's your last.
We are not promised tomorrow, so don't "phone it in".
Until we meet again....please know that I will do my best to honor your memory.
My thoughts and prayers are with Stuart's precious Liz, Abigail, and all of his family, extended family, and community.
Namaste ~
Barbara Bennett
February 1, 2011
To the Brotman family
Stuart became a big part of our family at the CDC in the past few years. He was an absolutely wonderful person with a great thirst for knowledge. We will all miss him terribly.
Barbara Bennett
Bente, Gary, Michael & Trine Izing
February 1, 2011
Dear Liz and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about Stuart's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Best wishes from your old neighbors in Hamilton Park.
Ann Rowland
February 1, 2011
Stuart has been our family therapist for almost a year. He gave me many valuable parenting tools as well as support, hope, and optimism. When we conducted sessions at my house, he was always surrounded by my pets, with a cat on his lap and a dog at his feet. Stuart, thank you for your humor, patience and unflappable nature. You made a huge difference in our lives.
Orlee Kahn
February 1, 2011
We are overcome by sadness at the news of Stuart's death. Please accept our heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this time of unspeakable grief. With Much Love Always, Orlee and Jeff Kahn
Mischa McNab
February 1, 2011
Dear Liz and Family, I am proud to have had the smiles and laughter and friendship with you and Stuart. The greatest gifts a person can give are the gifts of kindness,sincerety and Love all of which Stuart gave freely.
Stuart made us all feel better after time spent with him, even for only a moment of one of those bright smiles of his !! We should all be so lucky to have a Stuart Brotman in our life.
All my Love for you Liz and family.
We Love you Stuart.
Lindsay Schachinger
February 1, 2011
Stuart was a godsend for our family five years ago, when he started working with my son. He was so dedicated, loving, non-judgmental and supportive of our whole family. He was simply an amazing man. We will miss him terribly.
Tiffany Tweedie
February 1, 2011
We were saddened to hear of Stuart's untimely passing. He has been such an instrumental force in helping my autistic son the past 5 months. He has made a difference in our family and our lives. He will be greatly missed by many, and us specifically. Our hearts go out to his family, he touched us so briefly, we can not imagine your grief. He was truly a special man.
Sandy Kahn Del Casale
February 1, 2011
Dear Brotman Family,
There are no words.......please know that the Kahn Side of the family, in Tucson,has all of you in our hearts,souls and prayers. Stuart was a kind,amazing,one-in-a million man. Our family was better for having Stuart part of our family. Bless all of you at this most difficult and heartbreaking time.
We are sending all of our love,
The Kahns and Del Casales
Robin Rouda Newman
February 1, 2011
Dear Ilana and family,
I am so very saddened to learn of your loss. Although I did not know him, your brother was clearly a mensch, who left the world a better place for having been a part of it. My deepest condolences to you.
Richard Turk
February 1, 2011
I am so very sad and distraught of over the loss of a dear friend.
Although I'm sad for the loss and pain I feel, what saddens me even more is the loss that so many people will feel over his passing. My deepest sympathy to the families of this amazing man taken so early.
I've never known anyone to affect so many people with his endless love, generosity, and substantial and concrete help. He literally helped hundreds of misguided and abused kids find a better path in life, and so many adults were influenced and inspired by his example of how to live and his unstoppable love of all that life brings. No one I've ever met understood so well the positive side of adversity or had such an ability to comfort those in pain.
You will be missed so much Stuart. So VERY much!
Thomas Laughlin
February 1, 2011
To Stuart's Family, especially Liz and Abigail, I knew Stuart for many years, in several of his many, younger guises, and as he found his way to the place where he wanted to help children. He was so gifted, so lovely, so genuine. I depended on him to be there and he was. For his life, Stuart "showed up" every time. It will be difficult without him in the way you've become accustomed. My sympathy and support to you as you begin to traverse that path. But the Light that was Stuart will always shine for me and I will always remember him as a joyous, loving person who cared for others so deeply. And he cared for both of you the very, very most.
Dahlia Ramirez
February 1, 2011
I am just heartsick to hear this sad news. My love and thoughts are with your whole wonderful family.
Jamie Foley
February 1, 2011
To the Brotman family, my deepest thoughts are sent to you! Stuart was amazing and I am so lucky to have met him many years ago as my counselor in Israel. He had the warmest heart, and the best smile. This news terribly saddens me and I just feel blessed to have such a special memory of Stuart...
Christine Andriola
February 1, 2011
To the Brotman, Benarza and Tandowsky Families,
What a terrible tragedy. I pray that God will heal this terrible heartbreak. I didn't know Stuart, however, in reading about his life passions, its clear what an amazing person he was. "May God console you among the other mourners of Zion and Jerusalem (Ha'makom yenahem etkhem betokh she'ar avelei Tziyonvi'Yerushalayim)."
In prayer and with much love,
Tom, Chrissy and the Andriola Family
Ken Constantino
February 1, 2011
To the Brotman, Benazra, and Tandowsky Families;
Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you during this difficult time. May you always be comforted by the memory of Stuart and the love of family and friends.
With Love,
Ken, Debra, and the Constantino Family
David Camper
February 1, 2011
I'll miss you, you were different then all the other therapists and psychologists I feel like you actually cared about me and took so much time to help me when I needed it. I can confidently say that I owe my life to you, you guided me through the darkest days I've ever known and time and time again you were there for me. I am going to be the best person I can be in honor of your life, the world doesn't have enough kind souls like yours so I will do everything I can to be a positive force in the world in your honor. May you rest in peace and my love goes to you and yours. Thank you so much for being you, it's not fair.
Neal Tandowsky
January 31, 2011
As Stuart's lucky brother-in-law, I have been deeply touched by all of these entries. Since Stuart had so much integrity and respected the value of confidentiality, we never knew the people that he worked with. Hearing from all of his wonderful colleagues, patients, and parents is moving and will be a treasured for his grieving family. Stuart was a star!
Jean ODonnell
January 31, 2011
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the entire Brotman family. Stuart had a special gift in touching the lives of everyone he met. How blessed I am to have known him and how deeply I share your loss. Love, Jean
Barbara Duvall
January 31, 2011
I am quite shocked. You left us so unexpectedly and far too soon. Stuart, you were so full of vitality and love for your family, and you gave so much of yourself to help troubled youth.I respected and admired you and appreciated working with you.May your loved ones know how much the world will miss you and may God help comfort their grief.
Karlynn (Gaare) Scott
January 31, 2011
I wish I had some amazing words of wisdom or comfort but all I can offer is my truest and deepest sympathies. May your wife and daughter find comfort in this time. I am thankful for having crossed your path and gotten to know you.
Marla Schneidman
January 31, 2011
I am deeply saddened to learn of Stuart's death. I will always remember Stuart as a happy, fun, spirited person and the great guy who escorted me to my high school senior prom in 1984. I will think of Stuart on our confirmation trip to Israel in 1982, the time we saw each other in San Diego and the last time I saw him at his garage sale in Hamilton Field, Novato 10 years ago. The Schneidman family is thinking of your family during this sad and difficult time and sends you our deepest sympathies and condolences.
January 31, 2011
Someone so special......will never be forgotten. Stuart, you will live in our hearts forever. Stacy, Steve and Rebecca Fox (Cypress, TX)
Teri Cooper
January 31, 2011
Stuart, You went beyond the norm while working with my son's anxiety disorder. You made yourself available beyond what was expected and provided support in a loving and respectful manner. We always looked forward to seeing your cheerful and encouraging presence. We miss you already, thank you for all the support you gave to our family over the years.
David Heckenlively
January 31, 2011
Stuart, I will always remember you. Your unwavering compassion as a person, but in particular toward the kids and families you worked with, will always live in my heart and remind me of what is really important in life. You were a brother in many ways and I will carry on the work we both did for children, teens, young adults and their families. I believe you would tell all of us right now to honor his life but to not dwell on it and to go out there and shine to the world, not take everything so seriously, and never forget to laugh and play. I look forward to paling with you when I get to where you are. Love ya bro!
Carol Singer
January 31, 2011
Stuart was incredibly talented in working with the kids at Grant Grover Day Treatment Program. He treated them with respect and kindness and they blossomed in his care. He always went out of his way to understand and meet their needs and was an extraordinary colleague. He was such a joy to work with and to supervise. Full of fun, humor, and skill. May his memory be for a blessing.
January 31, 2011
It is with profound sadness that Stuart is gone from our view. He will always live in our memories and in our hearts. My deepest sympathies to his devoted and loving family.
Elaine Levy Marlow and Family
Rianna Bensing
January 31, 2011
Such an amazing man with the gift to be able to truly think outside the box. You inspired so many-you loved with all of your heart. Our "therapist" dinners were always alive with laughter because of you. My prayers for your wife, daughter, and family who you love so tremendously-may they keep you with them always.
Dallas Fletcher
January 31, 2011
Stuart,
At one of our staff meetings, you brought everyone a length of thread and a small bag of beads. You encouraged us to identify a word that keeps us coming back to the work--hope, joy, pride, etc.--and then to share our beads with each other. Now I have a string of beads that hangs from my rearview mirror and reminds me every day of the values you and I and the rest of our team shared, and keeps me going even on the toughest days. This is one of those tough days. Thank you for leaving me with a tangible representation of the light and compassion you embodied.
Jennifer Miles
January 31, 2011
Stuart, you brought love and light to so many people. Know that you helped make this world a better place.
I will remember you and all your love.
Linda Leu
January 31, 2011
Stuart,
I only knew you for a short time, but I know the love and light you brought to the world will not be forgotten. Deepest condolences to your family.
Megan O'Kane
January 31, 2011
I don't think there was ever a time when I didn't see an infectious smile on Stuart's face. He always managed to brighten my day, and he will be truly missed.
Kerryn La Duc
January 31, 2011
You were a ray of light, a true optimist and a loving person. We feel blessed in every way to have known you. May Elizabeth, Abigail and all your family find strength through your life.
Danny & Sheila Rother
January 31, 2011
Our deepest sympathies to the entire Brotman family. A terrible loss of a class person with a beautiful aura about him. Our thoughts and prayers are with his loved ones.
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