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Thomas Edward Delany

1960 - 2023

Thomas Edward Delany obituary, 1960-2023, San Francisco, CA

BORN

1960

DIED

2023

Thomas Delany Obituary

Thomas Edward Delany
June 22, 1960 - November 5, 2023
He was 63 years young, a good heart, a rascal, constant in his love and loyalty for his family, for those lucky enough to be called his friend, and especially for his beloved SF Giants and 49ers! He leaves behind his deeply loved son, Thomas Edward Delany II, his "son from another father" Daniel Genochio; their mother, Helen Phillipi; six sisters, Ellen Caldwell, Patricia Moore, Elaine Coleman, Sharon Holsinger, Ann Vanderheide, Rita Walsh; one brother, Michael Coleman; numerous nieces, nephews, and many beloved friends. He was proud of his 21 years of hard-earned sobriety and grateful for/to the men and women he met through Project 90 Inc., who mentored him through that journey, and grateful for/to those he mentored in return. He loved his ZSFG Facilities Dept. job and work buddies - he thought he won the lottery the day he got hired with them. He loved all things Irish and "Irish King" was his self-appointed moniker. Tom fought a long, hard battle against head & neck cancer for 3.5 years with positivity, an ever-present grin, and little complaint but, in the end, the cancer won. He lived life on his terms and went out the same way. We're sure he is happily "gone fishing" by heaven's lakes with his best pal "Seanny Boy" and the rest of his fishing buddies who preceded him. A Celebration of Life will be held at the Irish Cultural Center, San Francisco on Sunday, December 17, 2023, from 12 noon to 4 p.m. Donations in Tom's memory can be made to Project 90 Inc., 416 2nd Avenue, San Mateo, Calif. 94401. May he rest in peace.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 9 to Dec. 11, 2023.

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Ray A. Van Raden

December 18, 2024

Thinking of you during the Holiday Season my friend, you are truly missed!!

Rosie Maffei

December 17, 2023

Bye "Tommy" thanks for always being you... Make sure you watch those Niners games from the clouds !!

Ted Melendez

December 14, 2023

Sorry to see another brother from the neighborhood gone! rest in peace, Tom, may the Lord bless you; and keep you!

Carmen

December 12, 2023

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December 12, 2023

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Carmen

December 12, 2023

Tom Thank you for your love and friendship, we had 8 happy years, we didn't always agree but in the end it worked, we were always there for each other, even though I didn't get to say Goodbye, I have many memories of you, and I have videos of us fishing, and enjoying our life, Goodbye my Love, your always in my Heart

Ray Van Raden

December 12, 2023

The pictures I posted are of Tommy doing a project for me, one of many. He was my handyman, my SOBRIETY Brother, but most of all he was my FRIEND! He will surely missed. God´s speed my friend.

Al Verzosa

December 11, 2023

Dear Tom .you are part of a family I never had.You and those around you are touchstones in my life. I miss your company. ANd when I listen to BAD Company it will bring me back to the many summers we all spent being KIDS THANK YOU TOM ..REST IN PEACE

Ray Van Raden

December 10, 2023

Ray Van Raden

December 10, 2023

Jennifer Cirigliano

December 10, 2023

I will miss you forever my dear sweet pickles.

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