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Thomas James Molumphy

1937 - 2023

Thomas James Molumphy obituary, 1937-2023, San Mateo, CA

BORN

1937

DIED

2023

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Thomas Molumphy Obituary

Thomas James Molumphy
April 4, 1937 - June 11, 2023
Loving husband, father, and grandfather Thomas James Molumphy passed away in Burlingame, California surrounded by loved ones on Sunday June 11th. Tom was born on April 4, 1937 in East Hartford, Connecticut to Stuart and Helen Molumphy. While attending school, he worked for his father's Silver Lane Pickle Company and rooted for his beloved Red Socks and Ted Williams. He excelled in school and sports, and was a dual sport athlete at Yale, following President Bush as captain of the baseball team, and playing point guard on the basketball team, including a NCAA tournament game against Jerry West. His greatest college accomplishment was meeting the love of his life, Elizabeth, and after their marriage they moved to New York City. After a lifetime together, the two celebrated their 64th wedding anniversary in June. While in business school at the University of Chicago, the couple visited and fell in love with Northern California, and Tom opened the Standard & Poors San Francisco office in 1966 and later started his own firm, Molumphy Capital Management, where he served his clients until his final days. However, Tom's greatest joy was his family. Daughters Meg and Amy and sons Chris and Mark traversed the California coast in the family stationwagon, with Tom disregarding any offering of directions. Tom loved his visits to Santa Barbara, Hawaii and the Upside in Carmel. He loved coaching his children's sports teams, and developed new passions for golf and tennis at the Olympic Club, where he built long lasting friendships and enjoyed mixed tennis with Elizabeth, dances with his daughters, and tournaments with his sons. He loved visits with his sisters-in-law Noel and Karen, his brother David, Carol and their four daughters from Connecticut, and annual holiday dinners with his sister Nancy, Wiley and their three sons in Los Altos. Over the final decades of his life, Tom was the consummate grandfather, organizing his schedule by the daily performances, games and birthday dinners of his 11 grandchildren. Tom was so proud of their accomplishments and made it a point, just as he had with his own children, to be present at their important milestones. Tom was a devoted parishioner at St. Catherine's Church and proudly helped finance and build the Parish Center and Gym. Tom was a loyal friend to those he met and an even better husband, father and grandfather. Tom is survived by his wife Elizabeth; by his children Meg, Chris, Mark and Amy; by his sons-in-law Geoff McKee and Bren Higgins; by his daughters-in-law Tina Molumphy and Erikka Molumphy; and by his eleven spirited grandchildren Brian (Diana), Kyle and Madison McKee, Jack, Kevin and Nicole Molumphy, Bridgette and Thomas Molumphy, and Ryan, Jared and Garrett Higgins. A Rosary to celebrate Tom's life will be held on Tuesday, June 20, 2023 at 9:45 am, followed by a Funeral Mass at 10 am, and a reception, at St. Catherine's of Siena Church at 1310 Bayswater Ave., Burlingame, CA 94010.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jun. 15, 2023.

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Bob Callan

June 22, 2023

Elizabeth, Chris and Mark,
I was saddened to hear about Tom. I always enjoyed the golf games and conversations we had over the years. He was truly a good guy who will be long remembered.
Bob Callan

Alana A Fitzgerald

June 20, 2023

I will never forget the lovely Carmel, Easley wedding when still very handsome Tom got up and made a mission of dancing with each of the "single" ladies at our table, widows, spinsters, my self included, my mom as my dad was ill.
He was such a gentleman and we all knew how wonderful he was. God Bless you Mr. Molumphy, see you in heaven.

Cluster of 50 Memorial Trees

From Eric Wong and Family

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Joe Hallisy

June 19, 2023

Met Tom in the early 80's playing basketball against him
at the Olympic Club. Despite his highly successful educational, athletic, and business backgrounds, he was
the most humble person you could ever meet. If you
look in any dictionary under the word class, you will see
Tom's picture. RIP my friend.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Allan Hitchcock

Sent Flowers

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

David Azzopardi

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John Yacavone

June 15, 2023

Elizabeth, I am so sorry for your lost. Tom was a wonderful high school classmate.

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Jun

20

Rosary

9:45 a.m.

St. Catherine of Siena Church

1310 Bayswater Ave., Burlingame, CA

Jun

20

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

St. Catherine of Siena Church

1310 Bayswater Ave, Burlingame, CA

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CLOSED-Crosby-N. Gray & Co. Funeral Home and Cremation Service

2 Park Road, Burlingame, CA 94010

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