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Sandi Porter
March 17, 2025
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
February 2, 2025
A dear friend and wonderful confidant
Roberta Weisenburg
January 27, 2025
I was truly saddened to hear of the passing of Ty.
We not only worked together for decades, he was a good friend and neighbor. He was such an intelligent, hard working guy, who was also incredibly generous. When Hurricane Ivan hit the Cayman Islands, he sent multiple generators to help the people he had met on many of his trips there. He was a great coworker and could really service the masses. We were often dealt huge rushes of people when shows were nearby, and our bar was not designed for such service, but we would all come together and get out those drinks. He could recite long poems from memory, and knew so many sports facts. I will always remember he would insist on taking me to the airport, because we lived so close to one another, and I would say no, " I'll take a cab." and he would insist on driving me, especially if it was early morning. He would also give me advice on my travel safety. We lost touch when I left the City, and I was disheartened to hear of his retirement, because I knew how much he loved his role at the Huntington's Big 4 lounge. I personally witnessed the many enduring friendships he held with our returning regular guests and neighborhood patrons. Sending my sincere condolences to his family and many friends.
Roberta Weisenburg

Martin Annush
January 26, 2025
Miss Ty´s positive attitude. Many customers were coming to see him across whole United States. He had such a great personality and kept the guest entertained with many jokes. My condolences to his family. He will be missed.
Angie
December 11, 2024
He was a customer of ours at Safeway diamond heights . Always Nice . You will be missed !!
Robert Bartoletti
December 3, 2024
Robert Bartoletti, EdD
14 Tuscany Drive
Princeton Junction, NJ 08550
609.922.2296 [email protected]
December 3, 2024
Dear Kathleen and Ty´s family,
Receiving your call in October ago to tell me the sad news about Ty´s passing was a shock to my system. This was so sad to hear.
The night after receiving the tragic news, I could not sleep knowing how Ty suffered during those days leading to his death. However, during those waking hours that evening and throughout the week I reflected upon the Ty as I knew him and of course the friendship we forged as well as our friendship over the past 20 years. So many good memories and happy moments I spent with Ty and you at the Big Four. Those moments will never be forgotten.
Whenever JoAnn and I think about our beloved San Francisco and our "home away from Home", The Huntington Hotel, The Big Four, we think of Ty and you. I recall with great fondness many nights when you would arrive after work, and we would close the bar and enjoy that final night cap with Ty... JoAnn would always say as I returned to our room, " I knew you were in good company with Ty and Kathleen". Such a good memory!
Although I may not have the sequence exactly right, the last time I spoke to Ty, he was still tending bar, and he told me about his injury. Then on our next trip to the hotel, I learned that Ty had retired. That had to be November of 2019.... Then the ugliness of Covid followed. I do recall you providing me with the verification of Ty´s phone number. I called but I never heard from him again.
For the past 2 years, we still travel to San Francisco for Thanksgiving but spend our time in Napa but do stay a night or two at the Fairmont. We walk by the shuttered Big Four and a wave of sadness washes over us, but it is overshadowed by the happy days we spent there; the people we met and the wonderful hotel and Big Four staff. Believe me, we miss the level of hospitality we came to enjoy there and the many locals we met primarily due to Ty.
When I reflect upon Ty´s life, not his death, I recall a smart, personable, honest, and talented man who could do his job with a high degree of efficiency managing a bar, major restaurant, lounge even when the place was slammed as Ty would say. As he did his work filling never ending drink orders from the three locations plus room service, he never missed a beat. Carrying on conversations with twenty people at the bar, remembering our favorite drinks and always expressing genuine interest in everyone´s´ life stories and careers.
He was always available for people, even those who at times he needed to say, "You had enough, and I will call you a cab if you are driving!" I also saw him escort folks out of the bar if they crossed the limit of proper behavior.... He genuinely cared about his colleagues and the people he served. He made everyone feel special.... Ty was special. I have been in hotel bars and restaurants too numerous to count. I never met a bartender of Ty´s caliber......his work ethic, his kindness, his personality, his sense of humor and quick wit.... Gosh we loved the guy....
His jokes, sometimes corny but always funny and his political point of view aligned with ours always stimulated friendly conversation ...smart conversation...Kathleen, ...how about this...Ty would start..." a guy walks into a bar and.... The joke begins.... I am terrible remembering jokes...but not Ty.... Such a wonderful, thoughtful, and caring man. So, in our grief, we must try to recall those happy moments we spent with Ty. I know JoAnn and I will, and I know you will too...A person never dies if he/she continues to be remembered. We will continue to remember Ty as a good friend who made this crazy world a bit better for everyone who came to know him. May he rest in peace and may the perpetual light shine upon his soul. God Bless!
Sincerely,
Bob and JoAnn
Jamie
December 2, 2024
Ty was gracious enough to invite me and my fiancé to join him at his Condo in the Caymans where I married my wife. I wouldn´t have thought about getting married there if he had not made that offer. Just one example of his kindness and thoughtfulness. All around great guy.
Sara
December 1, 2024
Ty was truly one of a kind - I never saw anyone work so hard, keep his cool, and engage with customers all at the same time. Was incredibly sad to learn of his passing. Thanks for your friendship. Sara


Cathie
December 1, 2024
Ty was a dear person, who created a welcome, beautiful bar for locals, regulars and international travelers. He could speak on nearly every subject, and delighted and lifted the spirits of many with well-told jokes and stories. He had a great talent with people and bringing them together, as well as handling any disruptions with discretion. Over the years he helped to guide me through many ups and downs of living in the city, and was always so delightful and very wise. He sure was patient with me. He had a large heart for people, and a deep joy and excitement of life that was infectious. I went on a few group trips with him and people in different countries enjoyed his company - a couple of small restaurants even bringing us extra food. He was a blessing for us and will be missed very much. He was a very special person and I feel very lucky to have known him and been a part of his life. Thank you so much Ty, for being you, your friendship and the care you gave so many of us.
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