Wayne Douglas Del Carlo of San Mateo, CA, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his family.

He is survived by wife and high school sweetheart Roxana, daughter Alexandra Peterson (Robert), son Christopher (Dionne), and four beloved grandchildren, twins Mason and McKenzie Peterson, and Simone and Neve Del Carlo, who affectionately called him "Grumpy"; and brother Dennis Del Carlo (Phyllis).

Growing up in the Marina, Wayne attended St. Vincent de Paul School. He graduated from St. Ignatius High School, University of San Francisco, and University of the Pacific Dental School.

He served in the US Navy, Fleet Marine Force, at Camp Pendleton, CA and Camp Courtney, Okinawa.

Dr. Del Carlo practiced dentistry at 450 Sutter for 48 years and stayed connected with patients after retirement. He sat on the San Francisco Dental Society Board of Directors for 44 years, serving as Secretary, Vice President, and President.

Proud of the work he performed as Chair of Peer Review and Judicial Council for the California Dental Association, he was also an American Dental Association Delegate and served on the Board of Directors for Delta Dental and the International College of Dentists.

Volunteer projects close to his heart included providing free dental exams to Peace Corps volunteers and through Project Homeless Connect, as well as Kindergarten School Screenings.

Wayne was President of the International Domino Association, an avid 49ers season ticket holder, and a member of the SF Italian Athletic Club. Other passions included fishing, traveling, photography, gardening, and camping at Cal's Lair of the Golden Bear for 36 years.

Coinciding with his wishes, no services will be held. Please celebrate his life by giving to Guide Dogs for the Blind or Ducks Unlimited.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Apr. 2 to Apr. 5, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Wayne Carlo

20 Entries

Patrick Calahan

December 3, 2021

I was saddened to come across this page. I was a patient of Dr. Del Carlo for a short time before his retirement. In the few visits I had with him, I was touched by his kindness, honor and sense of history. Visiting him felt like travelling back to a better time, and his passing feels like a loss to us all.

Mina Barrett Lunt

July 16, 2021

Roxie, I am so sorry. So many memories of the old SI gang.

Ann Robinson

May 30, 2021

I am so sorry for you loss. Dr. DelCarlo has been my dentist since I was 21 (45 years), and no one has been able to take his place. He lived a great life. And it was my pleasure knowing him. May he Rest in Peace.

Sean Sharp

September 7, 2020

I'm so sorry to hear about Dr. Del Carlo. I was a patient of his for a number of years, up until his retirement. I remember, as a captive audience, being entertained by his stories of growing up in the Marina and his other reminiscences of an older and kinder San Francisco.

Cindy Konecny

August 10, 2020

I was so shocked to hear of dr DelCarlo’s passing. I was a patient until I moved to Colorado in 2017. I even flew back a few times for my cleanings. I couldn’t bare to go to another Dentist. I heard he retired, but never knew it was for health reasons. I know he will be missed greatly by his family, friends and patients. So sorry for your loss.

john motroni

June 2, 2020

Im sad to learn of Waynes passing. He was my dentist for his entire career. He was also our family dentist. Wayne was the ultimate professional and a kind and gentle man. Ill miss the conversations about growing up in the City, about Italian-American life, and the changing nature of dentistry throughout the decades. He was truly a special person we were all fortunate enough to know.

Always Multitasking

Robert Peterson

April 9, 2020

Doc was a great dentist, man, and father-in-law. He was a man of few words much of the time, especially when I began to date his daughter. Over the years I heard so many dental stories, stories about the old neighborhood, the history of San Francisco...one thing that never changed was his service to others. Be it as a Naval dentist, or sitting on many boards over the years to ensure that mouth health was a priority, and available. Under his direction his grandkids never had a cavity. A good life. An honorable life. We are all better for having Wayne Del Carlo as part of our lives. RIP

Megan Lawrence

April 8, 2020

Wayne del Carlo was my dentist from when I was three until his retirement, about 45 years. I remember as a child loving my trips to the dentist because at the end I could pick out a toy from the toy drawer. And when I brought my own kids 37 years later he still offered up jump ropes and plastic rings from the drawer. His patience with children was beautiful.

I learned a lot about Dr. Del Carlo after 120+ visits. He spoke lovingly and proudly of his children and later grandchildren. He spoke of his high school shenanigans, most of which he got away with. And he spoke of his visits with his mother and the San Francisco neighborhood he grew up in.

He wasn't always a fan of change. He didn't like creative dental billing that unbundled treatments to bill more for insurance. He didn't see the need to adopt any other software product than his trusty 1990s FileMaker Pro. And he thought rating dentists on Yahoo.com was an abomination.

Dr. Del Carlo's commitment to service went beyond service to his profession and volunteering in schools. He mentored me as I worked to navigate dental board regulations for my college's dental assisting program. When my son needed an orthodontist, he immediately got on the phone with his network to find the best in my county. He spoke proudly of working with the dental board to test newly educated dentists. If there was some way Dr. Del Carlo could help you, he would.

If he was ever tired or having a bad day, hebnever showed it. His demeanor was always cheerful, engaging, and supportive. As a teenager, I thought he was way cooler than my own parents.

I'm deeply saddened to learn of Dr. Del Carlo's passing, and my thoughts are with the family I've learned so much about over the years. He was a great person and will be missed. He deserves to be drinking a glass of good wine up in heaven.

April 8, 2020

so sorry I grew up with Wayne on the same block on Lombard Street We went to St. Vincent de Paul. Many, many wonderful and funny memories. Sounds like you had a wonderful life I found a birthday card you gave me for my sixth birthday a few months ago Wow that's forever ago.

Pat Biada Williams

Arleen

April 6, 2020

I worked for Dr. Del Carlo in the early 70s. He was always patient and kind and treated me with respect. Loved his smile and how he enjoyed his patients. Hope you didnt suffer much RIP Dr. Del Carlo.

April 6, 2020

So very sorry to hear that Wayne has passed away. He was an honorable, humorous, and easy-going person but also a real stickler to details. I enjoyed his stories and sense of humor. He was committed to the dental profession, the International College of Dentists, and to his patients. I will miss him as a friend and colleague. May he Rest in Peace.
Ron Paler

Arleen

April 6, 2020

I worked for Dr. Del Carlo in the mid 70s as a dental assistant. He was very patient and kind, I thought of him often he always treated me with respect. RIP Dr. Del Carlo my heart goes out to your family.

April 6, 2020

Dr del carlo was my dentist for 32 yrs,I echo all the comments on his death,he was a great man, and will be sorely missed. david knox.

Sanjay Patel

April 5, 2020

RIP Wayne We will miss your smile & great personality. You were always willing to mentor and help. Loved each and every occasion when we met and discussed about our professional and personal lives. You never stopped working hard to make our profession better and helped young professionals. See you on the other side.

Judee Tippett-Whyte

April 5, 2020

Wayne will be missed in the many spheres he influenced! I was fortunate to work with him professionally through organized dentistry and have fun at Lair of the Bear - Week 6! Rest In Peace Wayne. Sending my love and prayers to his family during this difficult time. Go Bears and Blue cheats!❤

Margo and Curt Johnson

April 4, 2020

We feel your loss, Roxana and family. We have lost a gentleman, a colleague, and a friend. We feel privileged to have known him and to have shared a small piece of his life. RIP, Wayne.

edward musante

April 4, 2020

Dear Roxanne and friends and family of Wayne. I am so very sorry to read that Wayne has passed away. Wayne and i and others used to hang out together in the Marina Dist at John Isi's drug store on Octavia and Lombard. I have not seen Wayne since i departed San Francisco in 1963 to attend Navy OCS but i never forgot his laughter and his good nature. I always felt that we were good friends with similar backgrounds , then Wayne went to dental school and married Roxanne and i made a career as a Naval Officer. Wayne was a genuine and faithful person and i regret that i was not in the Bay Area to enjoy his company. God bless Wayne, Roxanne .
Sincerely
Ed Musante

William van Dyk

April 3, 2020

We are all so sorry to lose Wayne. he was a wonderful person and a stalwart in the dental community. I looked forward to meeting with him regularly as members of the American College board. He will be sorely missed.

pat colelman

April 2, 2020

Dr.Del Carlo was my dentist for 46 years. Having been a battered kid, I was so jittery about having someone hover over my face that Dr. Del Carlo was the only dentist I wanted to go to. He took his time, made a few jokes, paused with the drill and took care of things. I received a free toothbrush too.
When I moved to the town of Sonoma, I returned to The City because I would go to no other dentist. My kids went to Dr. Del Carlo, and my grand kids also.
I'm sorry to learn that Dr. Del Carlo is gone. I hope he didn't suffer and I'm glad his family was with him.
He was a very good man. Blessed be his life.
Pat Coleman

Jim Conrardy

April 2, 2020

The world lost a great professional, humanitarian, and leader! I will miss Waynes friendship and I will miss traveling with both Wayne and Roxanna! My heart goes out to Roxanna and Wayne's family!

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