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1958
DIED
2022
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Paul Jacobson Obituary
What would PJ say? He would say his life has been a good one. He was blessed with two wonderful children, Jennifer (CJ) Schmiege and Derek; as well as his bonus grandchildren, Kaiden and Michelle; his two wives he loved, Gretchen and his late wife, Jerri Kay. He would say he couldn't have asked for a better family, the Fabulous Seven and their spouses, Jeff Hentschel, Judy (Greg); brothers, Dave, Jeff (Tina), and Gale (Susie); Diane (Bob), and Caryl (Greg); his special mother, Carmen Zack; and his adored nieces and nephews, Alyssa, Adam, Elizabeth, Emily, Travis, Heidi, Katie, Colby, and Owen.
He would say he fought hard to beat cancer to have one more day with you. He couldn't have fought this fight without the Watkins Warriors, Cincinnati Connection, the one and only Buckeye Fan, Brothers from another mother, Soda pop and the entire Love family, Hobo Lauren, his Green Beret, his Marine veteran and loving wife Bet, entire Krohn family, his fishy friends, Hokey family, Consumers Energy family, the amazing Dr. Wright, nurse Julie, all members of the SSS, loving mother-in-law Nancy, Lois Jaekel, and the rest of the army he had supporting him.
He would say to remember the laughs, memories made, to never give up, and thank you for everything you have ever done for him. He will be waiting for you on the other side, with Peanut, fried bologna sandwich in hand, and a grape Faygo pop.
Per Paul's wishes there will be no service, but the family hopes you will consider joining them in spirit wherever you are at, on Sept. 30, 2022 at 12 p.m. for a moment of silence to pay tribute to a wonderful man.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to do a pay it "paulward" with a random act of kindness.
Beacon Cremation & Funeral Service, White Lake Chapel, is in charge of arrangements.
www.beaconfh.com
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Ray Bailey
September 14, 2024
Still remember the great time .
Raymond Bailey
September 14, 2023
He left a mark on many. Years ago, I was at a corporate meeting and the speaker made a comment " He wore his clothes out from the inside". That is how I remember Paul, always moving , smiling and laughing.
Greg Mann
September 14, 2023
Paul, it has been a year now since you left us physically but you’d be so proud. Your family is strong, happy and forever honors you every day. All you worried about is for naught as Gretchen is stronger, more reflective and doing great. Jenny has become that strong and loving wife and mother you said she would be and Derek has grown and matured so much in past year. You live on in all and their happiness and peace is because of you.
We all miss you but I told you that your attitude and smile touched all you engaged with. I got this too and will see you one day but will honor you every day by loving and living life to its fullest!
Love you #20
Greg Mann
Amy Urban
October 13, 2022
So, so sorry, Gretchen and family! Paul was such a friendly, happy, positive spirit. He will be missed by so many.
Suzzi Lang
September 29, 2022
Gretchen I am thinking of you during this terribly sad time! My heart is breaking for you. I’m sending hugs from Florida and hope you can feel them from here.
Steven Smith Jr
September 27, 2022
Paul and I met when I was hired at Consumers Energy in 2013. I recalled when he sit next to me during my interview and looked me in the eye and said, "All I want to know is, can play golf". I said to him, "I have 2 sets of clubs". Paul then said, "that is not what I asked you, I don't care if you have 2 sets of clubs, I ask you if you can play golf". That was the beginning of our friendship and he picked me for his golf partner. I will truly miss his joking comebacks and I have always told PJ that he should be in Las Vegas on the stage with his jokes and comeback on little things that would make you laugh. You are not here physically, but you will forever be in our hearts with you compassion and love for people. Love ya PJ!
Patricia Lockhart
September 25, 2022
Don and I met Paul while working at the Consumers Project, what a wonderful man he has touched Don and I more ways than anyone could ever imagine! He was our Sun when things were gray! Always would say "Keep on keeping on better days ahead ".
We sure are going to miss his beaming smile, and funny texts he would send .
Love ya P to the Paul, until we meet again ❤
Your friends Team Lockhart
Harry & Loretta Meersma
September 25, 2022
You fought a battle with cancer and were very courages and brave. Your physical absence is only temporary we will see you again after this sleep. God will comfort the families during this period of mourning. Love from Harry and Loretta
Michelle Goodrich
September 24, 2022
Gretchen and family, I am so sorry to read of Paul’s passing. I cannot imagine the huge hole this leaves in your hearts and lives. I am praying you find comfort in wonderful memories and strength in the love and support of those who love you and who loved Paul. May God guide you on this journey and give you His perfect peace and comfort.
John Nadeau
September 24, 2022
I worked with and FOR a handful of people in my career with Consumers. I can say, without a doubt, the Paul was the best EVER! Very likeable people person! I will miss him as will anybody who has ever known him! Rest my friend!
Melissa Sherman
September 23, 2022
So sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed working with Paul up at Ludington Pumped Storage. He will be greatly missed.
Brenda Asiedu
September 23, 2022
Speechless me and Paul shared a few conversations in school. We had Mr. Dan Wright for a class. Now you resting in peace and that what's matter. Amen
Brenda Williams Asiedu
Michael Krohn
September 23, 2022
It would be hard to find a better man or a better friend
James Lee Harmon
September 23, 2022
Paul was more than my boss at consumers energy he was my friend! In fact I believe he was a friend to anyone he met. I pray that this family continues to be strengthened in this time of grief. In the Paul Jacobson vernacular " Catch you on the flip side my brutha"!
Frederic Wolf
September 23, 2022
The amazing one thing about Paul was his living in his true authentic self. From the first day I met him he never wavered.
Greg Mann
September 22, 2022
Paul we shall meet again and I am so grateful for the past 50+ years. So many memories and deep conversations. From bike rides for donuts and chocolate milk, Mohawk hockey games, football from 4th grade to 12th and so much more. You inspire me and I Paul it forward often. We got this. Forever my longest and dearest friend.
Sally Dion
September 21, 2022
Paul was a nice man, I met him first at the White Duck Market when they were building their house on Lakewood. Then I continued to know him when he came into Fruitland Township where I work. Everytime he came in I always asked so hows it going, and everytime, he would say great, I am still here. Prayers & love to his entire family & friends, he will be missed.
Delores & Shirley Davis, Rachel Wallace
September 21, 2022
Paul was a beautiful person. A true friend & brother to the Watkins family & their aunties. He will truly be missed with his gentle spirit & warm smile. Our condolences go out to his wife & children along with his good friends. His smile & spirit will never be forgotten. Craig´s aunties
Mark Bunda
September 21, 2022
A good friend from Elk Lake and A-Ga-Ming Golf course says rest in peace, brother. Keep the door open for me!
Mel (HC) Owens
September 21, 2022
There's a hole in my heart and it hurts so bad.
It's hard when you lose someone who, though from a completely different culture, showed you unconditional love.
It was just a few weeks ago that Jake and I were sharing memories of our terrible hooks and slices during highschool golf. I took him to his first football game at The Big House. We shared a memory of me bringing home a Richard Pryor album from college and hiding it from our parents. The next week when I returned home for a visit, the whole basketball team was quoting the Pryor verbatim with perfect inflections at every opportunity. We laughed incessantly.
We always ended every conversation with an expression of friendship and love. I will forever cherish the very last words we exchanged in text just a few weeks ago. We shared one last memory of me being in college at U of M and picking up the phone to call and at exactly the same time he was calling me. Neither of our phones rang but we were immediately connected. We had that kind of connection. With that, in parting I said, "I love you my friend," to which he responded as alway, "I love you too, my brother."
There's a hole in my heart and it hurts so bad.
So a word of advice as Jake would give. Put things in their proper perspective and cherish every single moment with friends and family. I can hear him saying, "I made room for you to fill that damn hole with new wonderful memories with friends and family."
I promise to do my best Jake, but you will never be replaced. You will forever be missed Paul David (Jake) Jacobson. R.I.P., I love you, my BROTHER!
Carolyn Carter
September 21, 2022
You will be missed my classmate. Love to the family.
Ed Vander ploeg
September 21, 2022
Great guy ! You will be missed .
Michelle VanderLeest
September 21, 2022
From the first day I met Paul in ninth grade I knew I would never forget him. What a beautiful person! He had the most wonderful sense of humor and smile. He could warm your heart just by walking in the room. I know how much he loved and cherished Jen and Derek. He will be on their shoulders guiding them through life from above. Our deepest condolences to Jen, Derek and his entire family. Love the VanderLeest Family ❤
Eileen Stoffan
September 21, 2022
Very sad to hear this; love to you, Gretchen, Jennifer, and Derek
Eileen
Martha Webb
September 21, 2022
What a tribute written in Paul´s obituary! He truly was a one of a kind guy! We all are better for knowing him! Gretchen and family you have my sincere sympathies! Paul would call you his heroes! We will miss him at City Side, there will be a big hole in the schedule!
Mary Wiegers Cooper
September 21, 2022
From the days when we were little kids on the school bus to these many years through adulthood, Paul's kindness and caring heart touched so many. A true gentleman and all around stand up guy. Condolences to the family. May you cherish your amazing memories.
Albert Nichols
September 21, 2022
My condolence to you and your family! Albert Nichols
Cindy & Ted Dorsey
September 21, 2022
We are so sorry for the loss of Paul. He fought a good fight and is now free of pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Gretchen and Family. Ted & Cindy Dorsey
Rhonda (jones) Rosencrants
September 21, 2022
Such a nice guy!! Always had a smile and said HI.
Terri and Ed Luiszer
September 21, 2022
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Connie
September 21, 2022
When I first met Paul I was actually a little suspicious. He was so outgoing, energetic, kind and everyone´s friend and I thought he couldn´t be genuine. But he was. That was Paul and I am so thankful that I could call him my friend too. May God bring comfort and peace to Gretchen and the family.
Chip David
September 21, 2022
So sorry to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and all of the his family. I am blessed to say Paul ("Jake") was my friend. In every conversation we shared over the years, he was always the voice of encouragement. I'm confident he has touched many lives.
Bret & Laura Hendrie
September 21, 2022
Our thoughts and prayers are with Paul's entire family. We both have such fond memories of our school days together. ❤
barb maat
September 21, 2022
So sorry
Bill and Deb Homrich
September 21, 2022
I am blessed to say I was a friend of Paul's for many years. The one word that comes to me to describe Pail would be 'genuine'. He was genuinely kind, friendly, sincere, generous, devoted; the list goes much further than the space allowed. I love you Brother Paul. Rest in Peace.
Jen Schmiege
September 21, 2022
Jen Schmiege
September 21, 2022
Jen Schmiege
September 21, 2022
Jen Schmiege
September 21, 2022
Jen Schmiege
September 21, 2022
Jen Schmiege
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Jen Schmiege
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Jen Schmiege
September 21, 2022
The world was a better place with you in it. You left your mark on countless people, we are so lucky to have known you! So heartbroken you are gone, but so happy to know you a free of pain! Until the day we meet again, love you most
John and Carol Kring
September 21, 2022
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Raymond Bailey
September 21, 2022
This is heartbreaking news. I will remember his constant humor and the smiles he brought to many. I enjoyed our time as neighbors in Hamilton.
Brian and Shannon Quinn
September 20, 2022
We are so sorry . Prayers to Gretchen and all of the family
-Brian and Shannon Quinn
Helen Allshouse
September 20, 2022
Dear Gretchen, The loss of a loving partner breaks your heart . . . sending hugs & love to you & your family.
Robin and Steve Novak
September 20, 2022
Our sincere condolences to Gretchen and the whole family. Paul fought so hard for so long. We hope he is in a place with no pain or worries. We know he will be keeping an eye on his family from above. Sending love.
Linda MIXTER
September 20, 2022
I am so very sorry for your family's loss. Paul was a kind and generous man and he will be missed by so many people
Barbara and Mike Jennings
September 20, 2022
Paul was a friend to everyone. His smile, his jokes and a heart of gold.Everthing he done was from his Heart. We will miss you brother, knowing your with the Lord. ♥.
Betty and Demetria Watkins
September 20, 2022
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
June Kilpatrick
September 20, 2022
Paul laughed easily and gave generously. He loved his family and friends with unwavering loyalty. A person of great quality and character. He was an inspiration to us all. It's hard not to think of him and smile. I loved the way he would call my name and run to hug me. I will miss that so very much. The world will be a sadder place without him.
September 20, 2022
I have fond memories of Paul.
Tina Davidson
September 20, 2022
You are a special kind of man Paul my life has been enriched just knowing you fly high amd spread you golden wings.
Jenny Calloway
September 20, 2022
Paul was one of the kindest people I ever knew. A generous and wonderful friend. ❤
Boo Schwartz
September 20, 2022
To the warrior- take care of everything- spirit new in heaven...enjoy your mansion. You probably figure you have work to do to get it ready for Gretchen. I can't imagine you resting in peace...it's the resting that is probably temporary. Explore your new surroundings with gusto and visit with all family and friends that stop by. I'm sure about the peace that is due you as well as the amazing love you can both give and receive. Don't forget about us mortals...
Send Gretchen a sign so extraordinary she can't deny it is from you.
Tina Jacobson
September 20, 2022
The best brother in law ever! I was so blessed to have known him! I will definitely be paying it paulward in remembrance of Paul ❤
Jeff Wrisley
September 20, 2022
I did not know him well. Every time I met him, he was warm, friendly and had a smile on his face. I liked him.
Valerie Vance
September 20, 2022
So sorry to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with Gretchen and all of the family at this time. Your Hokey Pokey friend, vVal Vance
Craig Watkins
September 20, 2022
Rest in peace my brother my friend ❤
Kathleen Quinn
September 20, 2022
Loving thoughts to you Gretchen and family. No words❤
Caryl
September 20, 2022
Beautiful Obituary! Love you all!
brenda groessl
September 20, 2022
So so sorry to hear of his passing he was one great man and a fighter for sure. Prayers to the family
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