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David Francis Ehman

1950 - 2023

David Francis Ehman obituary, 1950-2023, Bow, WA

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David Ehman Obituary

Bow Dave is gone. For someone who was consistently late to every appointment, he left this world way too early. David Francis Ehman was born to Shirley Ehman and Marvel Brodt Ehman on October 21, 1950, in Dayton, Ohio. He joined sisters Kathy and Marilyn. Later, Julie would join them. He attended public schools in Dayton, Ohio through high school, and went on to attend and graduate from Valparaiso University in Indiana with a Political Science degree. Beginning as a teacher's aide, David was immediately drawn to working with children with disabilities and decided to turn that into his life's work. In 1980 David moved to Seattle to attend the University of Washington's School of Education and earned his master's degree in special education. Enamored with the natural setting of the Pacific Northwest, he decided to stay.

He worked in the Lake Washington School District, then the Stanwood-Camano School District, and ended his teaching career in the La Conner School District, completing a 42-year calling.

In his earliest years of teaching in Ohio, David began his lifelong interest in backpacking and hiking in the summers. One summer he was employed as a chambermaid at the Grand Canyon Lodge, so that he could spend his off-hours hiking the canyon. He was proud to tell anyone who cared that he was promoted from chambermaid to head of the linen closet in just one summer.

Dave had a well-developed spiritual life. Sometimes church-related, having grown up in the Lutheran Church, and sometimes nature-related, finding peace, solace and inspiration in the mountains. Dave spent as much time as possible in nature, backpacking and hiking, and recruiting as many family members into that lifestyle as he could.

David loved animals. During his adult life, Dave was never without a dog, sometimes one, and at one time as many as four. He has loved other animals as well, and collected a veritable menagerie: Cats, dogs, ducks, chickens, goats, sheep.

He enjoyed every form of entertainment: Reading, movies, music, sports. He enjoyed being the "voice" of the La Conner Braves basketball team as the home announcer, and conversations with anyone about anything. He was someone who sincerely cared about other people's lives and interests.

Dave was inspired by music. He loved all genres. He played the trombone in high school, and the stand-up bass in a band in Stanwood (though he confessed that he didn't know how to play it, just wanted to be in a band). Always with a song on his lips, it is appropriate that David's final words were lyrics: "Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right..."

David was always thoughtful, inquisitive, kind and absolutely hilarious. He was adored by all of his nieces and nephews. Dave related well to young people, mostly because he was young at heart himself. His optimism was unending and endured through his battle with cancer.

Family was very important to Dave, and he was especially proud of his daughter, Jessie.

Dave is survived by his wife, Sara, his daughter Jessie, and his sisters, Kathy Ludeman, Marilyn Dallet, and Julie Knostman. He will be forever missed by his extended family of Harlans (Mit, Maureen, Mike, Jennifer, Morgan, and Lane), and his many Ehman nieces and nephews. Anyone who knew Dave is going to feel like the world is a little too quiet now.

A celebration of David's life will take place later in the spring.

Memorial contributions can be made to the Skagit Humane Society or the Sierra Club. You may offer your condolences and share memories of David online at www.kernfuneralhome.com. Arrangements are in the care of Kern Funeral Home.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Skagit Valley Herald from Oct. 14 to Oct. 15, 2023.

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Mary Pierce

January 11, 2024

I did not have the honor of knowing Dave personally.

Sara, Jesse and family,

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you find comfort in the precious memories and continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Sincerely,
Mary Pierce

Annette McNabb

November 12, 2023

Dave was a valued member of my Road Less Traveled study group. This led to wonderful, in-depth discussions and deep friendships. Our group celebrated happy and sad times together over the years and we all became fast friends. Rest in Peace dear friend.

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Annette McNabb

October 21, 2023

Happy heavenly birthday, Dave! I imagine you celebrating in heaven with your guitar, all your pets who preceded you, and a song around a big campfire. I have so many wonderful memories of times spent with you at the EEU, in the Lake Washington Transition Program, at American Lake camping with our students, in "the family" and our Road Less Traveled study group, at our LWSD special education retreats, and running into you at preschool events. During all of these adventures, you were the extra sparkle that made these events meaningful and memorable. Thanks for all the memories!!

Dave was witty, spiritual, insightful, joyful and an inspiration to me. I knew him to be a teacher and friend extraordinaire who touched the lives of everyone deeply. He will be deeply missed by many. I wish to extend my most sincere condolences to his family and friends. Rest in peace dear friend.

Mike Davis

October 18, 2023

My condolences to the Ehman family. As someone who was privileged to have Dave as a friend back in the 70s and 80s, I am saddened to hear of his passing. I wish we had kept in touch through the years. However, the memories of those times are ones I´ll never forget. Beers shared, softball games played, and church functions; all better having Dave there. My favorite is when he started his car with the clutch engaged and another friend and I were in front of the car, looking under the hood. When we all realized we were okay, we had a good, long laugh. Rest in peace, my friend.

Greg Thompson

October 17, 2023

Great working with David at SHS Alway the big smile and one of the funniest guys I've ever met. Thanks for sharing time.

Herb Cantrill

October 15, 2023

We are sorry to hear of David´s passing. I am David´s cousin. I have known him since childhood, but I haven´t seen him in many years. Herb Cantrill

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