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Catherine Lillian Vail Atwell

1958 - 2019

Catherine Lillian Vail Atwell obituary, 1958-2019, South Bend, IN

BORN

1958

DIED

2019

Catherine Atwell Obituary

Catherine Lillian Vail Atwell

March 9, 1958 - May 26, 2019

SOUTH BEND, IN - Cathy departed our world on Sunday evening, 5/26/19 to be joined with her mother and father in heaven after a brief, yet hard fought battle with cancer.

From the time Cathy hit Danny Knowlton over the head with her lunch pail in 1st grade, she lived a life of passion and grit. We knew of nobody as selfless as her and there was nothing she wouldn't do for others.

Born in Astoria Queens, New York, Cathy arrived 15 minutes after her twin brother, Billy. Together, along with their parents, Georgette Vail and William Vail, they would go home to meet their older sister, Donna, who they would come to know as a very special person in their lives. Six years later, Cathy would be blessed with her youngest brother, Joseph.

Cathy and her family moved to Lake Hiawatha, New Jersey. The family moved to Littleton, Colorado when Cathy was 8 years old. While there, Cathy formed many life long friends but none more special than Susan Lancaster and Shirli McBurney.

In 1973, Cathy ‘s family moved to South Bend, Indiana, where she attended Lasalle High School. While there, Cathy was active in synchronized swimming and also a diver of the swim team before graduating in 1976.

In 1989, Cathy married the love of her life, David Atwell. Together they had two children, Jacob David of Mishawka and Chelsea Michelle of Elkhart. Since Cathy's diagnosis, David has demonstrated the type of love, caregiving, and support that God has in mind of spousal love.

Cathy had an incredible work ethic. She spent most of her career in the meat department at Kroger's as well as other area food merchants.

Cathy was predeceased by her parents, Georgette Vail and William Vail and is survived by her loving husband, David; her children, Jacob and Chelsea; siblings, Donna (David) Luoto, Billy (Coleen) Vail, and Joseph (Suzanne) Vail; and brother and sister-in-law, Jeff and Christine Atwell.

Words cannot express our family's sincere appreciation and gratitude to Rachel Dubree for being the remarkable, loving and caring friend to Cathy.

In her typical selfless fashion, Cathy donated her body to the University of Indiana to further Sarcoma Cancer research. A Celebration of Life is being held at Battell Park between 5-7 p.m. on Friday, May 31, 2019.

At the family's request, a memorial contribution may be made to Heartland Hospice, 230 W. Catalpa Dr., Mishawaka, Indiana 46545.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by South Bend Tribune on May 30, 2019.

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Pamela Wilson

June 4, 2019

To the family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Even though we went to high school together, we didn't meet until I found her at Kroger!! She became my mother's and mine "special grocer"! We could talk and laugh for hours!! And often did!!
Rest in paradise sister Lion.
I pray for peace of heart and comfort for the family.
Pamela Valentine & family

June 1, 2019

We're sorry we didn't make it to the memorial of Cathy. My wife, Roberta, and I were thinking of her and the Atwell and Vail family. We'll be in touch, Billy and Colleen. Love, Marco

Ellue Huemmer

June 1, 2019

So sorry to hear about Cathy you were great neighbors we hated to see you leave ,joe and I will keep you and the kids in our prayers.sending lots of love and prayers Joe & Ellie

Susan Curry

May 31, 2019

I remember a time during gym class where Cathy was being a clown and doing funny dives off the diving board. I still laugh at that day
My heart goes out to all of her family.

Sue Smith Curry

Sandy Kaser

May 31, 2019

So deeply sorry for your loss. Cathy was such a fun loving person, she will be missed greatly. Prayers for the family and may she Rest in Peace.

Jerrilyn Bykowski

May 30, 2019

Although I haven't seen you since high school, I remember your sweet smile and happy attitude! I am glad that you passed through my life Cathy....until we meet again. Sending prayers for peace and comfort for those who knew you, that happy memories will bring them joy!

May 30, 2019

1 Thessalonians 5:17 encourage us to pray constantly. May you find comfort in Gods word daily.

Natasha Pellegrini

May 30, 2019

Cathy my dear friend you will be greatly missed! You lit up rooms with your love and care for others constantly!! There are no words to describe what you mean to me! I'll be praying for your family friend!!! I love you forever and ever amen !

My die hard friend with the hugest heart around!! I love you cathy !

Natasha Pellegrini

May 30, 2019

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