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Robert G. Hackett, 80, of Falmouth, formerly of Weymouth and Pembroke, died February 13, 2010. He was the husband to Mary P. (Dwyer) Hackett for 58 years. Born and raised in Weymouth, he graduated from Weymouth High School where excelled in football and was later inducted into the Weymouth High School Athletic Hall of Fame. After graduating from the Culinary Institute of America, he served in the Army during the Korean War. Several years later he returned home and worked as a chef at the Red Coach Grille in Hingham. In 1969 he opened his own restaurant in Pembroke called Bobby Hacketts Restaurant. He was involved with many local charities, but took a special interest in the Pembroke Historical Society. For 30 years he ran the annual Herring Run Old Fashion Fish Fry which was the main fundraiser for the historical society. He worked at his restaurant as owner, operator, and chef until 2007 when he sold the business and retired to Falmouth. Robert was a daily communicant at St. Anthony's Church In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children and their spouses, Michael and Anne Hackett of Pembroke, Mark and Katherine Hackett of Manomet, Kevin and Nina Hackett of Plympton, Karen Hackett-Bere and Lawrence Bere of Plymouth, and Christopher Hackett of Falmouth; 11 grandchildren; 6 great-grandchildren; brother, Thomas Hackett and wife Lauretta of Wareham; brother-in-law Patrick H. Dwyer of Kingston; and many nieces and nephews. He is the brother of the late Mary Jane Woodworth and the late Kathryn Newbrough. Visiting hours will be from 4-7 pm on Wednesday, February 17th in Chapman, Cole & Gleason Funeral Home, 475 Main St., FALMOUTH CENTER. A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 11 a.m. on Thursday at St. Anthony's Church, 167 E. Falmouth Hwy. (Route 28), E. Falmouth, followed by burial at St. Anthony Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hospice & Palliative Care of Cape Cod Inc, 765 Attucks Lane, Hyannis, MA 02601 or St. Anthony's Church Fatima Hall Building Fund, 167 East Falmouth Hwy., East Falmouth, MA, 02536. For on-line guest book and directions, please visit www.ccgfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Patriot Ledger on Feb. 15, 2010.

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Mike Casey

March 8, 2010

Mr. Hackett,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Linda (Coffin) McKeown

February 27, 2010

I remember many dinners in Pembroke, when we lived in Hanover.
My Mother remembers Bobby making her fried lobster whenever she wanted. His hospitality was second to none!
My your memories provide you comfort in your loss.

Michael Frates

February 18, 2010

To Mary and Family,

What an exceptional human being to say the least! I believe anyone who had the pleasure of knowing “Bobby” was the better for it, such a kind and compassionate man indeed. There is an old saying: “Do a good for someone else and not be found out” these are words I live by and admire others who do the same. Bobby did so many goods for others behind the scenes and I suspect each and every one of us knows a few of these.

Chris, that was a wonderful tribute to your Dad you wrote!

My sincere condolences,

Michael C. Frates

February 17, 2010

To the Hackett Family,
We were so so sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. I will always remember the special treatment he gave Lynne and the rest of my family - Lynne loved Bobby and still misses the resteraunt.
He will always be in our hearts.
Love Laurette & Jim McMorrow and Lynne
Venezia

George Wilkinson

February 17, 2010

Dear Mike,Karen,Kevin,Mark and Mary,
My family had lots of GREAT memories of Bobby going all the way back to the Red Coach days and as regulars at the Pembroke restaurant when they moved to Duxbury. Bobby used to take me back to the kitchen when I was a youngster at the RCG and put me to "work". Maybe he was the one who inspired my passion for the restaurant business. We will all miss him. All the best. George Wilkinson, Jr.

Laura Newell

February 17, 2010

Mark,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time...Laura Newell

Nancy White

February 17, 2010

To the Hackett Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. We had so many great times at Hacketts and Bobby always came over to visit, we went most every Sunday night for years. Also I worked with him on the Fish Fry for many years with Bonnie Sherman, thanks Bobby.
Love to your family
Nancy White and Family formerly of High St Pembroke

Joe Hanson

February 17, 2010

Dear Mike,Karen,Kevin,Mark and Mary:

Thank you and your Dad for making me feel like I was part of a great family. I remember many of my meetings with your dad usually contained a valuable life lesson whether I thought I needed it or not. As I grow older I realize he taught me much and I appreciate it so much.

Your Friend,



Joe

Andrew White

February 17, 2010

Condolances to the entire Hackett family. Mr.Hackett's life and career are well known, and not by accident.
As a co-worker and friend of Chris, I had more than one opportunity to enjoy the "tastes" from Bobby Hackett's.
Best of luck to you all, and god bless you during this challenging time.

Ian Campbell

February 17, 2010

For many, myself included, working in the kitchen at Hackett's was part of our growing up; and Bobby was larger than life. I still make "Sauteed Shrimp," and "Delmonico Potatoes" all the time.
My thoughts are with your family.

William Bach

February 17, 2010

Bobby, Bobby, Bobby I will miss you. May the gods be with you. Godspeed Bobby..

gregg green

February 16, 2010

bobby was a great guy we will miss you he gave me my first job at 14, thank you so much for everything he ever did for me .... he loved people loved life and was a great dad i will miss you alot.... love gregg green

February 16, 2010

To the Hackett Family
Our hearts go out to you all. As so many others, I have a lot of very fond memories of Bobby. Bobby was there for me in my time of need. My son and I will always have a spot in our hearts for Bobby.
Carol and Keith Tonra

Paul Lenihan

February 16, 2010

To the Hackett family, my thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. Bobby was truly an icon that will be missed.

The Sorenti Family

February 16, 2010

Our prayers are with the Hackett Family at this sad time. Thank you Bobby for leaving us your wonderful recipes. Holidays would not be the same without your casino's and delmonico potatoes.
God Bless you.

February 16, 2010

Please accept our heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
May your heart and soul find peace and comfort
The Savage Family
Plympton, Ma.

Rick Lenihan

February 16, 2010

To the Hackett family
Very sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. Have many fond memories of family gatherings over the years. He was a good man

John Dunn

February 16, 2010

Mrs. Hackett,
My condolences and prayers to you and your family. I enjoyed working for Mr. Hackett for many years and have alot of good memories.

Roy & Janice Gardner

February 16, 2010

It's always a sad day when we lose such a fine person and true friend. We'll always remember the great times and family get togethers we had at the restaurant and especially that Bobby always took the time to come by and talk to all of us and always remembered all of our names. A true Gardner family friend for so many years will be sorely missed. Our prayers to all of Bobby's family and friends, certainly a very long list.

Nils & Marj Johnson

February 16, 2010

With sadness, our thoughts are with the Hackett family. We had the good fortune to come to know Bobby as Friday regulars at the Hingham Red Coach. For many of us, it became like a club. With the opening of his Pembroke restaurant, the scene changed but not the relationship.
Marj & Nils Johnson - Sarasota, FL

Paul Lemieux

February 16, 2010

Mary, Michael, Mark, Kevin, Karen and Christopher, My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Bobby was one of those wonderful personalities who stood out from everyone else. My Dad always talked about the great times they had together in the Red Coach days, and how much he treasured his friendship. He was a shining success story of hard work, discipline, integrity and loyalty to his friends.

Bob curtis

February 15, 2010

Mary,Michael, Mark, Kevin, Karen and Christopher,Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We have many fond memories of Bobby and all of the Hackett family.
Bob and Mary Ellen Curtis

Linda Hutchins

February 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Barbara Richards

February 15, 2010

My condolences to all of the Hackett family...I am so sorry.

Frances Goodman Figueiredo

February 15, 2010

To the Hackett Family, My late mother,Mary Goodman, was a member of the Hingham Red Coach gang and loved Bobby very much. I am sure she welcomed him to heaven with a smile and showed him to the kitchen and called the gang together..

Shirley Wall

February 15, 2010

I am so saddened to hear of the passing of Chef Bobby...I had the pleasure of working for him for l0 years and know most of the children...
I will treasure his cookbook and memories.He was the greatest chef and boss. Fondly, Shirley (Farrow) Wall, Hernando, Fl.formerly of Hanover, Ma,
Love to all of you...

Steven Kielty

February 15, 2010

To the Hackett Family,we are sorry for your loss.Bobby will be missed.We enjoyed him and all of his great stories about his family and his restaurant over the years.

Fred & Lois Doyle

February 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Shirley St.John

February 15, 2010

My sincere condolences to the Hackett family. My late husband, Fred,used to play in the lounge while it was Fraher's and then Bobby Hackett's.May many memories sustain you in your loss.

Frank and Joyce Terlino

February 15, 2010

Mary and Family,
Please accept our sincere sympathy. We are so sorry for your loss. We have many fond memories of Bobby. He will be missed.

Bridget,Howie Anderson

February 15, 2010

Mary and family, We offer our love and prayers.

Bob & Joan Lennox

February 15, 2010

Mary and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. How could we ever forget, Eastover and our wonderful Christmas Parties at the Restaurant.

judie Allen

February 15, 2010

To the Hackett Family--Worked with Bobby many years ago, fond memeories.
Bunny Chase and Judie Chase Allen.

Betty Trafton

February 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

February 15, 2010

Mary. I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. Rita Todd( former wife of Al Sheehan)

Russ & Ellie Steele

February 15, 2010

Mary and family...
we send our condolence and prayers to you all.
Bobby was a friend for many, many years... thanks for the memories, he will be missed by many...

Lydia Mallozzi

February 15, 2010

Mark, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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