1936
2025
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F. James (Alfred) Greco
February 13, 2025
It´s raining here tonight in Southern California setting an appropriate tone for Fred´s passing, but one just the opposite of how I remember him, my compare.
He came into my life, when I was young; when I was struck by his smile, warmth, sense of humor and caring.
The people around me, like Fred, were either athletes-like him-or worshippers of them. I was a nerd. For proof, imagine a 13-year-old kid playing his first (and only season of hockey) wearing figure skates and used hockey gear, died pink by a hot-water washing mother.
Anyone else with Fred´s athletic talent might have just laughed me off. Instead, without doing so in an obvious way, he put a literal and figurative arm around me and made me feel whole. I couldn´t put words to that then; not sure I can even today. But I knew I wanted and needed him as my Confirmation godfather, my compare ... and I still do.
And he didn´t have that kind of impact on just me. I watched him as I grew older nurturing young boys, regardless of their athletic ability. Always joking, teaching, consoling, understanding.
Even more touching, to me, was the way he treated my father, a wildly enthusiastic hockey fan with no real knowledge of the game or much else of life except hard work. I think Fred saw in my father, what he saw in me: a person yearning to find a place.
Fred tabbed my dad to be the "coach" of a senior rec-league team that Fred and several other men from Hillyard assembled. They didn´t need a coach. They didn´t need my father. Yet Fred recognized that my father needed them.
That was Fred in a nutshell.
Over the years, we lost communication with each other. Life seems to go that way sometimes. But I never forgot what he meant to me as a boy, a young man, and today.
Although I call myself James these days, I never changed my full legal name: Frank James Alfred Greco. I took that third name for a damned good reason. I´m so glad that I did, and that part of me-the part that Fred helped me define-will always be there as a reminder of what a fine man, friend, and compare he was.
Rest in love and peace, dear Freddie.
Joe Speranzi
February 9, 2025
So sad to hear of Freddie´s passing. I was fortunate enough to play softball with him on the Murphy Tavern´s City championship team in the early 70´s (best bunter I´ve ever seen ... he could drag bunt right handed) and I was honored to be his assistant little league coach. His work with the kids was inspirational. What an amazing man. My heartfelt condolences & prayers go out to his family.
Joe Speranzi
Matthew Ymer
February 9, 2025
#RIPAlfredUngaro
I knew Al from Mary Queen Parish, along with his mother, Emma. Al had a long rich history at Mary Queen as well as being a great neighbor in the Minnehaha neighborhood.
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