Brenda Graham

1957 - 2025

Brenda Graham was born on July 5th, 1957, to John Morice Campbell (Jack) and Ava Nellie Campbell in Kettle Falls Washington. She grew up spending time traveling to rodeos, working with their horses, family trips, and camping. Brenda met the love of her life, Roger Graham, when they were 15 years old while attending Central Valley H.S. and hadn't spent a day apart since. They were blissfully married for nearly 50 years. Once they had their children, Tony, T.J. and Whitney Jo, Brenda spent most of her time volunteering at their schools as PTA President and worked as a para educator at Regal Elementary School. She spent many years as an instructor at WA School of Real Estate and Insurance. She was "Mama Bear" to many more kids than just her own. Brenda had a great passion for loving and supporting people. She was very organized and had a "list" for every occasion. Those skills came in handy as the church administrator at New Hope Christian Center, where she retired from in 2020 after 16 years. There, she was also the leader of the Women's Ministry for many years. Her and her husband Roger's marriage was such a true example of communication and unconditional love, that they were perfect to counsel many men, women and children on relationships over the years. She mastered the role of wife and mother. The next step was mastering the role of "Grandma Bear", which she did, to Hannah, Ayden, Kylee and many extra kiddos. She is preceded by her dad, Jack Campbell. She is survived by her mom, Ava Campbell, her husband and "hero" Roger Graham, their three children and their families, Tony (and Desiree) Graham, T.J. (and Christina) Graham and Whitney Jo Graham, her grand kids, Hannah, Ayden and Kylee, her great granddaughter Lylah, sister Tina (and Ken) Wisenor, her "soul sister" Shannon Moen, nieces, nephews and many more who loved her very much. Roger and Brenda agreed many years ago that there would not be a funeral service until the time came to have a joint service.