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Sharon McCartan
January 8, 2012
One full year has expired since dad has died. These 365 days have not made his passing any softer, nor do we miss him any less. Our hearts will forever hold him close. I see bits of him leaking out here and there - in our selves, each other, our kids - and in our children's children. And I send out my thanks and gratitude - to our dad - for all the people you touched, all the lives you changed, for believing in family and for knowing that everyone takes their own road - and encouraging that. Loving and missing - and hoping that each of us remembers how he lived: honestly and unconditionally. That's how love should be: honest, unconditional. That's what family means: honesty and unconditional love and acceptance. Thank you, dad . . . for all the love you shared and the amazing lessons you gave - to each of us, from all of us. Lisa Rogers said, "A man's worth is measured by how he parents his children. What he gives them, what he keeps away from them, the lessons he teaches and the lessons he allows them to learn on their own." Your lessons live on - we'll see to it.
Sheila McCartan
January 14, 2011
To my family:
We are all heartbroken by the loss of our "Daddy". I feel blessed to be a part of such a strong family. Your love, laughter, hugs and tears have helped me to cope during this very difficult time.
May we gain strength from each other and cherish the memories we have of Dad. As we continue to celebrate his life, remember the lessons he taught us: Respect others, be honest, always do what you believe is right, care for others and have fun in all you do.
I love you all and may you feel the comforting arms of God wrapped around you. Go slow and be safe!
Lauren Ojeda
January 13, 2011
To my family many miles away:
My heart aches at this devistating loss, but it is quickly calmed in knowing that Grandpa is in a better place. When my children are feeling better, I will be by your side. Until then, be strong, lean on one another, and laugh a little. Grandpa would have thrown in a few jokes that were completely inappropriate, but would make everyone laugh, remember that and apply it. My love to everyone!
Lauren Ojeda
January 13, 2011
To my family many miles away:
My heart aches at this devistating loss, but it is quickly calmed in knowing that Grandpa is in a better place. When my children are feeling better, I will be by your side. Until then, be strong, lean on one another, and laugh a little. Grandpa would have thrown in a few jokes that were completely inappropriate, but would make everyone laugh. Never forget that, and apply it. My love to everyone!
Maggie Santolin
January 12, 2011
Brian,
I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I hope you and your family, will find some comfort, knowing so many people admired and thought so kindly of your dad. My thoughts are with you.
Hugh & Eileen McCartan
January 12, 2011
Dear Ruth And Family
There are no words that will make this time easy to bear, but we want you all to know that you are in our prayers.
Hughie was at mass on Saturday evening and said a prayer that Bud would have a peaceful passing when it was his time
Around 7 P.M. Sharon called to let us know that that is exactly what happened.
Buddy will be missed by many people and it is a big loss to humanity.
January 12, 2011
Dear Ruth & Family, Doc will be missed by so many people at least he isn't suffering anymore and can watch out for you from above. He was such a fun person. Pat Little, Romeoville
January 12, 2011
Dear Ruth and family,
I was saddened to hear of the death of your husband and father.
I know you will miss him very much, but I hope the great memories each of you have of great times with him will bring you comfort in the weeks and months ahead.
You have a great family and I know you can all lean on each other for support.
My most sincere sympathies to all of you.
Phyllis Etheridge
PS Patti, I wish I could have come to the wake and had an opportunity to see and talk with you and perhaps remember good times at Valley View. (I am out of the country on vacation as I write this)
Amanda McCartan
January 11, 2011
Grandpa you are the strongest man I have ever known and you have taught me so many things that I will carry with me throughout my life. You taught me to never give up no matter what the odds are, what people say, or how diffucult things get. You have also taught me to always do things with a smile on my face. Your jokes were constantly lighting up the faces of the people around you and for that I thank you. We all miss you so much but we know that you are watching over us every single day and we now have the greatest gaurdian angel ever imagined! Praying for all of the family! Love you.
Karen Karlstad-Gonzalez
January 11, 2011
Dear Sharon and family,
I have very fond memories of many years ago. We were both 11ish. I would come over and we would sneak down to your Dad's office and play on the exam tables. Laughing and having such a great time. I know your Dad must have known, but he was so sweet and never said a word. I hope you and your family find peace and know that your Dad was a special man. Your old friend, Karen Karlstad Gonzalez
Ruth Mertz
January 11, 2011
Dear Ruth and family,
Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time. I loved Doc's sense of humor and will always have kind thoughts of him. Our prayers are with you.
God Bless you all...
Ruth Mertz and Janet (Mertz) Shaw-Binns
January 11, 2011
Sheila,
I'm very sad to hear of your loss. Although I didn't know your dad, I'm sure he was a great man. I've been praying for you and the family and wil continue to do so. If there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to ask.
God be with you all,
Linda Gillispie
January 11, 2011
Shelia,
So sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.
Ben Saunders
Dr.Jim and Debbie Stasko
January 11, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Ruth, Patti, Jim and Bryan in this difficult time. Doc was a true hero and a friend and I will miss him. God bless you Doc for being a truly genuine man. You truly will be missed
Rita Rudd
January 10, 2011
Sheila and family,
I will always remember your dad as another dad in my life, thank you for sharing over the years. My thoughts, memories, and prayers to all of you.
Bob & Faith Leach
January 10, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with the McCartan family during this difficult time. Thank you Dr. Edward McCartan for your years of self sacrifice and service both to the Village of Romeoville and the United States of America. You truly were the real deal and are an example to all of us on how to live our lives. May God have mercy on your soul "Doc" and keep you forever in heaven.
January 10, 2011
Brian, Sheila and McCartan family, I'm very sad to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Cheryl (Wirkus) Cosner
Mickie & Vern Phipps
January 10, 2011
Pattie, Jim and Brian,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We know that he will be greatly missed. If you need anything at all please let us know. We're just next door
Micki and Vern Phipps and kids
Gary Shelton
January 10, 2011
Sheila, and family, I offer my most sincere condolences on your loss. Know that he will be with you always.
Joe & Linda Gallaher
January 10, 2011
Sheila,
I am sorry to hear about you Dad. I know you have a empty spot in your heart. You and your family are in our prayers. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask.
Norma Ruddock
January 10, 2011
Sheila
Your father must have been a wonderful man to have raised such a wonderful daughter. My prayers are with you and your family, may you find comfort and peace at this difficult time.
January 10, 2011
Sorry about your loss,my thought and prayers are with you. Lois Hedrick
Sharon Milek
January 10, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Doc, you will be missed!! With deepest sympathies, The Milek Family
Dave Stamm
January 10, 2011
Brian and Family,My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for your loss
Richard & Ann Cordero
January 10, 2011
Ruth and Family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
January 10, 2011
Shelia,
I am so sorry.
Praying for you and your family.
Brenda Wirt
Don Wirt
January 10, 2011
January 10, 2011
Shelia,
Thinking of you as RQ has kept me posted as to your fathers condition.
Will be keeping you in our prayers asking our "Heavenly Father" to give strength and courage to you and your extended faily in the forth coming days. Please do not hesitate to let us know here at the plant if there is anything at all that we can do.
Don
James Linsey
January 10, 2011
Brian, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
January 10, 2011
Brian my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Angie Cottrell
Allen McKinney
January 10, 2011
Sheila,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Praying for you and your family through this difficult time.
Allen McKinney
January 10, 2011
Have many happy memories of Doc's unique sense of humor. We're sure he's got the angels laughing in heaven. He will be sorely missed; but has gone to his reward for leading such a good life. Ambassador Ave is now minus a true American. John & Dianne Deegan
Richard Tanner
January 10, 2011
So sorry for losing "Doc" my parents both spoke very highly of him...Richard Tanner San Diego California
January 10, 2011
Sheila,
We are sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking and praying for you and your family through this very difficult time.
Tim and Rachael Quesenberry, Virginia
Virginia Shew
January 10, 2011
Sharon and family,
So sorry to hear this. You know now - he is at rest. As for the rest of you, you now need to join together and heal your pain and sorrow caused by this loss. I know it will be hard. But remember all the good times along with some of the bad times you had. Then healing will hopefully come quicker. Prayers are sent from my family to yours.
Jim
January 10, 2011
Thanks Dad for the memories.
January 10, 2011
Miss you Dad.Thanks for the memories.
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