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for Jerry Heffernan
Keeley Bieber
June 17, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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John Dewing
June 17, 2010
Jerry, what a legacy and memory you leave that people only can remember you for the smiles you brought and the laughter that surrounded you. We were born within days of each other and I feel you went away much too young. The lives of all you knew have changed because you're no longer with us. When you get to heaven make sure to tell St. Peter one of your jokes ... you'll get in for sure. Sleep well.
June 6, 2010
I Thank you Jerry for being so good to my Mother, Gladys Huff-Campbell who lived in Pullman. WA. We will miss you, but know that your in a better place, PEACE Ron & Roxy Lee (Huff) Lundberg. Medford, OR. E-mail: [email protected]. Thanks Cathy for letting me know. Bless you all.
Tom and Tonna Mercer
May 28, 2010
Jerry, your laugh drew peple towards you, no matter the distance your joy was heard! Tom and I have some very fun memories of our time with you, Terry and Christy!
Wanda Bowles
May 27, 2010
Jerry, you will be missed by many. I loved your visits to the Whitehorse, when you brought me dirty flowers and when you showed up in your leprechaun costume. I have never laughed and had such a good a time as when you were there. Rest in peace and take care of my Mom and Becky Love you!
Dorris Greenough
May 27, 2010
My dear cousin. So glad we spent that last week together. I will miss your laughter and practical jokes. We were more like one big family rather than two separates. Rest In Peace my friend.
Tim Bowles
May 27, 2010
We should all learn a lesson from Jerry as to how to Live life to the fullest..He will be missed!!
Laurie Knudson
May 27, 2010
Jerry, I will miss you very much we had so much fun together! You always made everything entertaining, how we would laugh at you and with you. You showed Kathy and I a good time whatever we did R.I.P.
kathy goode
May 27, 2010
my brother ....my best friend ....will be missed by so many taken from us way to early ...
CHRIS LESTER
May 23, 2010
Such a sweet and hilarious man....
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