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Joseph Paul DELAY

1926 - 2019

Joseph Paul DELAY obituary, 1926-2019, Spokane, WA

BORN

1926

DIED

2019

Joseph DELAY Obituary

DELAY, Joseph Paul

(Age 93)

Joe Delay passed away peacefully on May 8, 2019 in his apartment at Rockwood in Spokane at the age of 93.

Joe was born on April 30, 1926. He was the third son of Italian immigrants: Tony L. Delay and Caterina Elisabetta (Simioni) Delay. His parents passed through Ellis Island before settling on a 1,200-acre farm near Sandpoint, Idaho where Joe and his brothers, John, Ray, and Tony Jr. were born and raised. The Delay family farmed hay, cut cordwood, and operated a dairy farm. The four boys spent hours before and after school, milking cows, splitting wood, and feeding the animals. At a young age, all of the Delay boys developed a strong work ethic.

Joe graduated from Sandpoint High School during World War II, in June of 1944. Anxious for adventure, and motivated by a sense of patriotism, Joe volunteered for the United States Navy; however, infantrymen at the time were in short supply. As a result, 18-year-old Joe joined the United States Army as a member of the l0lst Airborne Division.

Enticed by a raise in his paycheck, Joe volunteered for para-trooper training. Joe served with the 327th Glider Infantry Regiment. He was deployed to Europe in December of 1944. The regiment traveled by ship from New York to Glasgow, Scotland and then by train to the port city of Southampton. Joe then boarded an LST to Le Havre, France before continuing by boxcar to Bastogne as a replacement soldier at the Battle of the Bulge.

Joe would forever remember that ice-cold winter in the Ardennes Forest. The days spent in snow-covered foxholes, while withstanding heavy artillery fire were just the beginning of Joe's deployment. Joe's platoon would traverse Europe, ultimately fighting through Germany before reaching the Eagle's Nest, Hitler's summer home, in Berchtesgaden, Germany. At the end of the war, Joe arrived back in the US to a ticker tape parade in New York City. He was one of only three men from his original platoon to survive the war. Joe was awarded two Bronze Stars.

Joe subsequently returned home and completed his education on the GI bill. He attended Gonzaga University and then Gonzaga University School of Law, during which time he met Helen Katherine Curran at a Sacred Heart School of Nursing dance. In 1952, eager to practice law and full of ambition, Joe passed the Bar Exam and opened his first law office in Spokane prior to graduation.

Joe and Helen married in 1954. They were soul mates; true partners in life who raised three boys together, Joe Jr., Paul, and Michael. In 1961, Joe joined forces with another Gonzaga law graduate and brother-in-law, J. Donald Curran. They founded what is now the Spokane Law Firm of Delay, Curran, Thompson, Pontarolo and Walker.

Joe thrived practicing law and developed a reputation for integrity and professionalism. He truly enjoyed every day of his 67-year legal career, continuing to practice until the last few weeks before his death. Joe Delay was blessed with uncommon energy and a humble spirit. Joe was devoted to his clients. He developed a loyal following over the years; for some clients, this relationship spanned over three generations. Joe was recognized as one of the "Best Lawyers of America" in two separate areas of practice - business litigation and real estate law.

He went on to serve in a variety of leadership roles for the Washington State Bar Association (WSBA). He was a member of the Board of Governors and the Character and Fitness Community. Joe chaired the Bar's Disciplinary Board and was a member of the Washington State Judicial Conduct Commission. In 1991, he served as the President of the WSBA. Dedicated to his community, Joe was always grateful for his education at Gonzaga, and was immensely proud to be a Zag. He was a member of Gonzaga's Board of Regents and a chair of the law school's first capital campaign.

On April 30, 2019, Joe celebrated his 93rd birthday surrounded by his family. He greatly missed his dear wife, Helen Katherine Delay, who passed on May 25, 2018. He cherished their 64 years together. Joe and Helen were teammates and best friends; it was time for them to be reunited. Joe is survived by his sons, Paul J. Delay (Joan) and Michael J. Delay (Alison), and his grandchildren, Hailey, Molly, Jack, Meghan and Eric. He is also survived by his brother, John L. Delay (Helen) and first cousin, Al Simioni. He was preceded in death by his son, Joseph P. Delay Jr. and his brothers, Ray J. Delay (Fairy), and Tony L. Delay Jr. (Jan).

A Rosary will be held at 6:00 P.M. on Friday, June 14, 2019 at the Cathedral of Our Lady of Lourdes. Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, June 15, 2019 at 12 Noon at the Cathedral of Our Lady of Lourdes. In lieu of flowers, remembrances can be made to Gonzaga University Law School, All Saints School or the Building Fund at Our Lady of Lourdes. Visit Joe's online memorial page at www.holycrossofspokane.org

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Published by Spokesman-Review from May 19 to Jun. 9, 2019.

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David

January 31, 2021

In the 1980's, I was good friends with his son Joe Jr. in Seattle. He was always very close to his parents.

Margie Ogawa

June 15, 2019

Lighting a candle to honor a great man who will long be remembered and always cherished.

JAMES E BAKER

June 12, 2019

They do not make men any better than Joseph Paul Delay. Joe was truly a gentleman and a scholar. I would like extend my sincere sympathy to Joe's family.

June 7, 2019

I'd like to extend my condolences to the family and friends for the loss of your loved one Joseph Paul Delay, may the words at John 11:17-25 soothe your hearts and give you comfort.

ID/JW

June 7, 2019

Thank you for your service and your sacrifices you gave for all of us. What a life well lived! Rest In Peace

Michele Lage'

June 6, 2019

Joe and I seemed to have the same schedule coming to work. I will miss our little chit chats and his contagious smile. Joe was a wonderful and gentle man, RIP Joe. My thoughts and Prayers go out to Mike and Paul and their families.

June 6, 2019

Our sincere condolences to the family. May you find comfort in knowing that God collects our tears and is close to the brokenhearted ready to comfort us in our moment of need. - Psalm 56:8

Judy Scott

June 5, 2019

You will be missed by all. You always treated everyone with respect and kindness. Thank you for your service and for being so kind and caring to all. Rest in peace, you deserve it!

Bruce Hanify

June 3, 2019

Joe Delay was a great man. I tried my first case with him in 1985. He was lead counsel. It was a great honor to have known him

Ted Toll

June 2, 2019

Joe was our family attorney for many years in Spokane. We knew him to be honest and faithful. I know he will be missed.

June 2, 2019

Thank you for your service to our country. Rest In Peace.

Dick Manning

May 24, 2019

Joe practiced for 67 years and I think I knew him for 40 of those years even though we were on opposite sides of the state. What a class act combination of professionalism, volunteering, problem solving and all around good guy. Joe was one of those people we'd all like to know because he just made life that much better.

Kevin Schroeder

May 24, 2019

Joe we were very blessed to have met you and known you. RIP, you will be truly missed by many.

Tim & Nelou Fennessy

May 21, 2019

Joe was a gentleman and a competitor through and through. His work ethic was beyond admirable and is reflected in both of his sons. God speed, Mr. Delay and "thank you" for your honor, your honesty and your warm smile.

Mike Dempsey

May 21, 2019

What a loss to the legal community. A real giant, and such a fine man.

May 20, 2019

Joe was one-of-kind, a true gentleman, honest and trustworthy. He will be missed by many!

May 19, 2019

It was a pleasure meeting you! RIP

May 19, 2019

It was a pleasure meeting you Mr. Delay!! RIP

Sue & Jerry Cole

May 19, 2019

I will miss Joe's wise words. He was such a calm and kind man. I will always liove and miss him and Helen.

May 19, 2019

Thank you for your service to our country. Rest In Peace.

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