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Donna Kocot Obituary

Donna G. Kocot
Donna G. Kocot, 75, of Torrington, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 28, 2024. She was born on May 18, 1949, in Stamford, CT to the late Donato (Tony) and Rachel Pellegrino.
Donna graduated from Stamford Catholic High School in 1967 and went to work at American Cyanamid where she spent many years until leaving to raise her children full-time. Afterwards, she decided to try her hand as a business owner and partnered with her brother to start Mail Plus, a mailing house company. After selling the business, she became a caregiver for her father until his passing in 2008.
Donna is survived by her loving husband of 52 years, Thadeus Kocot Jr; her children, Christopher Kocot (Diane), John Kocot (Rosetta), Stefanie Kocot-Bjorne (Wayne), her brother Anthony Pellegrino along with several cousins, nieces and a nephew. Donna could not wait to be a grandmother, she was blessed with five grandchildren, John Jr., Gianna, Nicholas, Brennan and Isabella. Besides her parents, Donna is predeceased by her brother, Sgt. John P. Pellegrino.
Family and Friends may call at the Thurston Rowe Funeral Home, 283 Torrington Road, Litchfield, CT on Friday, November 1, 2024, from 5:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m. with a prayer service at 7:00 p.m.
A Christian Burial will be held at St. John's Cemetery in Darien, CT on Monday, November 4, 2024, at 11:00 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in Donna's memory to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital (stjude.org).
To send the family an online condolence, kindly visit www.thurstonrowefuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Stamford Advocate on Oct. 30, 2024.

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Terry Lee Mitchell

May 12, 2025

Remembering Donna today. Continued prayers to you, Ted, and your family.

Curtis family

November 4, 2024

John and Kocot family, we are so sorry for the loss of your mom, she was a very nice woman. Our condolences from all of us, Jeffrey and the Curtis and Horvath family.

Michele Murtagh

November 3, 2024

Dear Ted and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. May Donna be Resting in Peace. I pray that God will ease you sorrow very soon.
Michele SPD retired

Linda Lamb

November 3, 2024

Ted and family
Sorry to hear about Donna's passing. The last time I saw both of you was at John's wedding in 2001. May she rest in peace.

Linda Connors Lamb & Ken Lamb

Otto & Toni Mallozzi

November 2, 2024

John, Our thoughts and prayers are
with you and your family at this sad
time. May your memories give you
comfort. Otto & Toni Mallozzi

Frank & Florence Koproski

November 1, 2024

Ted,Skip and I are very sorry for your loss, you are in our prayers and thoughts

James Purcell

November 1, 2024

Ted and family
So sorry for Donna´s passing. May she rest in peace

Peaceful Reflections

Mike Stratigakis & Iris Reyes

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Patti Land

October 31, 2024

Dear Chris,John and family,
With heartfelt sympathy. Cherish each and every memory. I am thinking of you and will keep you in my prayers.
Patti Zland

MARION R SCALFARI

October 31, 2024

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL THE FAMILY.
WE HAVE ANOTHER ANGEL IN HEAVEN NOW.

Terry Lee Mitchell

October 31, 2024

Reading this made me really sad today. I will forever remember our school days and her brave brother, John. Thinking of you, John, and your family. Prayers to all of you.

MaryJo and John Pellegrino

October 31, 2024

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Al Chernak

October 30, 2024

Ted sorry for your loss. Condolences to your family

Michael Mann (SPD Ret.

October 30, 2024

Teddy- My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Patricia DePreta Saxe

October 30, 2024

Stacy and Tony very sorry for your loss. I remember Donna from St. Mary´s and I certainly remember your brother John.

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7:00 p.m.

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283 Torrington Road, Litchfield, CT 06759

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