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Evelyn Ruth Fowler

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Evelyn Ruth Fowler obituary, 1921-2022, Stamford, CT

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1921

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2022

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Evelyn Fowler Obituary

Evelyn Ruth Fowler
Evelyn Ruth Fowler, age 100 years and 6 months, died from natural causes, peacefully, at her home in Stamford, Connecticut on February 11, 2022. Evvy was an artist, a writer, a reader, a wit and a wordsmith, an engineer and inventor, an animal lover, a social activist, and one of the founders of the Society of Women Engineers. In addition, she was a wife and mother, who raised four children in Stamford along with a succession of dogs and cats.
Evvy was born in Hartford on August 7, 1921, the second daughter of Joseph and Julia Vernick. She was the salutatorian of Hartford Public High School at the age of 16. Julia wanted Evvy to remain in Connecticut and offered to buy her a car if Evvy would go to college locally to become a public school teacher. But Evvy had no interest in teaching; she wanted to study art, so she enrolled at Pratt Institute in Brooklyn, New York. After graduating from Pratt, she worked as a draftsperson for Hercules Electric and Manufacturing Co. in Brooklyn, a company doing work to support the war effort during the Second World War. The President of Hercules was the late Alexander Fowler, an electrical engineer who was exempted from the draft on account of his technical expertise. Evvy and Alex married in 1944. Alex suggested that Evvy go back to school to study engineering. She returned to Pratt to study chemical engineering after Columbia refused her admission because she was a woman, and Brooklyn Polytech told her they could not accommodate her because they had no women's bathrooms.
Back at Pratt, Evvy met a small cadre of other women in engineering who were among the nascent core of the Society of Women Engineers. Today, the SWE, now an international organization of more than 40,000 members, continues to promote and support women in the technical and engineering fields. Evvy went on to serve in various roles within the local and national chapters, and designed the original logo of the organization.
In the early 1950s, Evvy and Alex formed the American Actuator Corporation which developed industrial safety equipment. Together, they developed electrical control systems to automate the process for bending sheet metal and held several patents for the machinery.
Evvy and Alex moved the business and their growing family to Stamford in 1952. While running the business and raising their four children, she found time to return to art, and took up painting, yoga, and swimming. An avid activist for equality, Evvy was an active member of the League of Women voters and Temple Sinai. She was on the Board of the Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County, the Brandeis organization, and Learning in Retirement. She volunteered for Meals on Wheels, the Tandet Center, the Smith House, and various chamber music groups. Evvy became a vegetarian in the nineteen seventies following one of her children, and brought the New York Times crosswords to a new art form with her multicolored puzzles.
Evvy was thoughtful, talented, humble, and kind. She was adept at understanding the woes of others and always looked to contribute to her community. She was the matriarch of her family and will be sorely missed and always remembered.
Evelyn Fowler leaves behind her four children, Joseph, Ivan, Daniel, and Mary Fowler (Detienne); six grandchildren, Alex, Benjamin, Diana, Stephen, John Detienne, and Samuel; and five great-grandchildren. A graveside service will take place on Wednesday, February 16, 2022 at 12:00 noon, Fairfield Memorial Park, 230 Oaklawn Ave., Stamford 06905. The family will observe shiva (for further information, please visit www.sholomchapel.com). In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Society of Women Engineers, the Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County, Temple Sinai, or your favorite animal welfare organization.
Arrangements are under the direction of Sholom Funeral Chapel, 104 Myrtle Ave., Stamford, (203)-324-4494. To send condolences to the family, please visit www.sholomchapel.com

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Published by Stamford Advocate on Feb. 13, 2022.

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Kalb family

February 16, 2022

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Monica Johns

February 15, 2022

What a remarkable life - I´m grateful to God for the foundation Ms. Fowler laid for SWE. My heart goes out to her family - thank you for sharing her with us

Martha and Bill Wallace

February 15, 2022

Dear Dan, Marcia and Samuel,
Our condolences at the loss of your mother. She was a remarkable woman. May your many memories bring you comfort.
Sincerely,
Martha & Bill

George Simms

February 15, 2022

Dear Ivan and family,
Deepest condolences on the passing of Evelyn. She was blessed to have had such a long life and so many loving family members.
Eternal be her memory, and may she rest in eternal peace.

Marcie S. Gitlin

February 14, 2022

My condolences to the Fowlers. I recall our summer gatherings with Envy, her family, my parents, Robert and Roslyn K. Gitlin, a fellow SWE founder/member, and other of the SWE cohort. Great fun! May Evvy's memory always be for a blessing.

Rebecca Fowler

February 14, 2022

"Those we have held in our arms for a little while, we hold in our hearts forever."
I am so sorry for your loss. Remembering your wonderful mother, Evvy and wishing you comfort.

Deborah Blum-Shore

February 14, 2022

I actually came online to read the obit of someone else, but then read your mom's too. What an amazing life! You know how in Pretty Woman a dressed up Julia Roberts returns to the Beverly Hills store that rejected her and told them "Big mistake. Big."? Props to your mom for not taking Columbia and BP's no's as her final answer. Those schools clearly lost a great catch. I did not know her and never even heard of her til just a few minutes ago, but I know with certainty that your mom's memory is going to live on for a very, very long time to come in the hearts of all of you who knew her.

Alexis Jetter

February 14, 2022

Your mother was nothing less than magnificent: brilliantly funny, wise, take-no-xtyz, loving and so wonderfully expressive. She and the other women who formed the Society of Women Engineers -- including my mother, the other Evelyn (Speter Jetter), Ros Gitlin, Mickey Gerla, and a few others -- were our shining stars. I will forever cherish my memories of Evelyn Fowler, her fond friendship with my mother and my father -- another Al (in our case Allan, in yours, of course, Alex.) I loved, loved, loved our occasional SWE days at your place in CT, playing in the fields nearby, hanging out by that outdoor fireplace, exploring the nooks and crannies of that wonderfully designed house, so cool and intriguing inside in that narrow space that I remember -- and so open and sunny and welcoming in the living room. Sort of a metaphor for Evelyn herself. Mostly I remember her warmth, insight and great joy in talking about people and times and places she loved. What a gift she was and is to you, and to all who knew her. xoxo Alexis

Saul Gitlin

February 14, 2022

My parents, Roslyn and Robert Gitlin, we´re dearriends of Evelyn and Al. Please accept the deepest condolences from our family.
Wow...almost 101....truly along life well lived!

Sandy & Fred Golove

February 13, 2022

We met Evelyn as board nembers of The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County. She was a sweet lady. May her memory be for a blessing.

Steven Simmons

February 13, 2022

The Simmons family extends their condolences to the Fowler family... Dan and my older sister Kathy hung out all of the time. All four of us went to watch ET together. May these good memories comfort you in this time of sadness.

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