Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
BORN
1971
DIED
2020
FUNERAL HOME
Jeffrey Vanech Obituary
Jeffrey Alexander Vanech, 49, a lifetime resident of Stamford passed away on December 7th, 2020. Jeffrey was born on February 11, 1971, in Stamford, CT, to Patricia Ann Strazza Vanech and the late Alexander "Sandy" Vanech.
Jeff Vanech. A brother, uncle, son, and friend. Jeff had the biggest heart, eagerly willing to help anyone in need with a fervency that would make your head spin. Not only did he get the job done, but he took great pride in his work. As much as he loved to crack jokes, he equally loved to be the butt of it as well. Jeff was a dedicated Dallas Cowboy fan and idolized Emmitt Smith. From being a young boy to his last days, Jeff was an all time New York Yankees fan. Competitive by nature, his love for sports was like no other. From playing little league soccer and football to a classic game of wiffleball, his fast and furious behavior allowed him to be the best of the best, even as an adult.
If Jeff's jokes were not enough, his smile and laugh was much more contagious. His family meant the world to him, but his mother, Patricia Vanech, was his complete rock. If love alone could have saved Jeff, he would have never died. Jeff was a spiritual man who loved Jesus. It breaks our hearts to have lost such a faithful man, but we take comfort in knowing that he is now safe within the loving arms of both his Earthly and Heavenly Father. We thank God for Jeffs presence in all of our lives as a bother, uncle, son, and friend. His spirit will forever live on in all of our hearts.
Jeff is survived by his devoted mother Patricia Ann Strazza Vanech of Stamford, his loving sisters Debbie Vanech Lehane of Ridgefield, Donna Coviello and her husband Mike of Ridgefield, and Dawn Bivona and her husband Gary of Stamford. Jeffrey is also survived by his cherished nieces and nephews, Allie, Joe, Nicole, Danielle, Jake, JonMichael, John Christopher, Jeffrey, Samantha, Grace and Jacqueline.
Family and friends may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Ave., Stamford, CT on Sunday, December 12, 2020 from 2:00PM to 6:00PM with a prayer service to be held during calling hours at 5:30PM.
A private burial will be at St. John's RC Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers donations can be made in memory of Jeffrey Alexander Vanech to Toys for Tots. There will be a box available at the funeral home, if you choose to bring a toy, or visit toysfortots.org
To leave an online condolences please visit www.Cognetta.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Vanech
Sponsored by Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory.
Darlene Massari
December 17, 2020
Dear Mrs Vanech, Debbie, Donna & Dawn, My Deepest Sympathies to all of you. My heart is broken for all of you and your family. There are no words to say , I saw Jeff about a year ago in Stamford still with his big smile on his face and laughing as always. Stay Strong God Bless May He rest in peace.
Stephen Weiss
December 13, 2020
Dear Vanech family,
I cannot express how incredibly saddened I was to read about Jeff's passing. So very long ago (1982-84), I had the pleasure of coaching Jeff when he was a member of the Italian Centers Boys Basketball team. Those are good memories of the entire Vanech family that would attend those games . Later, I would run into Jeff from time to time when I had my lawn service in Stamford. We always had nice talks. He lived much too short a life and I know will be greatly missed. My sincerest condolences to all the Vanech's.
Rita and Bill Gerardi
December 13, 2020
Dear Pat, Debbie, Donna and Dawn
We were so very sorry to learn of Jeff’s passing. We had just seen him the previous week and he was so happy.
There are no words to say to help ease your sorrow and pain.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rita and Bill Gerardi
Michael Portanova
December 13, 2020
Deepest condolences on your loss. Thoughts and prayers for Jeff, his family and friends.
Ann Cece
December 12, 2020
Pat and Family, Very sorry to hear of this terrible loss. Prayers for your family.
Ann & Larry Cece
Mary Zezima-Barsch and Zezima Family
December 12, 2020
Our condolences and heartfelt love for each of you. Hold every memory close and cherish them everyday. Jeff is at peace and in a much better place now. May God be with you and hold you tight with this heart wrenching pain.
Pat Buckley
December 11, 2020
My condolences to your entire family. I hope you find peace and know he’s in a better place. Love all of you~
Mona Cognetta
December 11, 2020
Dear Pat and Family,
There are no words for you all, at this sad time. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Mona
Geri Genovese
December 11, 2020
Dear Pat, Deb, Donna, and Dawn, and family I am so so incredibly sorry to hear about Jeff. I know there are no words in such a great loss. Please know I’m praying everyday, and praying he sends his signs to let you know he is okay. I truly wish I could take the pain away. Love and prayers to all of you.
Frank and Pattie Mancini
December 11, 2020
Dear Pat and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our condolences to you all.
Marissa Focazio-Piper
December 11, 2020
We are so deeply sorry for the loss of Jeff, may all your wonderful memories of him keep you going on through the hard days.
Holding you in our prayers
Love, Marissa Piper and family
Heather Inman
December 11, 2020
Pat, Dawn, Debbie, Donna and Family,
My Mom, the boys & I are truly heartbroken for you all! I pray that you all find some comfort knowing that Jeff loved his family with all his heart, he will be forever missed and always be remembered!
Love,
Chrissy, Heather, Hunter & Baylor
Kim OMeara
December 11, 2020
My Dear Pat, Donna, Debbie, Dawn and the entire family,
There are no words that I can say to lessen the pain you are all going through. Jeff was a great guy who was loved and will be missed very much. I pray for you all and for god to give you strength during this very difficult time. RIP Jeff .We love you all, Kim, Jim and Jimmy
Judy Pucci
December 11, 2020
Dear Pat and family,
No one knows how deep the pain in your hearts is with the loss of Jeffrey. God has called him home to rest with Sandy and Aunt Glor. His love for all of you is beyond measure, his heart is pure. May he now rest in peace forever. With prayer, sympathy and God's healing.
Sincerely,
Joanne Donato
December 11, 2020
To the Vanech Family,
I am so sorry for your loss, Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Pam & Bill Romaniello
December 11, 2020
Pat and family
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family in the loss of Jeffrey. May the love he had for you and your family help you all through this most difficult of times. God bless you and your family.
Ozzie and Karen Spezzano
December 11, 2020
Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family may he rest in peace
Marilyn M Buckley
December 11, 2020
To All of The Vanech Family- So sorry to hear of your Loss. May God heal yout Hearts. RIP Jeffrey.
dana cackowski
December 11, 2020
We are so sorry to hear about Jeff. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Stan & Dana
Ron arvoy
December 11, 2020
Miss you Jeff stay you heaven buddy and so ,sorry to the family
Lori Ginolfi DeFelice
December 11, 2020
Donna, Dawn and Family
My prayers surround you. I pray that God’s love and grace bring you comfort and strength during this most difficult time. Know that I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Dicine Puletti
December 10, 2020
Mrs. Vanech, Debbie, Donna, Dawn and families, I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing, thinking and praying for you all! So many great memories on Vanech Dr. back in the day, always will remember Jeff's beautiful smile. Love to all, Kelly
Dawn
December 10, 2020
Pat, Debbie, Donna, Dawn + Family
Lifting you guys up the many, many days ahead. He was a good friend with a beautiful heart + smile and miss him dearly. Psalm 116 says precious in the sight of the Lord is the passing of His saints. Jeff got his crown + hanging with King Jesus.
Love you guys so much
xo Dawn Vaccaro
Dolores Spoto
December 10, 2020
Pat and daughters,
So very sorry for your loss. May Jeffrey rest in peace. I will remember him in my prayers.
Fondly,
Dee Spoto and family
Showing 1 - 25 of 25 results
Make a Donation
in Jeffrey Vanech's name
Memorial Events
for Jeffrey Vanech
Dec
13
Calling hours
2:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.
Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT 06902
Dec
13
Prayer Service
5:30 p.m.
Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT 06902
Funeral services provided by:
Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT 06902
How to support Jeffrey's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Jeffrey Vanech's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
