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Dr. Joseph John Amato

1952 - 2025

Dr.  Joseph John Amato obituary, 1952-2025, Newtown, CT

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2025

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Joseph Amato Obituary

Dr. Joseph John Amato
August 16, 1952 - October 20, 2025
Dr. Joseph Amato born in Brooklyn, NY on August 16th, 1952 and died October 20th, 2025 in Danbury, CT at the age of seventy-three. He was a former Roman Catholic priest of The Diocese of Bridgeport, Connecticut, and an Adjunct Professor of Psychology at The University of Connecticut, a psychologist within the Department of Psychiatry at Stamford Hospital, a psychologist within The Veterans Healthcare Administration and most recently a psychologist in practice with The Center of Revitalizing Psychiatry in Sarasota, Florida, using telehealth technology. He died peacefully in hospice care in Danbury, Connecticut in the company of his beloved longtime companion Chuck Alejandro and their two golden doodles, Max and Due.
He attended Cathedral College, Douglaston, NY; The Seminary of the Immaculate Conception, LI, NY; The Theological College of Catholic University, Washington D.C.; New York University, NY, where he was granted an MA and Ph.D.; he was a candidate at The New York University Post-Doctoral Program in Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy.
He completed his internship and residency at Mercy Hospital in San Diego, California, and a Clinical Fellowship in Child Psychology at The Newington Children's Hospital in Connecticut (now the Connecticut Children's Medical Center).
Finishing his academic and clinical training, he accepted a position at Stamford Hospital in the emerging field of Psycho-oncology in 1992. He continued in that work for 5 years, when he was needed within the Department of Psychiatry, and was assigned to the Outpatient Psychiatric Clinic. During his time at Stamford Hospital, he was also teaching at the University of Connecticut in the Stamford Campus.
In 2007, he left Stamford Hospital to take a position in the critical area of Suicide Prevention, as some of his UCONN students were returned from Operation Freedom in Iraq, Afghanistan and various other wars. He served as the Suicide Prevention Coordinator for the VA Health Care Systems in the Greater New York Metropolitan area from 2007 until March 2015. He played a nationally recognized clinical leadership role in this groundbreaking work. For his work, he was given the prestigious Federal Executive Board (FEB) "Call to Service Award" in 2010.
He has taught Clinical Assessment in the Department of Applied Psychology at NYU for a number of years and has been a clinical supervisor for various doctoral programs in psychology in the NY area. As part of his duties at Stamford Hospital and then at VA, he was appointed Assistant Clinical Professor of Medical Psychology (in psychiatry) for Columbia University Medical School and New York Medical College.
He was the lead author of two published non-grant funded papers. The first, in 1998, in the area of Psychological Support for Autologous Bone Marrow Transplant Patients; the other, published in 2017, in the area of Spirituality as a possible protective factor for those with suicide risk.
In 1980, he established a community theater group in Riverside, Connecticut. It became known as the "St. Catherine's Players." He produced and directed the first of 7 annual full-length musical productions. In 1987, his work in theater was featured in the Connecticut Section of The Sunday New York Times, titled "Priest Uses Theater to Bind Community." Many of his actors went on to careers in TV and Broadway. The St. Catherine's Players continue to perform an annual full-length musical and is now in its 45th year.
He is predeceased by his parents, Salvatore and Mary Amato. He leaves behind Chuck Alejandro, his companion of 29 years, a brother, Frank Amato and his wife Martha Amato, a sister Tina Marie Amato Broccoli and her husband Ralph Broccoli, and 5 nieces: Jennifer Amato, Kristina Amato, Danielle Stango, Maria Balistreri and Lisa Dedes as well as his grandniece and grandnephews: Joey Stango, Noah Stango, Liliana Dedes, and Antonino Balistreri.
In his honor, donations may be made to NYU scholarships for indigent students or for relief service organizations for Gaza and Ukraine.

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Published by Stamford Advocate from Oct. 24 to Oct. 26, 2025.

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Emily Docimo-Goett

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You are in my thoughts and prayers, Joe. RIP. You were a great influence in this life. We ove you always.

Rose Mary Dwyer

Yesterday

I met Joe through my brother, Chuck, who was his partner and companion. His intelligence and kindness was evident from the first moment I met him. He shared his knowledge on many subjects and was committed to his profession. There are very few people in the world like him and he will be sorely missed. I was always appreciative of the love and kindness he showed me, my brother and my mother. I pray that God grants him eternal peace and love.

Ed Krumeich

Yesterday

I never met him but the St. Catherine´s Players is part of his legacy. When I performed in plays at St. Catherine in the 90´s Father Joe was referred to reverently as the group´s founder by those who were part of the group from the beginning.

Rev. William F Platt

October 25, 2025

Joe was a good and kind man with a particular skill of bringing people together. As a priest, he was a terrific preacher - always willing to make people reflect upon how the Gospel is meant to impact their daily lives. He made people think and reflect upon how the words of Jesus need to be incarnated in their lives. He was truly a man who cared for those on the margins of our society and inspired people to care for them. He will be missed. May he rest in the peace of Christ and be embraced by the loving mercy of God.

Paul Romesser

October 25, 2025

Thank Mr. Amato for showing me what true kindness and selflessness means. Your light signs bright. Having met you was my gift and honor. Rest in peace.

Tom Dougherty

October 25, 2025

Very sad to learn of Joe's passing. We lost a good one but as my old law partner would say "let us not mourn that he passed away but celebrate that he passed our way in life". I am a better person because he passed my way.

New Canaan, Ct. Resident

October 24, 2025

An absolutely amazing individual who God has blessed with time and talent to "better"
serve those in need.
Joseph epitomized the meaning
of the saying `for I shall go through this world just once;
therefore, any good I can do...´
Thank you for helping and
supporting those who could not
otherwise do that alone.
May God bless you, your family
and friends.
Sincerely,

Gina Williamson

October 24, 2025

Joe was one of my teachers in my Freshman year at St. Mary HS. When he formed the St. Catherine Players, he had recruited my Grandfather for Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat and then the following year for Jesus Christ Superstar. I then decided that I wanted to be in a show with my grandfather and was part of the chorus for Jesus Christ Superstar and went on to do all the shows following that for the next 9 years. Joe was Father Joe at the time, and the years that I was involved with Saint Catherine's players he really had brought the Youth of the church together with this community event. They are very fond memories from me. I'm very saddened to hear of Joe's passing. He was definitely a fighter and a very brilliant scholar. I am sure there is a special place in heaven for him. He will be missed and I send my deepest condolences to all his family and friends. Fly high my dear friend and thank you.

Daniel Maldonado

October 24, 2025

You touched many souls in a very positive way. You will be dearly missed rest in peace.

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