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DeVito, Sr., Ralph J.
Ralph John DeVito, Sr., 89, a lifelong resident of Stamford, peacefully passed away at his home on Monday, December 23rd with his loving family by his side. Ralph was born September 18, 1924 in Stamford to the late
Nicholas Frank and Louise Lionetti DeVito.
Ralph attended Stamford schools and graduated from Stamford High School with the class of 1942. Following graduation, Ralph was drafted by the Brooklyn Dodgers baseball team to play catcher, but he passed up that opportunity to serve his country during World War II in the U.S. Marine Corps. He served in the South Pacific where he took part in operations on Tarawa, Kwajalein Island, Apamama and Makin. After his return he became an apprentice at Danersk Craftsmen, beginning his lifelong profession creating, repairing and restoring fine furniture which is in elegant homes and museums worldwide. He then founded Stamford Craftsmen which he operated for over 10 years. In 1974 he founded Raphael's Antique Restoration which specializes in custom antique furniture reproductions as well as preserving and restoring valuable antiques. Ralph operated that business until transferring it to his son Mark who continues to operate it today.
Ralph was also an active member of the Marine Corps League. He was a lifetime member of the American Rabbit Breeders Association and past president of the American Netherland Dwarf Rabbit Breeders association where he served for over 10 years and where he won numerous awards for his champion stock. He enjoyed playing golf, bowling, billiards and his many friends at the Stamford Senior Center.
Ralph is survived by his loving children; Louise DeVito Aulenti and her husband Joseph, Ralph John DeVito, Jr. and his wife Grace Mehan DeVito, Marie DeVito and George Sinclair and Mark DeVito and his wife Jean Bankowski DeVito, his nine grandchildren; Carrie Aulenti Hancock and her husband Clifford, Daniel Aulenti and his wife Sarah Hurd, Gregory Aulenti and his wife Jill Triumfo Aulenti, Robert Procaccini and his wife Dineen Forest Procaccini, Jeff Procaccini and his wife Loren Young Procaccini, Ralph DeVito III, Gaea DeVito, Zoe DeVito and Joseph DeVito, and eight great grandchildren, Miranda and Molly Hancock, Walker, Eden, Ethan and Adam Aulenti, and Ella and Dylan Procaccini, and his faithful dog Miller. In addition to his parents, Ralph was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 55 years, Theresa Passero DeVito and his brothers Frank and Joseph DeVito.
Ralph's family will receive the condolences of family and friends on Friday, December 27th from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at Bosak Funeral Home, 453 Shippan Ave., Stamford, CT, 06902. A Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Saturday, December 28th at 10 a.m. at St. Mary Church, 566 Elm Street, in Stamford. The interment will immediately follow mass at Queen of Peace R.C. Cemetery on Rockrimmon Road in Stamford.
Mr. DeVito's family has entrusted his final care to Bosak Funeral Home, 453 Shippan Avenue, in Stamford. If you care to leave an expression of sympathy for the family online, please sign the guestbook on www.bosakfuneralhome.com or visit the funeral home on Facebook at www.facebook.com/bosakfuneralhome.

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Published by Stamford Advocate on Dec. 26, 2013.

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January 6, 2014

WE LIVED ONLY 2 STREETS APART AND ALL ATTENDED ST. MARY'S YET NEVER KNEW YOUR DAD FOUGHT AT TARAWA WHERE MY DAD'S YOUNGEST BROTHER WAS KILLED. OUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU. PATTTIE (DE PRETA) SAXE

January 6, 2014

WE LIVED TWO STREETS APART (AVERY ST.) ATTENDED ST. MARY'S AND NEVER KNEW YOUR FATHER SERVED IN TARAWA AND MY FATHER'S YOUNGEST BROTHER, JAMES DE PRETA , WAS KILLED IN THE INVASION. SINCERELY, PATTIE (DE PRETA) SAXE

December 30, 2013

Dear Family, I am so sorry to hear the sad news. Mr. DeVito was such a sweetie, and now that I read about him, realize how amazing he was. It is never easy saying goodbye, no matter what. Don't be strong, ok to cry, love Karen S

Johnna Paradis

December 30, 2013

Dear DeVito Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in getting through this sorrowful time. My condolences to your entire family.

Phyllis & Brian Taylor

December 28, 2013

Louise, Joe and All the DeVitos,
Our sympathy and prayers are with you through this difficult time.

C. Vanderkeift

December 28, 2013

12/28/2013
Dear DeVito Family:
May Ralph's spirit of laughter, love and living life to the fullest be with all in his passing. I knew your Father from the "over 60's table" at the Government Center. What a gentleman he was to everyone he met .. . . we'll truly miss his wonderful stories and the sharing of his life with us.
With sincere sympathy and love,
C. Vanderkeift - Senior Center

Cousin Steve DeVito

December 28, 2013

Louise, Ralph, Marie and Mark, so sorry to hear of your loss. I am praying for your Dad, you and your family as you mourn. May he rest in peace with the Lord.

Mike Vacca

December 27, 2013

Marie,
I am sorry to hear of your Dad's passing.
God bless him and all of you during this difficult time.
In sympathy,
Mike Vacca

Lucille Spera

December 26, 2013

Dear Louise, Joe, Ralph, Marie, Mark and Family. so very sorry to hear of your loss. What a wonderful life your Dad lived and he got to see all his children, grandchildren and great granchildren. He is now at rest and united once again with your Mom. Know you are all in my prayers. Oh the memories of Devito 4th of July picnics !

Rose Sabia

December 26, 2013

Dear Louise,Joe and family. So sorry to read of the lost of your father and grandfather. Take comfort in knowing that he is at peace in the arms of Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. My sympathy and Condolence. To your entire. Family .

C, M Baranowski

December 26, 2013

Dear Louise, Marie, Mark, Ralph and families,
Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you all! You are all so lucky to have had this wonderful man as your dad / granddad. And luckier still to have such a beautiful soul watching over you and no doubt all of us! I have very fond memories of your dad - May your memories bring you peace. Take care of one another.
Sending our love,
Celeste & Michael

December 26, 2013

To Mark and his family, we where sorry to hear of your fathers passing. the memories you have will last a life time which Is shown in the home movie you found .

Brian and Maria Palmer
Donald "Shadow " Palmer

Gunnar Redin

December 26, 2013

Condolences to the family of Ralph, a Stamford High School classmate, and a great athlete and good friend.

Bruno Giordano

December 26, 2013

Mark, and members of Ralph's family: As you know over the years as owners of Atlantic S businesses, Dad and I had many discussions about sports, taxes, and politics etc. He was a serious and hard-working taxpayor. a perfectionist and prideful guy about his effort to serve and make people happy. He was one of Stamford's best citizens and easy-going with everyone. We wish him and the family well Condolences on your loss. Bruno Giordano, neighbor

December 26, 2013

We owe so much to these brave young men of our "Greatest Generation" who went off to war to serve and protect. Thank you for your honorable service to our country .
A grateful American

Stephen. & Patricia Martinik

December 24, 2013

Dearest devito family may we say how glad we are to have know your dad Ralph he was very unique and interesting
We had the pleasure of his company on many family occasions and we will all.miss him you are all very lucky to be his family we are sad for you but happy for him he is finally at peace and back with mama Theresa what a wonderful reunion. All our love pat & Steve

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