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Raymond B. Smyth

1946 - 2021

Raymond B. Smyth obituary, 1946-2021, Stamford, CT

BORN

1946

DIED

2021

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Thomas M. Gallagher Funeral Home

104 Myrtle Avenue

Stamford, Connecticut

Raymond Smyth Obituary

Raymond B. Smyth
Raymond Brian Smyth passed away on September 22nd of 2021 at the age of 75 with his beloved wife of 48 years (Carol M. Smyth) at his bedside after battling a terminal illness of the lungs.
He is survived by his two children, Paul Smyth (Szilvia Toth-Smyth) and Steven Smyth (Karen Smyth) as well as his three grandchildren that he was extremely proud of: Michael and Caroline and Hunter.
Ray was a well-known lifelong resident of Stamford where he grew up on the South End side of the City with his three now deceased brothers (Joseph and Jack and Michael) along with his two late parents (Patrick and Helen) who had immigrated from Ireland.
He is a retired partner from the local accounting firm Masotti & Masotti where he spent nearly 40 years and had also served on the Board of Directors with Patriot National Bank since 2008. Ray is the former President and Treasurer of the Stamford Kiwanis Club as well as holding the same volunteer position with both the Stamford American Little League and Stamford Youth Basketball. Ray was also a member of the Knights of Columbus for over 25 years. More recently he was a Board Member at Trinity Catholic High School where he had attended as a student. Ray then went on to graduate from Fairfield University in 1968 where he earned a Bachelor of Science Degree in Accounting.
Ray was a devout Catholic who had a passion for many sports. His teams to watch included the Yankees and NY Giants and Notre Dame. While growing up in Stamford he was a frequent visitor of the old YMCA where his team once held the National Relay Record. He greatly enjoyed coaching his children in soccer and basketball and baseball.
After surviving a freak accident in the Spring of 1991, Ray was told that he would never move again from the neck down. He attributes his ability to soon overcome being a quadriplegic due to his faith in the Lord as well as his strong Irish upbringing as it relates to never giving up. Hence, he also survived much longer than expected per his doctors with his more recent Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis disease. We as his family and friends are thankful as well as blessed for the so-called extra time that we were given. Ray was a great man and will be eternally missed.
Calling hours will be held on Monday, September 27, 2021 from 5 p.m.-8 p.m. at Thomas M. Gallagher Funeral Home (same building as Cognetta) 104 Myrtle Ave Stamford, CT (203)-359-9999. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 a.m. on Tuesday, September 28, 2021 at Basilica of St. John the Evangelist 279 Atlantic St Stamford, CT. The Interment will follow at St John Cemetery, Darien. To send condolences to the family, please visit www.gallagherfuneralhome.com

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Published by Stamford Advocate on Sep. 23, 2021.

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Your Classmaye Ken Kikta '64

September 20, 2022

Ray was a great SCHS'64 friend and classmate
Our Graduating Class is diminished with his passing.
My heartfelt prayers to his family
Miss ya Buddy

Jane Brady

November 26, 2021

Dear Ray Thanksgiving Day driving thru Stamford only to find online that you. are now up there making mischief once again with Mike!!!Such a light in this world Ray now back in God´s arms sending love to Carol and your family. Jane Jacobs Brady

Dale Wyatt

November 17, 2021

So sorry to hear of Ray´s death. I remember the great times I had with Mike Jacobs at Ray and Carol´s home.

Phil Ferraro

October 25, 2021

So sorry to read about Ray. I've thought of him often and have fond memories of him.

Joseph Diamond

October 1, 2021

Raymond was truely a really nice guy. Knew him via basketball.

Darlene

September 28, 2021

I remember him and his family well I was a little girl but do remember, We lived right next door to them on Henry St RIP Raymond

Betty Black Czarnecki

September 28, 2021

Carol, Paul and Steven, I am so sorry to read about Ray's passing. He was an all around good guy. Went through St John's School back in the 50s with Ray, then SCHS in the 60s. Ray was always the most friendly, happy person. His love will live on in you, his family, forever. My sympathy and prayers are with you. May his soul Rest In Peace.
An old school friend,
Betty Black Czarnecki

Michael Portanova

September 28, 2021

Deepest condolences on your loss. Thoughts and prayers for all.

Vincent J. Freccia

September 27, 2021

Paul,
I'll always remember your Dad as a most caring & generous person. Please accept my sincere condolences and best regards.

Ken Kikta SCHS '64

September 27, 2021

Carol, Paul and Steven

I was shocked to learn of Ray's passing
We first met at Stamford Catholic High School - that was back in 1960.
He was a good classmate and friend who was always very friendly and upbeat.

Please receive my deepest condolences and sorrow
may he always be with you.

I will miss him greatly and be praying for him and for you .

Ronald a./Louise B Sabia

September 26, 2021

Paul, Sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Our sympathy and prayers go out to you and family.

Ken Griffin

September 25, 2021

Worked with Ray for many years on the Board of Stamford Youth Basketball. Ray was as strong and steady a financial advisor to the League as he was a friend. He will be missed.

Ted Breunich

September 24, 2021

Ray and I met at St. John's school in kindergarten and graduated together in 1960. We also graduated from Fairfield U. together in 1968. He was a great guy with many, many friends who will miss him.

Farewell, my friend.

Robert McGrath

September 23, 2021

I was a classmate of Ray´s at Saint John´s School in Stamford all through our elementary years. Unfortunately I was no way as smart as he was but he didn´t care.
Raymond was kind and I was very fortunate to have him as a friend. Later on I was able to once again meet up with him again when our children became friends with each other carrying on our friendships. Rest In Peace my friend!
Bob McGrath, Stamford

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