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Barbara Diller Obituary
Age 61, of Maitland FL, formerly of Elmira, passed peacefully on March 25, 2010 in Florida, surrounded by her loving family. Barbara was born on July 27, 1948 in Flushing, NY, daughter of the late Robert and Clara (Dawson) Allmendinger. Barbara is survived by her husband of 40 years, Tom; son and daughter-in-law, Brian and Allison Diller; daughter Amy Diller all of Maitland, FL; sister, Mary Rizza of Phoenix AZ; brothers, Robert Allmendinger with Cindy Sullivan, and Scott Allmendinger with wife Sue, all of Elmira; granddaughters, Tristyn and Jaelyn of Maitland; brother-in-law John Rizza of Florida; nieces Kathleen Rizza of Ft. Wayne IN, Kerry Rizza of Payson AZ, Kellee Johnson of Elmira; nephews, Michael Rizza of Lincoln NE and Michael Allmendinger of Elmira; and special friend Madixx "Mookie" Burge of Elmira. Barbara was retired from the Elmira City School District having been a secretary at Broadway Middle School. Barbara was a very loving wife, mother, sister, grandmother and loyal friend. She will be missed terribly. God bless you, Barb, and rest in peace. Visitation will be at Collison's Family Funeral Home and Crematory, 3806 Howell Branch Road, Winter Park FL on Monday, March 29, 2010 from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Her funeral service will be held at the funeral home on Tuesday, March 30, 2010 at 11:00 a.m. Special thank you to Hospice of the Comforter who helped care for Barbara in her final days. Donations may be made to your local Hospice or the American Cancer Society.
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Jessica Killen
March 22, 2020
It is impossible to believe that it has been 10 years since you left us, Barb. The memories of our friendship are as bright as your smile. Your incredible energy still fills the gap created at your parting. I am so grateful for the years we worked and played, laughed and cried together. Know that you are always in my heart and your family are always in my prayers.
Jessica Killen
March 22, 2019
I think of you every day, Barb, when I put on your birthstone ring. I am so grateful for your friendship. You showed me what a true friend should be--patient, kind, forgiving, trusting, and loyal. Some of the best times of my life were spent laughing with you. I miss you, dear friend, but I know you are wearing a bright crown in heaven. You earned it every day here on earth. Love always.
Kathy Hoverman
April 5, 2010
Barbara:
The person who made me feel at home when I moved from California to Florida.
The dynamo who put any slacker at work to shame.
The girl who loved M&M's.
The lady I laughed with every single day at work, no matter how crappy the day was!
The friend I called when my car battery was dead and she said "I'll be right there".
One of the biggest reasons I cried when I moved away from Orlando.
One of the greatest joys in my life when our friend Jessie got us all back together again 2 years ago!
You were loved, are loved and will always be loved.
Kathy Hoverman
March 31, 2010
"Barb was a strong, independent, kind woman. Above all, I think it was her undying devotion to family and friends, which so eloquently defined her life. Through my communication with our mutual friend Jessica, I know that she fought her illness, as she lived her life, with grace and courage. She was a gentle person who will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all." Nona Grant Smith (Sugar Valley, GA)
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Donna & Fred Nelson
March 29, 2010
Dearest Amy...
Sweetheart we are so saddened by your loss. I never had the honor of meeting your mom, but from all the stories I have heard you tell, I know she was the best. Amy, please know you are always welcome to come by or call whenever you need anything. We love you so much. Please take comfort in knowing that your Mom is the arms of God and at peace.
Michelle "Lockman"Johnson
March 29, 2010
Barb,you will be missed by many-you were such a sweet and caring person.I've known you since Amy and I were in first grade and you always welcomed me in your home:). You fought hard and were very brave,may you rest in peace,love you!!
Linda Alan Hager
March 29, 2010
We are so sorry to hear about Barb. She was my best friend in school and we lived across the street from each other. My early days are all good memories of Barb and being on Maple Manor. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Robin & Bob Poalillo
March 29, 2010
Brian,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of deep sorrow. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you and your family to help you though this difficult time. We love you all!
Jessica Killen
March 29, 2010
Barb honored us with her life and love. She inspired me with her commitment to her family and to life; she fought her illness with tremendous bravery. She deserves the peace and happiness that I know she has found.
March 29, 2010
It is with a heavy heart that I say good bye to my Aunt that has been so much more then an Aunt to me. Aunt Barb you were one in a million, an angel sent to us but taken too early. You were always there when we needed you. I remember brushing your hair and giving you massages just to earn a $1. I remember when I was mad at Uncle Tom wrote you and you called as soon as you received the letter to make sure I was OK, it was too late snail mail allowed me to get over it buy you took the time to check on me. I remember day after Thanksgiving shopping; you are the only one who could get a $200 outfit for $10!!!!!! I remember you keeping the family together after my parents got a divorce. I remember all the holiday meals at your house: you always included our kids as if they were your own. I remember staying up to all hours wrapping present your bought through out the year for Christmas. You saved every box, and would find present hidden 3 months after Christmas. I remember several Christmas' where you would say "wait there is one more here somewhere for you" I remember the lumpy potatoes and the bread toss' on holidays. No matter how down I felt your house was always bright and happy. I've tried to remember a time when you were angry or upset, I can't. You filled my life with nothing buy joy. You were the kindest, sweetest, most-open hearted woman/role model I've ever known. I am honored to have you as a member of my family, and I am honored that Taylor was able to grow up with you in her life, Jordyn will miss that part of her life but she will know her Aunt Barb anyway. Uncle Tom, Amy and Brian I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she's watching each and everyone of us now between playing cards with Grandma and traveling to Atlantic City. My deepest sympathy to you. Kerry, Taylor and Jordyn
Pam and Kurt Bollenbacher
March 29, 2010
Barb was one of the most easygoing, family oriented and caring friends I have ever known. Some of my best "life memories" will remain the "Nascar Weekends" spent at the Diller Hotel with Barb, Tom and the kids. These will be cherished memories forever. There is a new angel in the heavens today, watching over her beloved family and friends
March 28, 2010
Barbara, Thank you for always being so kind to my daughter, Joy,and welcoming her into your home at all times. That has always been her home away from home. I've felt so blessed that Joy has always had Amy to lean on. You have raised a very special young lady. Your attitude, values, hopes & dreams became a part of Amy. I'm hoping the legacy of love you left for Amy & Brian will be a source of strength & comfort for them now.
Much love to you & your lovely family, Charlene Wall
Cam Takacs Cintron
March 28, 2010
Diller Family~ My Condolences go out to you all. Amy my BFF since the 10th grade I am so sorry you lost your Mom she was a Super Sweet Kind Women and will never be forgotten. She will always be there in your hearts and you will always have cherrished memories. Love you all and may God Bless You all
Jill Pack
March 28, 2010
It was a pleasure to work with Barb at Broadway. She has been missed at the school and will be missed in life. She was an amazing woman.
March 28, 2010
I am so sorry to hear about Barb, or as I usually called her, Mrs. Diller. I worked with her at Broadway and she was such a wonderful woman. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Yours truly,
Erica Agan
Kimbelry Wright
March 28, 2010
Sorry that I never got to meet her but I work with her daughter who is a true blessing to life. Barb you raised a Beautiful, Caring, Strong, Unselfish Daughter. I Thank God that she was able to be with you to the end and knowing that she was able to have some last minute times with you is a true blessing from you up above. I will keep your family in my prayers and thoughts.
Joy Spradley
March 28, 2010
Mom....well you were like a mom to me. I will miss you very much. Going to miss shopping with you and finding the best deals! I love you!
March 28, 2010
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Barb was a special person, with a heart of gold. God Bless.
Marianne (Forte) Diehl
March 28, 2010
Tom, Mary, Bert, Scott and families,
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all. Barb was the best. May she rest in eternal peace.
Diana Carroll
Sara & Dennis Bombara
March 28, 2010
God bless the Diller and Allmendinger family's, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Benita Eldridge
March 28, 2010
Barb was a faithful and professional secretary at Broadway MS. I will always remember her smile, patience, and compassion. She was also my 'Secret Santa' one year and I received the most beautiful gifts. Barb, I will miss you. To the family, my thoughts are with you as you travel through this time of loss.
Kelly Pratt
March 28, 2010
Barb was one of the most genuine people that I knew..very generous and treated me and my daughter like famly when we needed a place to stay in O town. She made it possible for me to attend many of the sports tournaments that I would not have been able to if I had to pay for a motel. Thanks for the Motel Diller experience Barb. We have missed your smiling face for a long time now. God Bless.
steph and ron bauman
March 28, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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