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Janet E. Carey

1936 - 2020

BORN

1936

DIED

2020

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Barber Funeral Home - Horseheads

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Horseheads, New York

Janet Carey Obituary

Janet E. Carey

Horseheads - On October 30, 2020, Janet Carey got her wings and went to walk with the angels. Janet was born in Elmira, New York in 1936 to Robert and Dorothy Hill. She loved life. Jan loved growing up on the Southside riding bikes, walking to school and dances with her girlfriends, being chased by boys and dancing in the follies. After she graduated, her dream was of getting married and having a big family. Jan married Tom Kosloski in 1955. While Jan wanted a big family, she and Tom had one daughter, Kathryn (Kathe). Anyone who knew Jan knew Kathe was Jan's heart and soul. Jan married Bill Carey in 1980. Bill had 2 children, and it was then, Jan realized she had plenty of room in her heart to add another daughter, Kim, and a son, Billy. She treasured her children and embraced every moment with them. Her greatest joy in life was to be called, "mom" or "momma" and later to be called "Gramma Bill" or "Grandma". Jan loved the outdoors. She and Bill had a cottage on Little Lake in Odessa for many years. Her grandchildren, Sarah and Ryhan, have many fond memories of swimming with Gramma Bill, weeding seaweed, looking for fish, eating Jello jigglers and cuddling with gramma under her many afghans while watching a VHS tape they had picked out at the General Store. Later, Jan and Bill traded the cottage for a boat they kept at Seneca Lake. Jan and Bill spent many hours at Catherine Creek with their good friends, Ray and Ethel Frost, fishing and hunting. Jan also loved to cook and can. Anyone stopping to the house was offered a meal or a jar of tomatoes to take home. Jan worked at Remington Rand and then took time off to raise Kathe. She went back to work at LRC which later became Augat then Thomas and Betts. After her retirement, she danced at the senior center taking clogging, line dancing, ballroom dancing and Zumba. She was an active member of the Moose Club. She was also a member of the Ladies Auxiliary VFW. Jan has lived at Bethany Manor for the past four years. She would want us to thank the nurses and staff for taking such good care of her, keeping her safe and she loved all the many friends she made there. Jan is survived by her loving children, Kathe(Dan) Sempler, Kim(Craig) Hogan and Bill (Nicole) Carey; her grandchildren Sarah (Dave) Benson, Ryhan (Jessica) Sempler, Steven, Michael and Kaelee Carey; step- grandchildren Kayla, Joshua and Jaedon Laundenslager; 10 great grandchildren; her beloved sister Diane (Joe) Patelunas and brother, Sam; and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. She is predeceased by her parents; her husband, Bill; and her sister, Isabel Farrell. Due to Covid, a private family burial will take place at the family's convenience. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Jan's honor to The Alzheimer's Association, 225 N. Michigan Ave., Fl. 17, Chicago, IL 60601. Please honor Jan by raising a glass and toasting all the joy and love she brought into all the lives she touched. She will forever be in our hearts.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Nov. 7 to Nov. 8, 2020.

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Connie OHerron

November 14, 2020

I had the pleasure of knowing and caring for Janet and Bill while I worked for their primary care physician Dr Rodgers in Big Flats I was so happy to be reunited again with Janet when I briefly worked at Bethany Courtyards We shared many hugs! I was happy to read that she was at her Granddaughters with her family when she died She was always one of my favorite patients and we became friends I know that she and Bill are together dancing again in heaven My deepest sympathy goes out to Kathy and her entire family ♥ Love Connie OHerron

Amy Frost Graham

November 9, 2020

Billy, Kim and Kathe,
My family had many good times with Bill and Jan hunting, fishing and sitting around the campfire. She loved her kids and her grandkids so much! She is together with Bill again. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Ray & Ethel Frrost

November 9, 2020

We had many,many good times; we will plant a tree near the cabin on the creek where we shared many campfires . Ray & Ethel Frost

Marilyn Skebey Skebey

November 9, 2020

My Condolences to the family of Janet Carey. I just wanted to say I had the priveledge of volunteering and supporting Jan during her time here at Bethany, through visit's. She was such a sweet lady and always had a smile on her face whenever I saw her. I will miss her prescence. Rest in peace Jan!!

Marilyn Skebey, Resident at Bethany Knoll Apartments.

Kim Koval

November 9, 2020

Kathe,
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of your Mom. Although I never met her, upon reading about her life, I know that she was kind and loving person, and she was loved by all. It is also clear to me how you became the wonderful person you are today. As the dark sorrow slowly passes, may the days ahead be filled with your bright, sweet memories of a life well-lived, loved, and shared. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
Kim Koval

Dave & Tina Stevens

November 8, 2020

Kim and Billy - Dave and I have many memories of time spent with your dad and Jan. The creek was a regular ritual, as was the first day of fishing and hunting season! So sad those times are past but there are many wonderful memories to hold on to. Hopefully you can find peace knowing they’re together.

Sharon Coletta

November 8, 2020

I knew jan late in her life and she was always a hapoy-go-lucky individual who loves to dance and do activities. Very social sweet lady!

Nicole Carey

November 7, 2020

Mom Jan , Thank you for accepting me into your family as Billy's wife . We will miss the every Sunday pit stops from you and dad Bill even more now . We are sad and happy all at the same time because we know you are up there with dad , in his arms dancing . Thank you for all you have done for us . Much love always

November 5, 2020

Billy & Kim, so very sorry for your loss. Praying for peace upon you. May the love you shared with her bring you some comfort.
Rosie Brown-Wilcox

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