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Joan Aylesworth Obituary
Spotsylvania, VA - Age 73, of Spotsylvania, VA, formerly of Elmira, NY passed away at home after a short battle with lung cancer on April 17, 2020. She was surrounded by her loving family. Joan was born in Seneca Falls, NY, on October 3, 1946, the daughter of the late Douglas and Verda (Stewart) Martin. Joan was predeceased by her loving husband of 48 years, Dale W. Aylesworth, sister Jeanette Leanord, grandson Alexzander W. Aylesworth, and great granddaughter Mea DePrimo. Joan was employed by Switzer AirCraft for many years and then ran a daycare out of her home. She was best known for her compassion and generosity for other people and was always there to lend a helping hand to someone in need. She enjoyed playing games, but her greatest passion was spending time with her grandchildren. She is survived by her children: Dale Aylesworth, Amy Aylesworth (Robert Walborn Jr.), Elizabeth (Buffy) Cady, and Brenda (Joseph) Kennedy. Joan is also survived by her grandchildren: Katelynn Lovely, Ciara Lewis, Braden Kennedy, Kyle Cady, Meghan Kennedy, Loghan Aylesworth, and Jason Dominikoski. Also, siblings: Pat (Clayton) Conrad, Maxine (Swede) Sandgren, Douglas Martin, Sandy (Wayne) Patterson, Madge (Roger) Reeser, Sheila Allen, Joey (Sue) Martin, and Aunt Verna Enderly. Due to the Covid-19 virus, there will only be a graveside service for immediate family members. The service will take place at Forest Lawn Memorial Park on Wednesday, April 22, 2020. The family would like to thank everyone who has shown kindness and support during this difficult time. Arrangements are with the James D. Barrett Funeral Home.
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Jennifer Verhelle
April 21, 2020
It comforts me to know you are no longer in pain and have reunited with Uncle Butch. I love you Aunt Joan. RIP.
Madge Reeser
April 21, 2020
My love and prayers go out to all. I was very fortunate that I got to celebrate and spend time with Joan on her last two birthdays. As family we shared a lot of fond memories. We shared tears of happiness and sadness. In this time of grief we can be thankful that she is no longer in pain. Love ya sis and may you Rest In Peace.
Mary Fleming
April 20, 2020
So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with ya'll.
Marissa Hursh
April 20, 2020
I didn't know Joan very well, but she was always kind to me the times we met. Dale, Amy, Elizabeth and Brenda, and family, I know no words can take away the pain of the loss of your mom. I'm thinking of all of you and sending my love.
Debbie Lament
April 20, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Mike Conklin
April 19, 2020
Thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this difficult time.
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