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Patricia Lauper Obituary

LAUPER, Patricia A.
Community Volunteer

Devoted member and volunteer of the Southport Community for many years, passed away Tuesday, May 14th, 2008, very unexpectedly at the Robert Packer Hospital in Sayre, PA, at the age of 78. Pat was the daughter of the late Arthur and Mary Soleski Cobb. She was born in Elmira, NY, February 3rd, 1930. Her husbands, John J. Considine and Clarence (Pete) Lauper predeceased her. Family and friends are invited to gather at the Olthof Funeral Home, Inc., 1050 Pennsylvania Avenue, Elmira, NY 14904, Monday, May 19th, 2008, from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Funeral and committal services will be held at the conclusion of the calling hours at 7:00 p.m. The Reverend Richard Farrell will officiate. Interment will be at the convenience of the family in the Woodlawn National Cemetery, Elmira. Surviving Pat are her loving children: son, Ed (Roberta) Considine of Pine City; daughter, Mary (Henry) Swilley of TX; son, Joseph (Barbara) Considine of TX; stepdaughter, Bonnie Thorpe of NC; stepson, Jeff Lauper of Wellsburg, NY; ten beloved grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. Also surviving her are her sister, Maureen (Francis) Morris of Elmira; brothers, Richard Cobb of Horseheads, and Michael (Ardeth) Cobb of Elmira; along with several nieces and nephews that she was very proud of. Pat Lauper was best known for her unwavering loyalty to her community with her bright smile and very approachable attitude on life. Everyone seemed to become accustomed to Pat, always helping out wherever and whenever needed. Some of the organizations that she volunteered her time to were Pine City Military Family Service Club, Samaritan Center, Brand Park Beautification Committee, Red Hat Society, Meals on Wheels, Grottoettes, she was the Recording Secretary of the Pine City Volunteer Fire Department Auxiliary and Ashland Senior Citizen Center. In honor of Pat's volunteerism, she was awarded the Mildred Parfitt Award of which she was very proud. She was a longtime communicant of St. Mary's Church of the Southside. She graduated from the St. Joseph's School of Nursing and enjoyed a nursing career that spanned over 40 years in the Chemung County area. In lieu of flowers, the family requested memorial donations to the Pine City Military Family Service Club, c/o Gretchen Ham, 247 Kinner Hill Road, Pine City, NY 14871. This group sends various care packages to our military forces that are stationed overseas. A "Candle of Remembrance" may be left for her family in obituaries at www.olthof.com NOTICE: will meet at Olthof Funeral Home, Inc. on Monday, May 19, at 6:45 p.m. to pay our final respects to our departed St. Joseph Hospital Alumni Association member Patricia A. Lauper.

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Published by Star-Gazette from May 15 to May 17, 2008.

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Cynthia Blair

May 28, 2008

Ed, Joe & Mary,
Aunt Pat will be missed very much, She was such a great person did so much for the community and her family. God will look after her and she will be looking down on all of us.
Dave, Cindy, Josh &
Michelle

Marie Rodriguez

May 24, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Your mother touched so many lives--no one that met her was the same. Mary, thank you for letting me be a part of your mothers life. She was one in a million. A life well lived. What a treasure. God Bless

Patricia Wagnecz

May 20, 2008

Dear Ed and your family,

I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I will miss seeing you and your mother. This is a hard time for your family and I would like you to know that I will keep you in my prayers.

Sincerely,

your favorite reg person

Sid and Bev Shepherd

May 19, 2008

Went to school with your mom and kept in touch. She was such a giving and strong person.Kept in touch at Highschool Luncheons. Sid ran into your dad in Germany when he was going thru a hospital. Small world .You have been a wonderful support for Pat. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Sara Weaver

May 18, 2008

Jeff, Bonnie, Ed, Robbie, and Joe - We are so very sorry to hear of your loss.

Kathy Miner

May 18, 2008

Joe, Mary, Ed:
Aunt Pat was precious to me personally and to everyone that she came in contact with! She had a wonderful sense of humor and a joyously sunny personality. I loved her so much! I will treasure having seen her vibrant and well when I was home in 2002. May she rest well in the arms of our loving Lord and Savior. And may you all now dwell on the beautiful memories that you have of your loving Mom.
Your Cousin Kathy - Sumner WA

May 18, 2008

Pat was person who cared for many and will always be remembered by them.
From a St. Joe grad.

Gene & Sandy Steinhilper

May 18, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss.Our thought and prayers are with you. Now Pete & Pat, Bea & Carl are playing cards again.

Tom, Sue, Kyra, and Michael Morris

May 18, 2008

Ed, Joe, and Mary,
We will always remember Aunt Pat for her thoughtfulness of everyone.
We will always remember the wonderful times we spent with Aunt Pat. When she came to Germany, she fit a year's worth of traveling into 30 days. She was always full of energy and looking forward to the next adventure.
She never forgot our birthdays or our anniversary. In a letter she sent after our son Michael was born she warned us that we were looking for trouble when we named him Michael. She was so right.
She will be missed. Our prayers are with her and each of you.

Betty Mosher

May 17, 2008

Pat's high school classmates, SHS47, send our thoughts and prayers to the family.

Sue Cook

May 17, 2008

Ed, Mary, and Joe:

Your Mom/Our Aunt Pat was a very special person to us. We loved her dearly. She always had a smile on her face and such kindness in her heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. We will always keep her in our hearts and memories.

Kevin, Sue, Keenan and Colin

Ann and Nate

Prudence Atkins Tinberg

May 17, 2008

Joe, Mary & Ed,
Your mom was the BEST! What a warm and caring individual....with wit, humor and a personality unmatched! I don't think my Dad's practice would have ever been complete without her. What a team they made! I have always had the highest regard for Pat and she never failed to put a smile on my face. I'm sure you are very proud of her and the example she set for you. The Atkins family will always treasure her and the memories we have of Nurse Pat. Without question, a legend in her time. My love to you all....

Office co-workers

May 16, 2008

Ed and family,
The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. May your great memories bring you comfort.

Lester and Mary Copp

May 16, 2008

Joe, Ed, Mary and Families. So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you at this time even though we cannot be there in person. We are so glad we got to share an enjoyable lunch with Pat last summer.

Jeff Cobb

May 15, 2008

Ed,Mary,AND JOE,
Your Mother/AUNT Pat was an Outstanding lady.My family is sorry for your loss and know that the good lord will take of her.Our prays our with you guy's and your families.GOD BLESS,Jeff,Cindy,Greg and Lauren Cobb

May 15, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss

LouAnn and Bill Howe

May 15, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. It was such a great pleasure knowing Pat and remembering the fun we had at the Firehouse, bowling trips and all the other times. She was just so much fun and such a fine lady ! We sure will miss her.

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