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STEPHEN CUSTER Obituary
Stephen graduated from Applachian State University and was employed as a director for Direct Buy in Florida.
Stephen is survived by his wife, Amber Lambeth; two little girls, Mackenzie Anne, 5, and Abigail Katherine, 6 months; also surviving are his older brother, Raymund Custer and wife Lauren; his niece, Carmen; and nephew, Dalton; and a younger brother, Damien Custer.
His outgoing personality, culinary skills and love of life will be truly missed by all whose lives he touched.
A Requiem Mass will be held at a later date to celebrate his life at St Marks Catholic Church.
He had joy - he had fun - he had seasons in the sun ....
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Memories and Condolences
for STEPHEN CUSTER
Robert S. (Bobby) George
September 8, 2008
Dear Custer Family,
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you for the loss of Steve-I am so shocked and saddened by this news. I remember so many late nights all of us Lansdowne kids had hanging out with Ray at the Custer house. Steve was never the younger kid tagging along behind us-he was so independent and had such a laid back demeanor with that distinctive laugh of his. I did not know him as an adult but it seems he was a real success from what I have read. I hope some happy memories of him will ease your pain and loss.
Corey SMITH
August 12, 2008
I will never be the same without my best friend to talk to. Every day that goes by with out him I realize how much of an influence
Steve was to me in so many ways.
The music I listen to, my likes, my dislikes.
Even the words that come out of my mouth. I think of him every day.
My deepest sympathy goes out to all the Custer family. You know he was like a brother to me.
Ingrid Corbi
March 22, 2008
It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I offer my condolences to Stephen's family and closest friends.
He will always have a special place in our hearts and be remembered forever with a smile.
With sincere sympathy,
Ingrid Corbi
Karen Sulkowski Kuhar
March 16, 2008
My recollections of Stephen are just as vivid and joyful as all who knew him. My lose is that they are all over 35 years old. My sorrow is in the loss of Stephen to his family but also the loss to those of us us who did not have or take the opportunity to know him as the man he was. My prayers are with Amber and the girls.
jay wolfe
March 7, 2008
i'm happy to say that i knew steve, and enjoyed having him on my planet. it would've certainly been a lesser place without him. he had depth not normally witnessed.
i do not recall anyone with a bad word to say about him. how many of us can have that said about ourselves?
Alberto & Mariella Dada
March 3, 2008
Mr & Ms Custer, Ray, Lauren, Damian, and the rest of the family:
We are very sorry for this loss, may the Lord give you fortitude to overcome this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Alex Mercer
March 3, 2008
To the Custer family,
Stephen was so great of a friend during high school and I'm shocked by his passing. I can't imagine the pain you must be enduring. My heart goes out to all of you during your time of need. May God hold you and keep you during this time.
Alex Mercer
Fred Clements
March 3, 2008
Dear Ray and Irene:
Alice and myself offer our sincerest
sympathy to you and your family at this heart wrenching time. We were devastated to hear of Stephens passing and want you to know that you are in our prayers and daily thoughts. We held Stephen in very high regard and would have been proud to have called him our own son, we will miss him dearly. May The Lord lighten your burden of grief.
Fred and Alice Clements
Mauricio A. Dada, sdb
March 1, 2008
Dear friends, Mr. Custer, Mrs. Custer, Ray, Lauren, Damian,
You are in my thoughts and prayers since I recived Ray´s message. I keep you all in my heart, and promess to remember Stephen and you all in Mass, May our Lord Jesus Christ comfort you.
Yours truly
Catherine (Bullard) Mull
March 1, 2008
Stephen's wife and family
Stephen and I went to junior and high school together what seems like forever ago but also like yesterday. What I will remember most about Stephen was his laugh-it was infectious. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Christian T. & Nichole Clements
February 29, 2008
Stephen,
As I look through the window of my life there are few memories or thoughts within my mind where you, my very dearest friend Stephen are not by my side with your warming smiles, timeless jokes, and echoing laughter. I had always hoped that our future would hold many more of these times. I deeply Love You Stephen and will forever miss you. Your greatest fan....Christian
To the Custer family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you always and forever.
Janette Mills
February 29, 2008
Ray and Irene: As neighbors, we always admired your boys. They were all so handsome. We will remember all your family in this difficult time with our prayers.
Tony & Janette Mills
Greenville, NC
Mike Conahan
February 28, 2008
Custer family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You all have been in my thoughts and prayers.
Deana and Keith Fishman
February 28, 2008
Steve was a dear friend to me and a best friend to Keith. We have so,so,so many great memories of our time spent together. I had the pleasure of knowing Steve since sixth grade. Keith and Steve were like brothers from the start. Regardless of how you knew him, everyone would agree that he was a stand up guy.
Our heart goes out to his family. We miss him so much. He will never be forgotten.
Sincerely,
Deana and Keith Fishman
John Newton
February 27, 2008
Very sorry to hear of your loss. I grew up down the street from Stephen and have very fond memories of him. I was just looking at pictures I have of him and some other friends when we were young. Take care.
Ellen (Downey) Yach
February 27, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
sophia saffo brewer
February 27, 2008
Stephen was a great guy- so full of life. He will truly be missed by all. May God rest his soul.
Susie Murphy
February 27, 2008
Dear Custer Family,
I knew Stephen in high school and through college. I have fond memories of him, our fun times together with friends and his amazing sense of humor. He will surely be missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Susie Murphy
Hoggard Class of 1987
Megan Shellito-Porter
February 27, 2008
Aunt Irene, Uncle Ray, and the rest of the family, I was shocked and extremely sad to hear the passing of Stephen. Sometimes, even today, when I think about him I find laughter, I see him smile and I also find myself in tears. My childhood memories will live forever. And never will I forget him. He will be missed greatly! I am deeply sorry for your loss and may you find strength and comfort in God in this time of need.
Stephen Dean
February 26, 2008
To the family and friends of Stephen Custer,
Stephen worked for me at Bennigan's in Wilmington in what seems like a lifetime ago. He had an unusual wit and intellect. He was dependable as an employee, and loyal to his friends. I have not seen Stephen since that time, but am happy, yet not surprised that his life was filled with fun and success. May you find peace through faith in this difficult time.
Stephen Dean
February 25, 2008
There are those individuals who possess a larger than life presence and you are one of those people.
Your absence cannot be changed but your presence will be with us each day, different attributes for each person who keeps you in their heart; wife, father, mother, brothers, daughters, niece, cousins, aunts, uncles and friends.
We will hold Mackenzie and Abigail close and watch your qualities grow within them.
Peace be with you Stephen.
Peace be with everyone who misses you so….
Bob Petrolino, Jr
February 25, 2008
Steve,
I am shocked. You were a wonderful friend, so full of life. I will never forget your kindness and patience as a trainer when we worked together at Corning. You have a wonderful family, and what a wonderful little girl Mackenzie is. You were always so optimistic, so fun, so bright and vibrant. I love you too Steve. I am crushed, and you and your family will forever be in my prayers. Your friend Bob Petrolino, Jr.
Donna Barnes
February 25, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Custer,
So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Donna Barnes
(Lynn Bullard Agency)
Stephen & MacKenzie - July 2004
February 24, 2008
Jimmy, Stephen, Neighnbor and Keith
February 24, 2008
Stephen Custer - July 2004
February 24, 2008
Raymund & Stephen Custer - July 2004
February 24, 2008
Jim King
February 24, 2008
So many thoughts and emotions go through my mind when I think of Steve Custer. I cannot think of one but hundreds. His fantastic family, Ray, Irene, Raymond, Damien and Amber. Memories from dinner, prior to Midnight Mass at the Custers with Ray ensuring everyone had a Pink Squirrel... After a long night at Bennigan's working with his brother Damien and cooking with Steve. He would always have the most creative ideas. The countless nights that ended with us on the roof of Bennigan's kicking back... enjoying the sunrise and discussing family, friends, life... His sense of humor. His trip out to see Jimmy Stewart in Las Vegas.. Celebrating his elegant cooking dinner parties with family and friends, when I was a room mate with he and Keith Fishman. Going downtown with he and Cory and closing down Crooks after he worked all night at Figure 8.... The stories I think of are endless like the memories he has left in my life and my heart. I love you Steve and will always think of you with a smile and warmth in my heart.
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