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Elizabeth Miesch
June 23, 2025
Dr. Mary Bach was my mentor. I am indebted to her, more than any other educator, for making the most significant impact on my teaching. With four simple words, she helped me to change lives: "How do you know?" After embracing this question, (that Mary said I must ask, every day, without fail), I was able to catapult my students to greater heights. No matter what responses my students gave, I continually asked that same question. Of course, if my students had not responded using complete sentences, I required them to repeat their responses in complete sentences. If my students added any additional information to their responses, I continued with Mary's question, "How do you know?"
Mary, who worked on her doctorate while she worked fulltime as a Curriculum Specialist, inspired me to further my education. I asked her to write a letter of recommendation for me, and I earned my Master of Education, specializing in Reading. Wanting to be just like her, I continued the grueling work of teaching fulltime while working on my doctoral courses at night. After I completed my dissertation, I hunted Mary down to give her a copy, and I made her read the dedication page because her name was on it.
On the day I took and passed my exam to become a certified academic language therapist, I saw Mary selling Tshirts for ALTA at a dyslexia conference. She only had one left, but she didn't want to sell it to me. She said it was too big. I told her that it was perfect, and I had to have it. It's still my favorite Tshirt.
The next time I saw Mary, it was at a dyslexia conference at the University of Texas at Austin. She was volunteering at the registration table. Of course she was volunteering! Mary was a servant leader.
The last time I saw Mary, of course, it was at another dyslexia conference, and she served as the organizer and master of ceremonies. The presenter was wonderful, but Mary was just as funny and charming as ever. She made dry cracks like the actor, Bob Newhart, and she kept the educators in a packed auditorium feeling at ease. It was a tense time because it was at the start of the pandemic. The conference almost didn't happen because everyone was concerned about getting sick.
Sometimes people come into our lives and they make an impact. Mary was that person for me. I always felt that she was an angel on Earth. Anyone who knew Mary probably felt that same way.
Even though teaching was a huge part of her life, she valued her family above all else. She talked about her husband, her children, and her grandchildren all the time. I don't ever remember a time when she didn't work her family into the conversation. I could see the love she felt for them in her eyes.
I was very lucky to have known Mary, and every single one of my former students were lucky that I knew Mary, and all of my current students, and future students are lucky that I knew Mary.
I feel certain that Mary is still doing good work, but this time, her position is as an angel specialist in Heaven.
Thank you, Dr. Mary Bach! Thank you for letting me hang out in your office, drowning you in my questions, providing me with your thoughts, insights, and expertise. Thank you for being who you were. I hope to continue your work here on planet Earth because reading is for everyone.
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