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Perry Estes Obituary

ESTES, Perry Perry Estes was born in Austin to Paula and Kevin Estes on November 22, 2000, and passed away Friday, November 8, 2019, just a few weeks shy of his 19th birthday. Perry is survived by his loving parents, his grandparents Sally and Tom, sister Camille and her husband Ira, brother Jesse, best friend and partner Skel, and a large extended family. His niece Annabeth was the apple of his eye. He also leaves behind his church family and many, many friends from all parts of his life. Perry attended The Living School, then attended the magnet program at Kealing Junior High. He graduated from the Language Arts and Sciences Academy last May, where he was active in theater, the Pride Alliance and loved math. He earned multiple scholarships to attend North Carolina State University, where he was planning to major in math and education. Perry was a shining light in this world. Curious and kind, with a scholar's mind and a quick wit, Perry an easy person to love. He was a natural leader, a stand-out in his local and regional church youth groups, helping plan conferences, going on mission trips, and always making an effort to include new or younger members. This past summer he worked at Breakthrough Central TX, where he taught math to middle school students aspiring to be the first in their families to attend college. He loved music, movies, books, travel, NYC, The Office, tacos, queso and speaking out for what is right. His huge heart was apparent to everyone who was lucky enough to know him. He had a quick laugh and an easy smile, but was also a fierce advocate for the marginalized, and was vocal in his support for children at the border, refugees, educational opportunities for all and LGBTQ rights. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, November 23, 2019 at 1 p.m. at Central Presbyterian Church, Austin, with a short reception following. In lieu of flowers, the Estes family requests that donations be made to: Breakthrough Central Texas, breakthroughctx.org -or- Central Mission at Central Presbyterian Church, 200 East 8th Street, Austin, TX 78701. cpcaustin.org

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Nov. 17, 2019.

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MEAGAN GEN BUTLER

October 27, 2021

Perry has been on my mind so much this month. I see Perry in the new groups of kids all the time. We have been speaking out for trans kids at the Texas lege and in schools. His impact continues in us. If you´re reading this, please know you are loved.

May 5, 2021

I'll see you again, man. In that far green country, under a swift sunrise.

Alyssa

November 27, 2019

I just found out about Perry's passing. My condolences to his family, and friends.

I met Perry during his hiring for Breakthrough. Perry, you were a joy and I could tell you would fully impact students and be impacted by them. When I spoke about you after the interview, you were a person that I could say nothing but amazing things for. Perry, you understood what change the world needed and wanted to be a part of that, seeing a young person so sure of himself is inspiring. Perry's impact will be something students remember for a lifetime.

Peace, love and light to the Estes family.

- Alyssa

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Scarlett McLeroy

November 20, 2019

May the Peace, that only our Triune GOD can provide, be with you all.

Brooks L

November 19, 2019

what a sad way to reconnect with a family that i honor. you are in my heart as i send you light, love,peace. namaste,brooksie

November 19, 2019

"No person dies until they are forgotten"

--this African Proverb is recorded by my favorite poet and artist Joan Walsh Anglund

Perry's impact on me will never allow me to forget. My memory will be of someone taken at a young age with so much love to share.

In this season of concerts, school plays, church services, and childlike excitementPerry is not forgotten.

Perry's compassion for those who experience any challenge is a lifetime impact on those who knew the compassion he shared for others. I was grateful to experience Perry's genuine smile and his caring spirit of giving. Perry will never be forgotten or die in the heart and soul of many who experienced his caring and love.

Jill R

November 18, 2019

My warmest condolences to Perry's family and loved ones. He will be deeply missed.

Michelle Brudahl

November 17, 2019

We read about the recent passing of Perry. I did not know him, but from what I have read in the newspaper, he left before fulfilling many of his dreams. So sorry for the loss of this bright young man.

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Laura Koenig

November 17, 2019

We were very blessed to know Perry and spend time with him on a theater trip to NYC. He was delightful, and a natural caretaker. Never wanting to be of any trouble, but also knowing what he wanted and needed. Your gentle spirit and kindness live on in the people whose lives you have touched. Your signature smile is our all-time family favorite for every picture. It brings me joy to see your smile here. The world is less bright without you.

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