Mary Cooper Obituary
Mary Jane (Bissell) Cooper
July 4, 1954 - July 3, 2011
SHERWOOD - Jane, as she insisted on being called, was born on July 4th, 1954 to Dean and Nellie Bissell in Mena, Arkansas. She was almost a native Oregonian, as the family moved to Molalla, Oregon two months before her first birthday. Her dad was a log truck driver and her mom a stay-at-home mom. Jane was the third of four siblings in a one income household so she was no stranger to hard work. She picked strawberries and beans in the summer to pay for school clothes and helped take care of Old Betsy the milk cow, a number of pigs, chickens and the large garden that provided the family's main source of food. An avid horsewoman, Jane was especially fond of her favorite quarter horse Bucky. Jane graduated from Molalla Union High School in 1972 where she served as Head Majorette on the MUHS award winning baton twirling team as a senior.
Jane enrolled in the Secretarial Science Program at Oregon State University in the fall of 1972 where she met Alan White Cooper. They were married on August 31, 1974. They then moved to California where Jane finished her undergraduate coursework and received her bachelors degree in Accounting from Cal State University, Long Beach. She accepted a job offer from TRW Corporation where she was quickly identified by management as a young employee to be fast-tracked into their management development program. Although she left TRW to a short time later, Jane had a long and distinguished career as a manager/executive in the corporate accounting world for a number of companies and reached her zenith as a Mfg Finance Controller
Jane was preceded in death by her father, Dean L. Bissell in 2002. She is survived by her husband Joel Tanaka, Sherwood; her mother Nellie Mae Bissell, Molalla; her two children Christopher (Sarah)Cooper and Tiffany Cooper both of San Diego, California; her brother Edward (Janette) Bissell, Salem; her sisters Peggy (Larry) Koppes, Vancouver, Washington; and Sherrie Goddard, Silverton.
Jane's qualities that so endeared her to us can best be described by the following eulogy written by her husband Joel Tanaka:
She was a loving and exceptional wife, mother and den-mother to an undeserving husband, two semi-deserving children and two undeserving dogs. During her working career she was a smart, caring manager who was devoted and concerned about her employees well before this became an empty clich?. Her employees loved and respected her and they looked to Jane for guidance and direction on both a career and personal level.
Jane was the ultimate mother and I think that because she lacked grandchildren she transferred this affection to her dogs. Despite my nagging she had a hard time disciplining her dogs but she took a great deal of satisfaction and comfort from her dogs. All her dogs sensed her innate love and concern and responded accordingly to her.
Jane loved and looked forward to the fall when all of her favorite holidays occurred. No matter how she felt or what her physical ailments were she made sure that the neighborhood kids had the best trick or treat destination and she always over-filled their candy bags. During the Thanksgiving and Christmas season Jane would adorn the house with every imaginable knick knack and adornment and would eagerly await the holidays. She did this with a refreshing and timeless enthusiasm that would affect even the most die-hard curmudgeon. Her holiday towels, placemats, plants and decorations would be placed in every imaginable location but she took such unbridled joy it was impossible to resist.
Jane was my friend, my lover and my confidante and her passing has created a void that I will never recover from. She was what kept me going and I wish that I was a fraction of the person that she was. Jane was my life.
A Celebration of Life for close friends and family will be held at Arrowhead Golf Course Farmstead Restaurant at noon on July 7 , 2011. Interment at Adams Cemetery in Molalla to follow.
Published by The Statesman Journal on Jul. 7, 2011.