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Ray Tomlin Obituary

James Ray Tomlin, 80, of Tomlin Mill Road, Statesville, went to celebrate Christmas in heaven on Monday, Dec. 20, 2010, at Iredell Memorial Hospital following a lengthy illness. He was born on March 15, 1930 in Iredell County and was the son of the late Hugh Ivey and Mary Elizabeth Summers Tomlin. He attended Iredell County Schools and served in the U.S. Air Force from 1948-1952. On June 26, 1953, he married Lois Hall Tomlin in S.C. Ray was a mechanic, a plumber and a carpenter – he could fix anything and enjoyed helping his friends and neighbors or anyone else that needed his help. He was co-owner of North Iredell Grocery for 28 years. He was a former deacon and lifelong member of Hebron Baptist Church. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by six brothers, Gilbert, Bill, Charlie, Harold, Roy; and an infant brother, Rex. Mr. Tomlin is survived by his wife of 57 years, Lois Tomlin of the home; one daughter, Cheri Tomlin Ellis and husband, Rick of Statesville; one grandson, who was the light of his life, Landon Ray Ellis. He is also survived by one sister, Earline Tomlin Church, of Danville, Va. Funeral services to celebrate Ray's life will be conducted at 2 p.m. Wednesday, Dec. 22, 2010 at Hebron Baptist Church with the Revs. Darren Johnson, Otis Johnson, Jr. and Joey Tomlin. Burial will follow in the church cemetery with full military rites. The family will receive friends from 6-8 p.m. today at Nicholson Funeral Home and at other times will assemble at the home. Active pallbearers will be Tommy Tomlin, Ronnie Tomlin, Sonny Tomlin, Rex Church, Mike Ellis and Johnny Sherrill. Memorials may be made to the Landon Ellis Diabetic Care Fund, c/o Tammy Boland, 1050 Tomlin Mill Road., Statesville, NC 28625. Online condolences may be made at www.nicholsonfunerals.com Nicholson Funeral Home is serving the family of Mr. James Ray Tomlin.
Published by Statesville Record & Landmark on Dec. 21, 2010.

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Nancy Allison

December 27, 2010

Lois,Cheri & Family: I was sorry to hear about Ray.We were in Georgia at the time.He was one of the kindness men That I have ever known. My heart goes out to you, you will be in our thoughts and prayers during your time of grief.

Melissa Carlton-Holmes

December 22, 2010

Dear Lois, Cheri and Family:
We are so sorry to hear about Ray. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God hold you in His hand and comfort you now and in the days to come.

December 22, 2010

cheri and lois our whole family extends our sympathies to you and all your families. we have all been sick and just found out about Rays passing
Love tim and ginger hall anf kids

Tandra Wilkinson

December 21, 2010

Cheri and Lois,
I wanted you to know that your family are in my thoughts and prayers now and in the days to come. Just know that your Dad is having a wonderful Christmas in Heaven with all the other angels. Praying for you,

April Miller

December 21, 2010

Landon and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family. Mrs. April Miller

Rayford Brotherton

December 21, 2010

Dear Lois and Earlene: I am so sorry to hear that Ray has passed away. We can take comfort in the knowledge that he is in the loving care of our Lord. My most sincere condolences to all the family.

Angel Patterson

December 21, 2010

Lois, I am sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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