Retired Sheriff of St. Johns County and St. Augustine native, Neil Joseph Perry, 67, passed away peacefully Wednesday afternoon at his home surrounded by his family.
His strength and character were evident during his long and courageous battle with cancer. He will long be remembered as a compassionate and loving husband, father, grandfather and valued friend. Having dedicated his life to improving his community and his country for over 40 years, his patriotism was always evident, and lead to his role as a trusted civic leader.
Neil"s love of the outdoors, Florida"s resources, and Florida history, are gifts he shared with his children and grandchildren. Memories of Neil turkey hunting or sitting near a roaring fire enjoying the wonders of the outdoors are part of the heritage he leaves his family.
A multi-faceted man, he shared his many gifts with all who needed him. He leaves a legacy of loyalty, integrity, dedication and honor. He will be dearly missed.
He attended St. Augustine High School, was a graduate of St. Johns River Community College, and went on to earn a B.S. degree from Nova University.Ê He was a graduate of the FBI National Academy, the FBI Criminal Justice Executive Institute"s Chief Executive Course, and the U.S. Army Command and General Staff College.
Perry was elected to the office of Sheriff of St John"s County in 1984 and served until 2004, being re-elected 4 times.Ê Sheriff Perry understood the value of education and professionalism within the law enforcement community.
After his retirement, the St. Johns County Sheriff"s Office established the Neil J. Perry Leadership Award which recognizes a supervisor who exemplifies Perry"s leadership philosophy.
It was his vision that led to the establishment of the Commission for Florida Law Enforcement Accreditation and the Florida Criminal Justice Executive Institute.Ê The Commission for Florida Law Enforcement Accreditation is now a statewide association with the goal of ensuring consistencies in practice and policy for all Florida law enforcement agencies.Ê Each year the Commission presents the Neil J. Perry Service Award honoring individuals and work units/teams for outstanding achievement.
Sheriff Perry also co-founded and served as chairman of the Florida Criminal Justice Executive Institute (FCJEI) which serves law enforcement executives throughout the state in furthering their professional development.Ê Prior to the founding of this Institute, there were limited sources for ensuring that the leaders of our state"s law enforcement agencies received the latest methods and training necessary for operation of their respective agencies.
ÊDuring his tenure as sheriff, Sheriff Perry served the county and state with distinction as chairman and past president of the Florida Sheriffs Association, chairman of the Florida Sheriffs Youth Ranches, chairman of the Northeast Florida Investigative Support Center, president of the Law Enforcement Private Security Council, and co-chair of the Northeast Florida Regional Domestic Security Task Force.Ê
His service was not limited to the law enforcement profession. He was also committed to serving his community through civic involvement.Ê He was a past president of Kiwanis Club, member of the Ashlar Masonic Lodge #98, a recipient of the Outstanding Young Law Enforcement Officer award given by the St. Augustine Jaycees, a recipient of the Lifetime Public Service Award given by the Democratic Woman"s Club, Chairman of the Friends Of Scouting District Dinner, and a recipient of the prestigious Guardian De La Puerta Award given by the City of St. Augustine. He was an active member of the board of directors of the Florida Youth Challenge Academy at Camp Blanding.
Along with serving his community, Perry also served his state and country for 39-years as a member of the Florida Army National Guard. Throughout his military career he received numerous awards including, but not limited to the Legion of Merit, Florida Cross, Army Commendation Medal, the Army Achievement Medal, the Meritorious Service Medal, the Florida Distinguished Medal and the Florida Commendation Medal. Perry retired in 2001 at the rank of colonel.
In the last full day of his life, Neil was honored by the actions of the citizens and county government of St. Johns County, by memorializing his service in the re-naming of the Criminal Justice Complex in his honor. The family is deeply appreciative of that action and wishes also to thank the many friends and citizens for their gestures and kind words. The family is also thankful for the wisdom, compassion and caring of Dr. Keith Justice and Dr. Jean Harris.
He was pre-deceased by his parents, Paul G. and Ione Masters Perry, and brother Paul G. Perry Jr.Ê He is survived by his wife, Sydney Brown Perry; son, Keith Perry (Tammy) and their children Missy and Zachary; daughters, Michele Perry (Doug Brace) and their son, Justin, Missy Perry May (Art) and their daughters Tiffany, Taylor and TayMay, and BJ Hardy; two great grandchildren; brother, Noel Perry (Cindy); sister, Dr. Ione Perry; sister-in-law, Mary Perry; and many beloved nieces and nephews, as well as daughter Angela Perry.
ÊThe family will receive visitors Wednesday, June 27 from 3 to 8 p.m., at Craig Funeral Home, St Augustine. Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m., Thursday, June 28 at Flagler Memorial Presbyterian Church, 36 Sevilla St., Rev. Dr. Dudley Weaver, pastor, officiating. Graveside services, with full military and law enforcement honors and Masonic Rites, will follow at Craig Memorial Park, Old Moultrie Road. A reception will follow graveside services at the Riverview Club, 790 Cristina Drive, St. Augustine Shores.
Flowers will be accepted, or a memorial contribution may be made to the Florida Sheriff"s Youth Ranches, P.O. Box 2000, Boys Ranch, FL 32064, or the Florida Youth Challenge Academy, 5629 State Road 16 West, Building 3800, Starke, FL 32091.
Craig Funeral Home Crematory Memorial Park (www.craigfuneralhome.com) is in charge of the arrangements
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May 17, 2013
S and family. Moved back to the oldest city a few months ago. Was not aware of Neils passing. When I think of law enforcement..I think of Neil. He was everything an officer should be.Shirley Jordan
Philip McRae
May 15, 2013
Sorry to learn of Neal's passing. Was a classmate of his at St. Aug. HS. He was one of seven from our class who served in law enforcement. God Rest His Soul.
Kacy Kemerer
July 4, 2012
Aunt Sydney and family,
We pray for your healing, with the passage of time. We send understanding and consolation.
May your pleasant memories sustain and comfort you through this time of greif. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Griffih
July 3, 2012
I just learn abt is passing from my cousin Ray Johnson Want to say thank him for his wonderful service He had done for his St.Johns county
RIP Neil we will see u again when our time comes
Judy Burnett Albright
June 28, 2012
When I think of Neil, I think of the Parable of the Faithful Servant: Matthew 25:23, "Well done, good and faithful servant!" I have so many stories from the 80s that I would love to share with Syd that have created memories both for me but also for my children. The community has lost a dear man and faithful servant. I sent my prayers and sympathy to Syd and all the Perry family.
Sylvia Mickler-Stone
June 28, 2012
Neil will be remembered always as an outstanding professional who loved his community and respected his staff and employees at all times! He was a very special friend of my familiy and was highly regarded by my late Father, Kenneth Baily Sr...Judge & Town Manager for more than 25yrs in St.Johns County.. They will be shaking hands with Smiles of Past Memories.
May God Bless You, His Family, and give you Peace of Heart!
Respectfully, Sylvia Bailey-Mickler
Peaches & Jeanette Lawson
June 28, 2012
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Shirley Jordan
June 28, 2012
Neil was to be greatly admired. Having lost my own husband three years ago, my heart goes out to Sid..
Shirley Jordan
Phillip and Tammi Milliken
June 28, 2012
We send our love,respect and deepest sympathy to Neil's entire family. His loss has left a deep hole in our hearts and a true loss to all who knew him. May the Lord bring you all peace and comfort. With love and frienship.
June 27, 2012
I am sorry to hear about your loss. During this time of great sadness, I hope that the family find comfort from James 4:8. It says, "Draw close to God, and he will draw close to you." Along with family and friends, may you'll also look to God for comfort.
Tom Simpson
June 27, 2012
Neil Perry,a good man, good law enforcement officer, and a darn good friend. Syd, I know you have a heavy heart but remember, when you want to see him all you have to do is but close your eyes. Charlene and my prayers for peace and comfort go out to you and your family.
Jared and Priscilla Hull
June 27, 2012
To the Perry Family,
Our deepest sympathy thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Buddy&Cheryl Wilford
June 27, 2012
Syd and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Neil was a great man and we will miss him dearly. Love to you all. We are praying for you.
Linda Pellini
June 27, 2012
I was very saddened to hear of Sheriff Perry's passing. my sympathy to the Perry family and the entire SJSO to which I was sworn by Sheriff Perry years ago.Rest In Peace
June 27, 2012
Sidney, I am so sorry to hear of Neil's passing. Rest in the Savior's arms and know that Neil is at peace with his Heavenly Father. God Bless you!
Pauline Yeomans
Brigitte L Bostic
June 27, 2012
Neil Perry was one of the finest men that I have Ever known!. He was a man of Honesty,Integrity, and Justice. My deepest sympathy to his Family,and to The Law Enforcement community.
Carhy Windham
June 27, 2012
Mr Perry you were a respected
law enforcement officer. Your service to St John's County was appreciated.
To my friend , Noel Perry, I'm
so sad to know you are hurting. God bless you!
Cathy Windham
(Memirial Hospital)
Lydia Marr
June 27, 2012
May the Lord God, Jesus, and the Holy spirit be your comforter in this time of sorrow.
In deepest sympathy,
Lydia and Steven Marr (Harvard Road)
June 26, 2012
I am sorry to hear about your loss. During this time of great sadness, I hope that the family find comfort from James 4:8. It says, "Draw close to God, and he will draw close to you." Along with family and friends, may you'll also look to God for comfort.
Bruce and Janet Taylor
June 26, 2012
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. We always thought alot of Neil. He was always there for us. He never missed saying hello and how are the boys and hows the family.
We will miss him dearly. May God bless and keep you all safe and close.
With all our love Bruce and Janet Taylor
Ron and Nancy Carman
June 26, 2012
Rest in peace dear friend, you will never be forgotten.
Marilynn & Roy Battell
June 26, 2012
Warm Summer Sun
Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.
By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation
Charles &Evelyn Fulkerson
June 26, 2012
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Albert Owen
June 26, 2012
Saddened today to hear the passing of Sheriff Perry. I respected him immensely, even after I moved from the area in 2007. I will certainly miss him and his kind words he always said to me whenever I spoke to him.
Richard Bowers
June 26, 2012
Sheriff Perry was a fine man and an outstanding public servant. He was always accessible and always responsive.He ran an enlightened and outstanding Sheriff's Office. He enjoyed a much to short retirement, that he certainly had earned by his outstanding work. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. We never really lose the ones we love, they are always with us and in our hearts.
Bob Linde
June 26, 2012
Thank You for your Above, and beyond service, and most of all just thanks for being a friend in need, and deed.
Bob
Doris anderson
June 26, 2012
God bless the Perry family
Terry Pittman
June 26, 2012
We are saddened by the death of Sheriff Perry, my brother served under him with the St. Johns County Sheriff Office until his sudden death. Your family are in our prayers.
Jackie Allen
June 25, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Perry family.
Wendy Bowden-Wendler
June 25, 2012
Neil, a man among men, you were one of my father's closest friends, he loved you so much! Thank you for always looking out for our family. You once called my mom the Mayor of Northwest St. Johns County; she truly was when she worked for you during her tenure at the Sheriff's office. Thank you for giving me my first real job and making it an opportunity that few have the chance to experience. To this day, I still cherish all I learned as a deputy for SJSO. It truly was a family affair. We had an excellent leader! You will be truly missed not only by your family & friends but buy your county & state! Syd, Keith, Michele, Missy & family our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We love you and if you need anything you only need ask.
LARRY WRIGHT
June 25, 2012
I NEVER KNEW NEIL PERRY , THAT IS TO SAY I NEVER MET HIM FACE TO FACE,. I DIDN'T HAVE TO! HIS WORK HAS TOUCHED EVERYONE IN SOME WAY. EVAN THOUGH I AM JUST S SECURITY OFFICER NOW, AND AN EX MILITARY POLICE % INSTRUCTOR, ANY ONE WHO EVER WORE A BADGE WOULD HAVE BEEN PROUD TO HAVE SEEN MR. PERRYS WORK AND THE THE WAY HE MADE THINGS MATTER. BLESSING AND CONDOLANCES TO HIS FAMILY. TAKE PRIDE IN WHAT NEIL ACHIEVED AND KNOW HE IS STILL WORKING, JUST FROM ABOVE AND THROUGH THOSE HE LEFT BEHINDE.
Jim Neuenfeldt
June 25, 2012
Neil, It is like losing a member of my own family. You were a man who displayed ethical values and honesty no matter the situation. You were a leader because you genuinely lived as one everyday and in all thing you did.
I'm sure there is a special place awaiting you.
Earl& Marie White(Gurley)
June 25, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with Syd and family at this time.
Pearl Tipton
June 24, 2012
My deepest sympathies to you and your family, Noel. May peace be with you.
Linda Davis
June 24, 2012
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with Neil's family at this sad time.
From a member of the Class of 1967 SAHS
Tom & Krystal Murphy
June 24, 2012
What a gift it was to know Neil. We will remember him fondly. Our prayers and heartfelt sorrow goes out to Syd and family. May the love of our Lord comfort you especially at this time and always.
Connie & Ronnie McDaniel
June 24, 2012
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Michael Stover
June 24, 2012
God speed Neil. Just saw you a few Wednesdays ago at the club. I had no idea all you said was "it's a long story". Talk about True Grit. You will be missed my friend. My Condolences to the family. Mike
Gary Hoog
June 24, 2012
I will remember the friendship, mentorship he always offered, his love of our community, he will be missed but memories we will always have.
Syd and the entire Perry family, you're always in my thoughts and prayers.
Christina Williams
June 24, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Pat Hunt
June 24, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Cheryl O'Connell - Butler
June 24, 2012
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
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