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Kari Mueller Obituary
Kari Lyn Mueller, nee Wojtalewicz formerly Schilling, age 48 of West Bend passed away peacefully with her family by her side on Tuesday, December 15, 2020 at Ascension Elmbrook Hospital in Brookfield after a lengthy battle with cancer. She was born February 8, 1972 in Stevens Point to Richard and Jonelle Wojtalewicz.
On February 24, 2020 she was united in marriage to Patrick W. Mueller in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico.
Kari was a very giving and helpful person which naturally led to her career as a nurse. She worked hard to become an LPN then pursued a bachelor's degree in Health Care Administration which led to her career as an IT Director for Froedtert Health for many years before working for Ascension. Kari was an overachiever, always working her absolute hardest, going the extra mile, to make sure the people around her were happy and comfortable.
Kari loved life. She enjoyed spending time with family and friends whether it was going to concerts or sitting around a fire. She was an avid Packer fan and enjoyed collecting Packer memorabilia. She was happy when she could go camping or spend some time at her summer home near the Dells. Kari also loved to travel especially if it was to warmer weather and could spend time on sandy beaches. She embraced spending time with friends and family, and lived to please others. She loved hosting, always living her life as if she was in a tropical paradise.
Kari was dearly loved by all her family, countless friends and her coworkers.
Kari is survived by her husband Pat, 3 children: Pearse (dear friend Taylor) Schilling, Olivia Schilling and Grace Schilling, and 2 step-children Hailey Mueller and Jordan Mueller. She is further survived by her father Richard Wojtalewicz of Hazelhurst, her twin brother Cory (Jenny) Wojtalewicz of Stevens Point and their 2 children Colton and Parker and her brother Brock Wojtalewicz of West Bend and his 4 children Clayton, Wylder, Cruz and Sachi. She is also survived by Pat's parents: Nate and Cindy Elsner of Lowell, WI, her brother-in-law Chris Mueller of Lowell, WI and countless very dear and close friends.
She is preceded in death by her mother Jonelle DeKay and her grandparents.
A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held Tuesday, December 22, 2020 at 3:30 p.m. at St. Frances Cabrini Catholic Church with Rev. Nathan Reesman presiding. The family will greet relatives and friends on Tuesday, at the church only from 1:00 p.m. until 3:15 p.m. Because of Kari's great love of nursing and the care she received she wanted to help future nurses from a Christian university fulfill their dreams. In lieu of flowers memorial gifts in honor of Kari can be sent to: Concordia University Foundation, 12800 N. Lakeshore Drive., Mequon, WI 53097. Please write Nursing Scholarship for Kari Mueller on the memo line.
The Schmidt Funeral Home in West Bend is serving the family. Please visit www.schmidtfuneralhome.com to sign the online guestbook and leave condolences.
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Belinda Goebel
December 21, 2020
My deepest sympathy for your family's loss. I had the privilege of working with Kari during her time with Ascension. Her positive, fighting spirit is a gift she shared with all of us and I will be forever grateful for my time with her.
Shelly Misener (Lukowicz)
December 21, 2020
I had the privilege to work with Kari in Stevens Point, WI. a few years back at the Stevens Point Country Club. I enjoyed her smiley face, laughter, sense of humor, kindness...and yes hard working ethic, as a co-worker. No doubt God will put her to work doing more good things. My sympathy to her families . Sincerely, Shelly Misener
Kathy Garman
December 21, 2020
My deepest condolences for your loss. I enjoyed working with Kari; she was always such a straightforward, positive, can-do person and a motivation for others. I will be lifting you up in prayer.
Don & Kathy Wisinski
December 19, 2020
To the Family of Kari we are so sorry for your loss .
Karen DeMint
December 18, 2020
My deepest and heartfelt condolences go out to Kari's husband, kids and family during this very difficult time. Kari was a wonderful person and she will be deeply missed.
Sarah Swift
December 18, 2020
Kari left such a beautiful presence to every visit we had. She had such a big heart & passion for helping others. I feel blessed to have known her & have her in my life! My condolences to her family. May she rest in peace with God.
Paula Wise
December 18, 2020
So sad to hear of her passing, we had so many fun childhood memories together while they visited their grandparents may you rest in peace.
Jared Nagel
December 17, 2020
My sincere condolences to Kari family and friends. Kari was always fun to work with at the Stevens Point Country Club and later in life at Packer Games pre/post games. You will be missed!
Lisa Mansavage
December 17, 2020
So many memories that will forever bring peace to my heart, knowing what love and light you brought to so many of us who were blessed by your friendship. To Kari’s family, I am so sorry—sending prayers and love to you all.
John, Sherry & Grace Peters
December 17, 2020
Our condolences Grace. Kari's family is in our prayers during this time.
Kathy and Steve Koteski
December 17, 2020
She fought so hard to overcome the cancer. Wishing comfort for the family. Love you and will miss Kari. She was a kind, caring woman and a friend to many. There is an angel in heaven for all who knew her. ❤❤
Megan Feick
December 17, 2020
Grief can be so hard, but special memories help us cope. Sending so much love and hugs. Here for you always.
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