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Andrew Baldassare Obituary

Baldassare, Dr. Andrew entered into rest surrounded by loved ones on Fri., Oct. 15, 2010. Loving husband of 16 years to Sharon Baldassare (nee Grizzell); loving and supportive father to MaryAnn, Joe (Joy) and Marcus; caring stepfather to Kelley (Ryan) Wampler and Robyn (Andy) Hayes; dear son to Mary Baldassare and the late Andrew Baldassare of Boston, MA; adored Grandy to Ethan, Ella, Drew, Hudson, Molly and three grandbabies on the way; dear brother to Joe (Judy) Baldassare; and true friend to many. Dr. B was a Rheumatologist for 35 years. He lovingly cared for thousands of arthritis patients and spent much of his time conducting research to improve the quality of life for so many people. He was an active member of Salem in Ladue United Methodist Church, snow skier, fisherman and sports fan. He will be deeply missed. Services: Visitation Mon., Oct. 18, 2010 from 4-8 p.m. at KUTIS AFFTON Chapel, 10151 Gravois. Then taken to Salem in Ladue United Methodist Church, 1200 S. Lindbergh Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63131 Tues., Oct. 19, 2010, for visitation from 1 p.m. until funeral service at 1:30 p.m. Interment private. Memorial donations may be made to Crohn's & Colitis Foundation or American Parkin son's Disease Association appreciated.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Oct. 16, 2010.

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B. Bradford

December 31, 2010

Dr. Baldassare is a wonderful light that will never go out. The kind of love that he had for family, patients and people in general remains, even when the physical body is no longer here. After several months trying to get a correct diagnosis to a medical condition that I have, God sent me to Dr. B. who found what noone else could see, Erythema Nodosim. He took a terrified patient and kept me calm and treated me like I was his own. He truly saved my life as this is a very rare condition. He was brilliant! Sharon and family, I thank you for sharing him and I will keep you in my prayers as God comforts your heart. My husband and I held hands with Dr. B. and prayed with him when I saw him a week before he retired. We both loved Dr. B. very much.

Andrea Bauman

November 7, 2010

Dr.B was the BEST Dr. ever! he saved my life in 99!;)) He always had my back he took me and my family under his wing like he did with others im sure b/c thats the kind of person he was...he was real he lived it and breathed it! i know he is getting rewards;) i gave this soccer pic to him a few yrs ago showing him i WAS "normal" back in the day and gifted as well!;) The next appointment i had he showed me my picture framed and displayed in his office.I felt like one of his kids!;) Doc B. ill see u on the other side someday and we will play soccer together i love you!(hugs) Rest in peace my friend. Andrea M. Bauman

Helen Flatau

November 5, 2010

Please accept our sincere sympathy for your loss. Not only was Dr. B caring and kind, but he made two difficult diagnoses for my family in just a few years, meaning we began serious medications instead of stumbling through the unknown diagnoses bin. His medical perspicacity was only matched by his joy and true love for his patients. That can only reflect the joy and love he had for his family.
He surely rests in Jesus' bosom, awaiting you while he has so many friends there. God bless your time of loss.

November 4, 2010

Dale was a patient of Dr. B for a number of years. He was compassionate and skilled in his craft. We trusted and respected him. Our sympathy to his family who are experiencing a difficult time. Rita and Dale Cannon, Poplar Bluff MO

Brenda Ferber

October 28, 2010

My Mother and I was a patient of Dr. B's for quite a while. We were very disappointed when he retired but understood. He was the best. His mannerisms were very soothing. Dr. B really cared for his patients. We will miss him dearly. Our deepest Sympathy to the Baldassare Family.

Mary

October 24, 2010

I am very sadden to hear of the passing of Doctor B as we called him. I worked for him for 10 years. I left St. Louis 19 years ago, but remember what a wonderful boss and person he was.

Sandy Cunningham

October 24, 2010

My Sympathy To The Baldassare Family. I just learned today of Andy's Passing. I knew Andy When He Was In Medical School. I Dated A Friend Of His And Andy And I Became Best Buddies. I Lost Contact Over The Years, Only Seeing Or Talking To Him On Infrequent Visits To St. Louis. We Would Laugh And Talk About Old Times And How Much We Loved Each Other. I Love You Still. I Will Never Forget that Smile And Those Twinkling Eyes. Goodbye My Friend.

October 22, 2010

He was my dr. for over 31 years. He was also a friend of my brothers Dr. Victor and Dr. Henry Clever Jr. My daughter taught Mark in 3rd grade. He was such a great help to me over the years. They don' make them like him anymore. I last saw him May 17 and wished him well. Gone too soon. Condolences to his family. Ceal Parchomski

Phyllis Sitz

October 21, 2010

I was a patient of Dr. Baldassare for 14 years. He was just the best of the best. I knew he really cared how & what I was going through because of his great compassion for his patients. Dr. B brought me threw some very dark years physically, and always did what it took even if it was going the extra mile. I will miss him forever. My prayers and sympathy go to you and your family at this time.

October 19, 2010

Joe and Joy,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jan Fitzgerald

Tammy Delaney

October 19, 2010

I met Dr. B about 25 years ago because my 4 year old daughter developed JRA and was in horrible pain and lost her ability to walk. We were blessed to have him come into our lives because in time he got Stephanie to walk again and live her life as normal as one could with a disease so damaging and painful. As I looked back in time I could see he was her Angel sent to us. He was sweet and very funny. He even gave us his white cat when he needed to find her a home. We truly loved him. I am sorry that we all lost him here on earth, but we will see him again in Heaven one day. Rest in Peace Dr. B. You will be missed by many. I love you......Tammy Delaney

Sandra Pretto

October 18, 2010

I have been at Arthritis Consultants for 27years, will miss him saying hello to me when I have my appt. I am so sorry for your loss, and our loss for a great Dr. Good bye Dr. B, see you on the other side....Sandra Pretto (Columbia, IL)

Cheryl Doellefeld Barth

October 18, 2010

Dear Sharon and family,
I am so sorry to learn of Andy's passing. One bright thought is that I know that you and Andy had a very fun, happy marriage and both of you enriched each other's lives immensely. I'm so glad you had the time together be it ever too short. My love and prayers go to you and all your family during this sad time.

Love,

Cheryl Doellefeld Barth

Marilyn Willerton

October 18, 2010

Dr B diagnosed my RA over 25 years ago. I was a young nurse working at St Joseph's in St Charles. I am still doing well today thanks to his knowledgable and aggressive treatment. But equally important were his kindness and compassion as a physician. He was the most warm and caring doctor I've known. I was happy for him when he retired, but sad that he had such a short time to enjoy it. My prayers and sympathies are with your entire family.

Sandy Richey

October 18, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathy. Dr. B was my rheumatologist for fifteen years. He was not only a great doctor, but a tremendous advocate who fought the insurance company for the medication I needed to stave off the effects of reheumatoid arthritis. His frank, informative, but gentle care encourage me to live my life to the fullest. He encouraged me to pursue my passion of riding my motorcycle and would ask me to bring in pictures of my yearly cross country trips; he did this even though his time was crowded with patients.
I had been encouraging him to retire for two years because of his obviously increasing frailness, so he could enjoy more time with his family and his fishing, but his dedication to medicine kept postponing his retirement. My last appointment with him this summer was two days before he retired and although I knew I would miss him terribly, I was so happy to see he was finally going to take time for himself and his family. He was one in a million and will be sorely missed by all. I hope you and all the members of his family will take solace in knowing how many he has helped and how much he was loved by all who knew him. Thank you for sharing him with us.

Don S

October 18, 2010

Joe,
You are not forgotten at the altar of the Lord. Many still care.

Kathy Eschenbrenner

October 18, 2010

Dear Baldassare Family, With a heavy heart, I extend my deepest sympathies to you. I had the honor of being Dr.B's patient for 33 years. I had great respect and admiration for him.
Dr. B will be sadly missed. He was my Dr., confidant and friend.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Kathy Eschenbrenner and Family

Sue McAdamis

October 18, 2010

Sharon and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband, father, grandfather, etc. I remember you sharing how Andy brightened your life and made you laugh. He will be missed, yet I'm sure you have many fond memories that will bring a smile to your face. Please know that I'm thinking about you. Fondly, Sue McAdamis

Richard(Rick) Olson, MD

October 18, 2010

Andy has taken care of me for 10+ years and his aggressive care of my wife Verla bought her 4 years of life she would not have had as she fought rheumatiod lung. His place with our Lord is secure. Bless your family in its time of need.

Jo Kiefer

October 18, 2010

Dr.B took care of my mother-in-law Rita for many years and was a great support to her in managing her arthritis. He was also my son, John's soccer coach at Incarnate Word and was great with the boys. Andy, you will be missed by many...thank you for sharing your life with so many. Be at peace.

Cindy Benz

October 18, 2010

My deepest sympathy to all of you. I was a patient of Dr B's for 7 years and my mom was his patient before me. We both loved him as he was a wonderful, kind, compassionate doctor. I was sad when he retired and knew that I would never find another doc like him but am even more saddened that he enjoyed retirement for such a short time.
I'm sure that he was greated at heaven's gate by many former patients and friends.

Maree Thomsen

October 17, 2010

I have been a patient of Dr. Baldassare for over 20 years. He has helped me and encouraged me through my health issues. He will be missed. My prayers go out to you and your family.

Maree Thomsen

October 17, 2010

I have been a patient of Dr. Baldassare for over 20 years. He has helped me and encouraged me through my health issues . He will be missed. My prayers go out to you and your family.

October 17, 2010

So sad to hear of Dr. B passing. My mom was his patient for many years and she adored him. He was kind and caring with a bit of a devilish side to him. When she could barely walk into his office he always put a smile on her face and for that I am thankful. She thought the world of him. I'm sure she was one of the first to greet him. My prayers go out to his children. I am truely sorry for your loss.

Mary

Maureen Walsh

October 17, 2010

Dr.B. has been taking care of me since he joined Arthritis Consultants. I wouldn't be able to move around today if it weren't for him. He told me of his family in Boston and told me to stop by, so I did one time when I was in Boston just to say hello.Later he told me his mother bawlded him out for not telling her I was coming! Years later when I married a widower with 3 children he asked me what it was like to marry a widower with 3 children as his first wife had recently died. I told him it was good and I was glad when he remarried. I had the opportunity to meet Mrs. B when her father had had heart surgery at St. Joes in Kirkwood. I was a nurse in the operating room there. As you can see he has been a big part of my life for years. I saw him for the last time in June. He will be missed.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jen Talley

October 17, 2010

Sharon and the entire Baldassare family,
Mom, Taylor, Abby, and the Talley crew are so terribly sorry to hear about Andy. What a wonderful man! I feel so blessed to have known him and enjoyed our conversations and times together. Sharon, I always felt such happiness for you, knowing you had found the perfect match for you all those years ago. I know he brought you and your family great joy and peace.
We love you so much and feel terrible that we can not be there physically to support you-know we are there spiritually and are praying for you all. Love you-Jennie (Grizzell) Talley and Family

Linda and Les Brandwin

October 17, 2010

Andy and my husband not only went to medical school together, but they were both in the same faternity. If it wasn't for Andy dragging my husband to a party, Les and I would never have met. We all had so much fun during those four years at Phi Chi. I am thankful for the fond memories of Andy who always had a huge smile on his face everytime I saw him. I know he will be missed. Our deepest sympathy goes out to his family.

Linda Fear

October 17, 2010

Dear Sharon and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Andy will be truly missed, especially his way of sharing truths in his gentle and caring way. His love of family and of the outdoors serves to teach us all. A few more fish on the Black River will miss the excitement of being on the rod of a true fisherman. May His love sustain and guide you.
Linda (Fitts) Fear

October 16, 2010

Joe,
My prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Your dad was a wonderful man and doctor. His friendship meant so much to my mom through the years, and he was always so kind to my sister and me.
God Bless,
Holly Eschenbrenner

Robert

October 16, 2010

So sorry for your loss...

Doc was a very special person & great Dr. that helped me with my RA..

He will be greatly missed.

Debbie Lienemann

October 16, 2010

Dr. B was the one who diagnosed my RA 23 yrs. ago. I had been his patient ever since. He will be sorely missed. I was saddened by his retirement recently and felt I would never find another doctor as dedicated as he was. Now I am saddened by his passing. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to his family and close friends.

October 16, 2010

Dear Sharon and family,
We are at a loss for words to describe our feelings for you and Andy. He will be so missed. His bright mind contributed so much to our class... his wit and wisdom.
May your memories of Andy sustain you at this time.
Love,
Elizabeth and Jim

Becky McAlpin

October 16, 2010

My deepest sympathy to Sharon, and all the children and grandchildren, whom Dr. B deeply loved and in whom he found so much pleasure. Life and the work he loved was a great adventure for him. Working with him was delightful. His kindness and compassion for his fellow man knew no limit. He was a mentor and friend to many of us. May all the wonderful memories you shared with him carry you through the days ahead. What a great hope we have that we will see him again.

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