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Memories and Condolences
for Barry Goldstein
Joni Goldstein
April 27, 2008
Just a thought or two. I miss you Barry. The world moves on and so does time. But you made a impact in so many lives. I only wish you knew how great and special you are and were while you were still with us on the earth. Sometimes when I look in the mirror I see you in my own expressions on my face. Your smile handed down to you from our father . I wish you could talk to all of us here . You were so very smart what would you tell us about that crazy story of you and that fateful day. I wish to think of you as a super hero not falling by flying. I will continue to strain my ears to hear your good advice on what do do now or next? I heard you but unforantly I didn't follow through mostly. Barry steven Goldstein I am so very proud of you and how you lived your life here. with fondness and tears your sister,
Joni Goldstein (R.I.P. until I see you again.) never forgotten..
Joni Goldstein
August 7, 2007
My name is Joni. I'am Barry's little sister. I live here in St.Louis as well..I have soooooo enjoyed reading all of your emails.
It sooo very much warms my heart and soul that my big brother touched so very many people. I read the responses esp. from work related people who knew him well.. and I smiled..:)and loved the fact that he was so awesomely respected at his craft and his human wit
me and my big brother didn't always stay close in this lifetime.always..but I loved him.deeply...respected him.emmensly. and never regretably told him how very Proud I was of him and what a great man and awesome husband and father and person he had become..My life is permantly changed as soo many of others are as well..I loved and continue to adore my brother.I hold him in my heart daily with every beat of my heart. He hopefully is finding his way and my father and others have embraced him to next step..I know many people loved and appreciated all his "ways" quips etc. He lost his own father at such a young age.. and I know this weighed heavy on his heart and perception. But he thankfully had his lovely cathy his wife .she will need all are prayers and loving energy sent her way . and then his 2 kids.2 great kids I might add....:) .I think possibly he didn't know what a good man and father and husband he had evolved too.and aspired too...I want to Thank you all who "got" him and adored him.. his brillant smile or (smirk).He was so very smart cebrally but was yet so very attuned to his surroundings.and simpleness of life comforts and follies...I will love him forever and continully pray for peace and comfort to him on that tragic fall/exit from all of are understanding and realm.. My heart and love goes to him on his "Ascent" to the answers in heaven or whatever or where ever..meets us all one day.He is God willing there to greet and meet us all .. much heart felt love and blessings to you all..Joni Goldstein
Tricia Kelly
July 10, 2007
Cathy, Alissa, and Brent,
Words can not begin to describe the sadness my heart has felt since hearing the news. Barry was a great friend, incredibly caring, proud father and husband, and an AMAZING doctor. His sense of humor, personality, grin, and "Barryisms", made everyday fun in our surgery center. It continues to amaze me everyday, the number of patients that come to the center passing along their condolences and personal memories of how great a doctor Barry was and how well he took care of them. He was definitely part of the heart of Des Peres Square Surgery Center. There is a part of our family that is missing and can never be replaced. Even though I was not able to work with Barry for as long as others in the center, my heart will be forever filled with the memories and the great times we were able to work together. I hope and pray that the Lord gives you peace and strength at this time and in the days ahead. We are all here for you. My sincerest condolences, thoughts, and prayers are with each of you and the entire Goldstein family.
Lori Probst
July 10, 2007
My dearest Cathy, Alissa and Brent,
Almost three years ago I re-entered nursing. God placed a great man in my path. Barry loved to educate, he was patient and he loved his patients. Over time I discovered we had much in common. We loved to exercise, and drink great wine. We both had a child entering college (that's you Brent). We gripped about the expense and how glad we were to see them go. But we both knew that those children meant the world to us and separation would be difficult. So, after they left we spoke of them often. Brent, your dad loved you.
I met Alissa while kickboxing. We were sparring partners. It was then that I realized how tough you were Alissa. I knew all about you before I had even met you. Your dad filled me in. He was so proud. Of course your mom wanted to meet your sparring partner (because you came home black and blue!) and thus a friendship began with Cathy.
The Probst's and Goldstein's began a great friendship. Your strong marriage, Cathy, was what Jim and I admired and loved about you both. Dinners and the ski trip with you are memories that will not ever be taken away. I loved to be with Barry and you, Cath. I loved to listen to you two talk to one-another. Just one look into Barry's eyes told of his great love for you Cathy. A love and a great man that cannot ever be duplicated. I am truely blessed to have been a part of Barry's life because he left behind a truely wondeful gift. That gift is you three, Cathy, Alissa and Brent. I love you all so much and I will always be here for you.
James Probst
July 10, 2007
Dearest Cathy, Alissa, and Brent,
It has now been four weeks since Barry's passing. I have searched my heart for the meaning of all of this and I hope in my heart that God will one day show it to me. We have spent many hours together since then and I have gotten to know each one of you in a special way. I want you to know that each one of you is very precious to me. You have taught me things about yourself and you have taught me things about myself.
Barry was very special to me. Even though our friendship was still young, it was exciting and new and full of enjoyment every time that we were together. I would look forward every day when I was working out for Barry to come over from the surgery center to tell me his newfound golf swing, his latest stock tip, or tell me where we would go out for dinner the following weekend. He would have that wonderful smile on his face and smirk at me, and I just wasn't sure what kind of trouble he was thinking up, but it always made me laugh. I already miss him dearly.
I want you to know that I will always be there for all of you, to love you and hold you. Jim.
Denish Gangasingh
July 10, 2007
Dear Cathy,
It has been a few weeks since Barry has left us and I still reach for my phone to call him. I remain a disbeliever. His early and unexpected departure from us leaves a huge void. Still, we have to embrace reality and carry on with as much strength and courage that we can muster. That is the only way.
Herbert Haupt
July 8, 2007
Barry and I have been friends since the 70's when we were medical students together. However, it wasn't until we had a business relationship, with him being the anesthesiologist at our surgery center, that our friendship really grew. It is not often that a friendship can be maintained much less blossom during a business relationship but ours did.
Barry became my health counselor and at times my personal physician and I was the same for him. Over the years I recognized that one of Barry's greatest joys in life was to be able to feel the energy of exercise on a daily basis. One of Barry's greatest fears was some day to be physically unable to exercise when and how he wanted.
I am so happy that Barry was able to live his life, however short, as he wanted and on his terms. Many, including me, would consider that a rare privilege and that makes me smile, despite my grief.
Good Luck Barry
Pat Long
July 5, 2007
Cathy, Alissa, and Brent,
I feel very fortunate to have known Barry. One of the stories that he told was of one of his many Napa Sonoma trips. Barry decided to buy a case of wine, not just any wine, but Opus One. Now for the dilemma-how to get a case of "good wine" back to the hotel while bike riding. Well, Barry figured it out. Ride the bike and carry the wine on the handle bars. I'm sure if you closed your eyes you can picture Barry riding through wine country on his bike in his glory with his case of Opus One. Barry was a great "one of a kind". He will truly be missed.
Terry McNemar
June 27, 2007
We were in the Greek restaurant after Derek’s graduation and conversing and advising and congratulating the graduate and the newly engaged and everyone else who deserved it and we settled in and started sampling the food when he came in from a late appointment and suddenly it seemed that the party had been turned up a notch or two. The grandmas squinted their eyes to see who had entered but I was watching my daughter’s eyes for the reflection there has always been very pure and through that reflection I see that this guy is a man of truth, and mirth, and joy, and a very cherished member of her very new family and we are happy that she has found such a wonderful collective of people to balance her life. What you all share is so very special.
I’m so sorry that Barry’s gone, but do know, nothing loved ever dies.
God bless,
Kathy, Terry and Mady McNemar
Jamie Sullivan
June 26, 2007
How many people have a word to describe their unique mannerisms, quirks, gestures and sayings? Barryisms can only describe the unique individual that Barry was. What a great man, husband, father, friend, doctor and human being he was. We will all miss him deeply and are so fortunate to have known him. We will never forget you Barry or any of your "isms". Until we meet again.
Claire Thurmond
June 25, 2007
Cathy, Alissa and Brent,
I have put off writing this hoping for some inspirational words. As time goes by, I realize there are no words to describe the terrible sadness I feel. I have lost a great friend and co-worker and society has lost a fantastic human being. I pray that God takes care of you & walks with you during these difficult times. Please come by to see us when the time is right for you. My love to all of you,
Claire Thurmond
Rae Cardwell
June 24, 2007
Dear Cathy,
I just heard the news and was devestated. My heartfelt sympathy over the loss of a great man, good husband and father.
Should you need anything, don't hesitate to call or e mail me. 314-409-4666
Jennifer Grau
June 23, 2007
Dear Cathy,
May God hold your hand as you get through this unimaginable tragedy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Grau (Bob Harris' daughter- Aunt Lenore's niece)
Beth Greer
June 21, 2007
Dear Cathy,
I've just heard of your sad loss. Please know that in your time of grief you have friends near and far who are thinking of you and your family, and who are sending heart-felt prayers.
Jill Harris
June 21, 2007
Dear Cathy,
I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. Aunt Lenore just called me to inform me. You, Brent and Alissa will be at the top of my prayer list for many nights. I am so deeply sorry...
Jill Harris, Bob Harris' daughter
Mimi Schultz
June 21, 2007
My heart goes out to the Goldstein family. Barry was a pleasure to work with,an incredible doctor, and a wonderful friend. I pray that God gives your family strength to get through this time. I am so grateful to be able to call him friend.
Tom Easterling
June 20, 2007
Dear Cathy,
I was saddened to hear that Barry passed away recently. He was a very good handball player that I loved to compete with. He was also a fine person with a great sense of humor. Even more important, he was a good husband to you & father to Alissa & Brent. My thoughts & prayers will be with you & your family. Take care.
Tom Easterling
Bob Cento
June 19, 2007
I just found out about Dr. Goldstein and I'm devastated. Mrs. Goldstein-I knew Barry from DePaul where I worked in Surgery. His passing is a loss to us all; and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
sheila Landsbaum
June 19, 2007
Life won't be the same, how can it be? Barry was a great Doctor, friend, father, husband, brother, sister and the amazing part of all of it is that he had no clue how he touched all of us. That was his nature, unpretentious and so adoring in his quirky ways. He endeared himself to each and every one of us without any effort on his part. Barry was the true meaning of the word "Mensch" which describes a person having admirable characteristics, as fortitude and firmness of purpose." I will miss him each & everyday, as will all that had the pleasure of knowing him. God Bless you, Barry. May you continue to visit me in my dreams. My deepest sorrow and sympathy to Cathy, Alissa and Brent. He loved you you all so passionately and dearly.
Sheila a.k.a. "Spirit"
Amy Evett-Taylor
June 19, 2007
Dear Cathy,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am thinking and praying for you and your family.
Barbara Weaver
June 18, 2007
Dear Goldsteins: It was at Derek's graduation that I got to meet Barry. He was a powerful man -- you could tell it the minute he entered a room.
My family's prayers have been with you all. We'll continue to pray for comfort and healing for all of you.
Barbara Weaver [Molly and Derek's Aunt]
Ben Thum
June 17, 2007
I did not know Barry but that is of little significance. He was a handball player and a very good one, so we were connected from afar by our love for a noble game.
I got to know his brother, Billy, on a handball website and have come to respect the Goldstein family thru their prowess in the game.
From the heartfelt words of those who knew him it is obvious he was quite a fine person and doctor with a great sense of humor. Barry's tragic loss conjures up the immortal words of John Donne:
"All mankind is one volume. When one man dies, one chapter is torn out of the book and translated into a better language.And every chapter must be so translated.
God employs several translators.
Some pieces are translated by age, some by sickness, some by war, some by justice. But God's hand shall bind up all our scattered leaves again for that library where every book shall lie open to another."
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the Goldstein family.
Elise Tierney
June 17, 2007
Dear Goldstein Family,
I cannot begin to understand your loss. Barry was... Barry. His name said it all. You knew there was fun in the room when you heard that voice and saw that grin! How lucky you all were to have him!! The next time you see him he will probably be standing there, arms crossed looking at his watch and ask," what took you so long?"
A dear friend of mine from kindergarten shared the following piece with me. She lost her father and his wife in a terrible accident. She said the words made her remember what we know to be true, and helped her in her grief. May it bring you comfort.
When we give our love to another person we give part of ourselves, and in our love we become one wih them.
Death is nothing at all, I have only slipped in the next room. I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way you used to. Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be the same household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort, without the ghost of a shadow in it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is absolutely unbroken continuity. What is death but a negligible accident. Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight.
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner. All is well. Nothing is past; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
by an anonymous author.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Elise' Tierney
Linda Walton (Adelman)
June 16, 2007
Most of my memories of Barry involve watching him play fierce handball games against or with my brother, Steve, years ago. I can tell that Barry lived his adult life with this same fierceness, energy, and enthusiasm. It’s times like this that make you reflect on the importance of family and friends and enjoying life while you can. My thoughts and prayers are with Barry’s family, friends and co-workers. I am so,so sorry.
Carolyn Rucker
June 16, 2007
Dear Goldstein Family,
I had the honor of knowing Barry because of the work I did at Des Peres Surgery Center. Our AmSurg family was deeply saddened by your loss. He had a wonderful sense of humor and he was always very good to us. Our thoughts and prayers go out to everyone.
Tom and Debbie Swanger
June 16, 2007
Cathy,Alissa
and Brent.Debbie and I still can't imagine not seeing Barry again. we
first met him when he was a resident at Jewish.It was mine and her good
fortune to be able to work with him at O.A.There are way too many
Barryisms to mention here,but you should know every day was so much fun
to go to work to see what he'd do or say next.The last 6 years at O.A.
were the best I could have asked for.His humor and thoughts were just
like mine (except for the relentless exercise thing).There won't be
another Barry.We did and still do love him like family.Please keep in
touch.Tom and Debbie
Heather Plake
June 15, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Tom and Debbie Swanger
June 15, 2007
Cathy,Alissa
and Brent.Debbie and I still can not imagine not having Barry around to
make us laugh and for us to laugh at him.together we have almost 60
years in the anesthesia world,worked with hundreds of doctors,and we
can truthfully say he was the best.Not lonly dedicated to pt. care,but
the funny approach he had to everything.The most blue collar M.D. I've
ever known.I've worked with him for 6 years at
O.A.and it was really fun going to work knowing he'd be there for us to
badger each other.Our senses of humor and other thoughts were almost
the
same(except the relentless exersise thing).O.A. will never be the same
without him.We did and still do love him like family.
The McDermotts
June 15, 2007
I didn't know Barry nor the family very well. I was part of the wedding party that did the hike that day and descended the mountain right behind Brent. Unfortunately, I witnessed what had happened and my heart goes out to his daughter who saw the whole thing, his son who was there and his sweet wife. I am so sorry. We are praying for comfort and love to you and that one day the bigger picture will be revealed.
Our Barry
Michele & Sheila
June 14, 2007
All of us that worked with Barry are absolutely devastated by this tragic accident. We cannot believe that we will never see him again. At this moment we are lost without him. Our only solace is that we have such great memories to share with each other. Barrys self-depricating humor endeared him to all those that he came in contact with. He was fun to be around. Cathy, Alissa, and Brent, there are no words to tell you how much we will miss him.
Kaci Pate
June 14, 2007
Dear Cathy~
I was stunned and so saddened by the news. I pray for you and your family during this time. Hold onto your memories of the great times shared.
kathy northup
June 14, 2007
barry lived his life the way most men dream of living.....having the most beautiful wife on his arm, and two outstanding children that he was so proud of, and a job that brought him satisfaction. each day was a joy to see him round the corner with just a touch of toothpaste lingering on the corner of his mouth....and gently reminding him to wipe it away! my life has been enriched by barry and his zest for life. there is a place in my heart that barry will always live.
cathy, alissa and brent..may the lord wrap his arms around you and bring you peace and comfort.
little kathy
Dan Thacker
June 14, 2007
Cathy, Alissa, and Brent. I guess there's nothing I can say that hasn't already been said. I still don't believe what has happened. I'm still looking for his car everytime I drive by the surgery center. I'm waiting for the punch line. This tragedy has sent tremors through a whole community, showing what a great impact Barry had on all of us. If only we're all lucky enough to be missed so dearly. Make no mistake, luck had nothing to do with it. Barry earned it. His only luck was on the golf course! I was always there to remind him of that. Be strong for each other and know we are all here for you...for anything...anytime. Rest easy my good friend. Dan
Susan Schienberg
June 14, 2007
To the Goldstein family:
You have been in my thoughts on- going every single day, and every minute, since I heard the unreal news about Barry, which has left me with such a heavy heart. During my many trips to St. Louis I was lucky enough to spend time with my uncle Buddy and Barry together.... I can not tell you how much I enjoyed those times, and all I can do is picture those times over and over in my head.
I think I must have laughed all of these times.
I looked at the Mt. Zion park on-line and saw how amazingly beautiful it was and the only conclusion that I can possibly come to is that G-d had a plan for Barry in the most beautiful place; doing what he loved to do and also doing it with his two kids.
I am so deeply, painfully, sorry for your loss.
Most Sincerely,
Susi Schienberg (Buddy Cooper's niece)
Joel Markus
June 14, 2007
I have not seen Barry for over 25 years. I remember playing backyard football with him out in the yard when we were kids. He was always fun
to be with. To the Goldstein family I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Lindsay Oliver
June 14, 2007
Dear Goldstein family,
I was so so sorry to hear about your loss. I worked with Dr. Goldstein, a.k.a. Blue-Barry...due to the blue scrubs he wore, at Des Peres Square surgery Center. He was one of the most thoughtful and caring people I have ever known... always there to make a quick joke to lighten the mood of the patients and the staff. While I was pregnant with my son, he would check in each day and and ask, "how you doing, mom?" As I came closer to my due date, he would make me practice "the hunch"...daily... to make sure I was properly prepared for the epidural. He knew it made me nervous, and he had a way of easing my fears. He loved his family very much and spoke of you all often, with great pride. I will remember him always...pacing in front of the TV in the lunch room, watching the stock reports... while chewing on a paper towel. God love him!
Linds-a-bear
Lawrence Amitin and family
June 14, 2007
Dear Goldstein family,
I attented the funeral of Barry Goldstein yesterday. From my family to yours we offer our heart felt sympathy. Years ago when our mom was sick at Jewish hospital Barry offered support and help for our family. His acts of mitzvahs over the years have already placed his soul in G-d's book of life. During the time of morning and throuhout life prayers will be said in memory of Barry.
Sincerely,
Steve Lestmann
June 13, 2007
Dear Cathy, Alissa, Brent, and Family,
I was saddened to hear about Barry's sudden death. I always enjoyed his company when he came in for golf lessons. He lived life to the fullest, and everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him will surely miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Steve Lestmann
Dr. Joseph Hazan
June 13, 2007
Dr. Goldstein was a very fine person and will be greatly missed.
Sincerest condolences.
John Beesley
June 13, 2007
I have been on Angels Landing many times. I am sure the angels came on June 8 and took Dr. Goldstein. He is a stranger to me. But I believe angels landed and carried him away. We will never know why in this lifetime. I will never climb it again without thinking of him. Keep going, I am sure that is what he would want.
Marilyn Hubert
June 13, 2007
Carla, Even though we havent seen each other for years, I remember how proud you were of your son. May God Bless You.
Marilyn Hubert
Parkway
James King
June 13, 2007
There is no doubt that Barry is one of the most friendly, funny, talented people with which I have ever had the privilege to work. He's taught me so much and I'll miss him. Heaven better get ready for some good laughs....
Mary Ellen (Yost) Coady
June 13, 2007
Dear Goldstein Family,
My condolences to all of you. I am so sad to hear about Barry. Your family was one that I always looked forward to seeing when I babysat for you. Your home always seemed to be filled with lots of laughter and fun, and I enjoyed spending time at your house because of that. I also remember how great your kids were, and I'm sure they still are! My very best to all of you. You're in my thoughts.
With love,
Tammy Faye
June 13, 2007
Cathy, Allisa & Brent,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you. Barry certainly made work a fun place to be. He was always quick to help with any concerns , offer advice and lend a sense of humor to any situation. A very incredible human being, who will be greatly missed.
Jonathan and Evelyn Gold
June 13, 2007
Dear Cathy and family,
We were so saddened to hear of Barry's tragic death. There are truely no words to express how we feel. We hope that your memories and his laughter will hold you today and always. He will truely be missed and we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob & Eileen Evans
June 13, 2007
Dear Kathy,Alissa & Brent,
We at Des Peres Square Surgery Center will miss Barry very much. I will always vision him swinging his golf club in the hall outside my office. He was a good man and a lot of fun. My deepest thoughts are with you.
Dianne Echols, R.N.
June 12, 2007
Dear Cathy, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
I worked with Barry at DePaul until I retired in 2000. He was a really great guy and will be sorely missed by all who knew him.
Susie Lowy and Morgan Dulaney
June 12, 2007
Cathy, this note is from a friend from the past. Morgan and Alissa went to pre-school together and I believe still keep in touch via the facebook. I also watched Alissa dance at the Dimensions recitals. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Memories will keep Barry alive in your hearts forever. We send you a great big cyber hug! Susie Dulaney Lowy and Morgan Dulaney
Judy Rosen
June 12, 2007
Dearest Family,
Our hearts are broken for your loss. Growing up as Barry's cousin left me with memories that even today make me laugh and smile. I never heard him say a negative word, nor did his face ever not have a smile on it. I'm so glad that we spent some time together last year for those are memories to cherish. He will be missed by all who loved him both near and far. Our thoughts are prayers are with you all today and always...Judy, Alan, Robyn, Daniel & Jonathan Rosen (Bellaire, TX)
Edward Beck
June 12, 2007
My sympathy to the entire Goldstein Family.
I remember Barry's mom talking about her son when she was my third grade teacher and how happy she was when she spoke about him. Carla, I'm sorry about your loss, may peace be with you.
Lou Stoler
June 12, 2007
Dear Cathy,
I was told of Barry's passing and your loss by a long-time St. Louis friend, Carolyn Blair. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Fred Sher
June 12, 2007
My sincere condolences
Trudy & Tim Bucey
June 12, 2007
Cathy and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of your loss. We remember the love your family shared at Molly and Derek's wedding. My girls still talk about the fun they had with Alissa. May God's presence give you strength at this time. God bless your family.
Jeff Dickler
June 12, 2007
Cathy, Brent, Elissa.... I was shocked to hear of Barry's sudden passing. I often think of you guys being missing from the neighborhood. My deepest sympathy to you all.
Jeffrey Silverstone
June 12, 2007
Dear Goldstein Family,
Words alone cannot describe how devastating the loss of Barry is. I will always remember all of the time I spent with him and cherish it forever. He was the best father, husband,brother,son and friend that anyone could ever have. He will be missed by so many people.
Sarah Dowil - Sachtleben
June 12, 2007
Dear Cathy, Alissa & Brent - I was so saddened to hear this news. I have always thought so much of all of you. He was a wonderful man.
Kim Thornton Michelle BUjnak
June 12, 2007
We were fortunate to work with Barry at Des Peres Square. He brought a sense of humor to our day. Our prayers to you and your family.
jeffrey newport
June 12, 2007
Cathy, words cannot express how sad I was to learn about Barry. You both have always been some of my favorite cousins. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Stan Hanks
June 11, 2007
I was on the trail that day with a group of young men from Salt Lake City. We immediately prayed that the family would be strengthened and find peace. We continue praying for you at this time. From what we've learned about Barry, it sounds like he was a wonderful man. May God bless you.
Judy Mendels-Peterson
June 11, 2007
Our hearts go out to you.
Judy Mendels-Peterson
David and Dania Peterson
Jonathan Schienberg
June 11, 2007
Dear Cathy, Alissa and Brent,
Two years ago my uncle Buddy brought Barry to New York and I had the chance to get to know him briefly over dinner. I immediately understood why my uncle was so close with him. A warm, congenial guy with a fantastic sense of humor, Barry was effortlessly charismatic. I am so sorry for your tremendous loss... my thoughts are with you.
Aaron Rakes
June 11, 2007
Alissa:
My heart and prayers are with you and your family right now. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Chaim Edelstein
June 11, 2007
Our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your husband and father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Chaim Edelstein & family
GWYNN LOOMSTEIN
June 11, 2007
DEAR CATHY,ALISSA,BRENT,AND FAMILY,
WE EXTEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY, AND SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY YOU FIND STRENGTH IN THE DAYS TO COME. DON,GWYNN,HEATHER,& BEN LOOMSTEIN
Janet Davis
June 11, 2007
Cathy-I am holding you and Alissa and Brent in my thoughts and prayers. My hugs and love to you at this most sad time. Love, Janet
Lisa Rutherford
June 11, 2007
As a friend of Jeff and Penny Feldman, I would like to offer my condolences on your loss. Having lost my husband just after Christmas last year, I can perhaps, better than some, understand what you're feeling. My heart goes out to you. It is an awful thing. I wish I could say something to make it better other than to say it does improve, at least a bit. My sincere condolences.
Carl Arky
June 11, 2007
Dear Cathy & Family
Word cannot express my sorrow for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you through this most difficult time. May the Lord bring you peace.
Barbara Tanurchis & Family
June 11, 2007
Cathy, Allissa & Brent, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We were extemely sadden to hear about his untimely death. He was such a wonderful person and joy to know.
Carl Norbo
June 11, 2007
Dear Kathy & Family
I'm so sorry for your loss. I just don't know what else to say.
Blondie Mellman
June 11, 2007
I was so shocked and terribly saddened to hear of Barry's death. I remember him well from being a first grader at Weber School to his B'ar Mitzva to his becoming a fine young man. My heart goes out to all of you. I am so sorry.
Emily,Michael Rosen
June 11, 2007
Cathy,Alissa, and Brent, we are so saddened by the loss of Barry. We always had so much fun with all of you over the last(?) years. We will never forget Barry. He took us to the most places. Lots of love,Emily and Michael Rosen. Cathy, we love you so much, and our mom is devistated because she feels so close to you. She always felt like Brent and Alissa were her "surrogate" kids. Why do these things happen to the best people?
Leah
June 11, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with the Goldstein family at this difficult time.
antonella quattromani
June 11, 2007
Dear family,
my prayers are with all of you in this day of sorrow.
He will be missed he was a good friend, great dad and great doctor
Lindy Eisenmayer (Stanfield)
June 11, 2007
Dear Goldstein family
We had the pleasure of knowing Barry through handball. We always admired his atlethic skills and his impeccable character. We were deeply saddened to hear of his tragic death. Our hearts go out to his wife and children, his mother, brother and sisters. He will always be remembered as a good and decent man. With our deepest sorrow, the entire Stanfield Family
Alan and Diane Handler
June 11, 2007
Dear Family,
We are so sad for your loss. From those of you we knew a little better than Barry we are sure that he was just a great person, father, physician... So tragic. Our prayers are with you.
Donna Carr
June 11, 2007
I used to work for Barry's brother Dr. Bill Goldstein and I have many good memories of my time there. My thoughts and prayers are with the Goldstein family.
Larry and Kathy Branam
June 11, 2007
We are very sad to here the news about Barry. My wife and I have known Barry and Cathy for over 20 years. I had the pleasure of working with Barry for many years. He was a great man, loving father and husband, and well respected in his field. I know that all of his family and those who knew and worked with him will miss him dearly . He touched many lives, esp. ours. We will miss you! Our prayers are with his family.
Nate Woodward
June 11, 2007
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I happened to be on the trail that day, my heart aches for all of you.
There is an entire community praying for you.
C. Jeffrey Sippel, MD
June 11, 2007
To the family of Barry Goldstein:
I grew up with Barry and Billy Goldstein in Fairways Subdivision in Creve Coeur, MO. For 12 years we grew up and went to the same elementary and secondary schools together. Over those years, we became best friends and shared a lot of fun times and great memories together. Barry was a great guy and wonderful friend! We offer our scincerest regrets and sympathies to the entire Goldstein family.
Sincerely
C. Jeffrey Sippel, MD (Jeff)(Pediatrician) St. Louis, MO.
and Greg Sippel, Dallas TX
Jody rosen
June 11, 2007
Barry was truly one of the greatest guys I've ever had the honor to know. Cathy,Brent,Alissa, our hearts go out to you and all your family. You know how much I love you
Karyn Levy
June 11, 2007
My dearest Carla, Billy, Jan, Joni, Cathy and family....the loss of Barry is a tragedy....thank heaven I have the wonderful memories of our childhood and the pictures of Barry at my wedding 30 years ago tomorrow....My thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.
Love, your cousin Karyn Schwartz Levy
Scott & Melodie
June 11, 2007
Dear Kathy, Alissa and family
Please accept our most profound and heartfelt sympathy. Barry was a wonderful guy and we are going to all miss him tremendously.
William Hart Jr. M.D. and Family
June 11, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. He was a great man with a real zest of life. He will be missed greatly.
Susan & David Blankenship
June 11, 2007
My husband and I were both very lucky to have met Barry through Better Image. His personality was refreshing and we always enjoyed seeing him, he was such a pleasure to be around. Our deepest condolences and regards for his family. He will truly be missed.
Julie Winters
June 11, 2007
There are no words to express how much this man is going to be missed. I love him like a brother, and was the light of my life at Des Peres. I could not have worked without him. My memories of Barry make me laugh. His quirky self always made me smile.
When I returned to work from battling my illness, his words of encouragement helped me move on. Only a few times did I see this type of emotion, but it meant the world to me.
He loved his children so much, and spoke of them to me often. He was so proud of his new house, and the work Kathy had done to make it so beautiful.
My lasting memory of Barry will be on the treadmill, at a 6% incline, running 6 mph, sweat pouring down his face, and happy as any one human could be.
I love you my dear friend. I will miss you the rest of my life.
Oh yes.....my husband is caucasion!!
Julison
Steve Grossman
June 11, 2007
Words cannot even begin to describe the emotions and sadness I have felt since I heard the news about Barry. He was one of my best lifetime friends. A part of me is now missing that will never be replaced. My heart goes out to his family and to the multitude of friends and patients whose lives he made better by his presence.
Donna Lewis
June 11, 2007
I worked with Barry for 5yrs. He was a great coworker and a person as an individual. He will truely be missed by all
Janet and Craig Zimerman
June 11, 2007
We are sorry for your loss.
denise basilio (from Better image)
June 11, 2007
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
June 11, 2007
Our hearts go out to you at this very, very sad time.
Dick and Barb Cochran (the parents of Erin Glick)
Sari Mandresh
June 11, 2007
Dear Cathy,
Bob & I are devastated to hear of Barry's death. We always enjoyed seeing you and Barry in St. Louis and will remember him as a longtime, dear friend of the Grossman family. May your family and friends give you strength during this time.
Sari(Grossman)and Bob Mandresh
Indianapolis, Indiana
Mary Catanzaro
June 11, 2007
Dear Family,
I worked with Barry over the years at different surgery centers. Sometimes I would be lucky enough to see him out and about in Clayton while I was having dinner. He always made me laugh and feel at ease. There was nothing arogant about him. He had a smile that would light up a room and would put a smile on everyone's face. I cannot tell you how sorry I am for all of you. I feel so sad that I will never run into him again but I will never forget him....I will pray for all of you every day. He will be missed by everyone that knew him.
With deep sadness,
Mary Catanzaro R.N.
Rachel Williams (Harris)
June 11, 2007
My thoughts are with you and your family right now. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
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