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David, Dominic and Grant Decareaux
David, Dominic and Grant Decareaux Obituary
David Decareaux, who was born in Louisiana, recently joined the DOD at Scott Air Force Base following a 10-year career in the Air Force. The family has three other children, ages 11, 4 and 2.
The family recently bought a home in Millstadt to be close to his job after living on-and-off in Germany for the past decade,
Memories and Condolences
for David, Dominic and Grant Decareaux
84 Entries
Ulrich Wagner
January 31, 2013
Dear Sarah,
we were deeply grieved to hear of the sudden passing of your beloved David and your sons Dominic and Grant.
Please accept the expression of our heartiest sypmathy
Family Wagner, Family Schmiedel, Elisabeth Mikac and Johann Strabel from Renningen
Carol Halstead
January 20, 2013
Sarah, I am the Coordinator of American Heritage Girls Troop NE0026. On behalf of our troop I want to convey our deep sorrow for your loss. We will continue to pray for you and your family as the Lord walks you through the next moments, days, and weeks.
Carol Halstead
Bob Miller
January 19, 2013
wishing you all strength and peace
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The Bronnerts
January 19, 2013
The world is less without them and Heaven a better place with them. Sarah, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids.
January 18, 2013
Sarah, iv never met u,but your words I read says a lot. Praise b to the Lord. Im a good friend of your mother in law an father in law.We r both very blessed for that.yall r all in our prayers. Shasy an Mark Hosli
Terry Beck- Dupre
January 18, 2013
My heart and prayers to your family... May your lights shine always.
Debbie & Jett Kindice
January 18, 2013
Sarah, the memories of the wonderful times Jett and I had with you and your family will never leave our hearts.Your boys and Jett bonded right away and Jett will always remember Dom and Grant as his Germany friends.
My heart is with you, Kate,Fin and Elise.
You are such a wonderful person, Dave and you had such a special love, I could see that when I was visiting with you.
I am so glad that Kim and Chris met you and your family and and shared that friendship with us.
My heart is with you.
Love, Debbie and Jett Kindice
CR Bennett
January 18, 2013
My prayers are with the family that God comforts everyone affected by this tragedy.
January 18, 2013
All our love and prayers go out to Sarah and her family? God bless and keep you in your time of need...Roy and Donna Ray Jordan
Regina Blanchard
January 18, 2013
Upon reading the story I was saddened. I do not know the family personally. Please accept my condolences to the family and may God bring peace to you. God Bless you!
Erin Thompson
January 18, 2013
Sarah, I am so sorry for your loss. I have been praying for you and your family since I heard the news. I am at a loss for words but please know you are being thought of and prayed for by so many. May you feel God's love surrounding you and holding you close during this time.
Rebecca Hope
January 18, 2013
As a fellow Christian, Scouter and mom, my heart aches with your loss. May God continue to surround you with His love, strength, and the knowledge that your loved ones wait for you in glory.
January 18, 2013
I did not know this family personally,but seeing this picture and reading the their story just broke my heart. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your three love ones gone too soon. I hope this guest book remains for a while because I know when the time is right Mrs. Decareaux and you are able to read these loving expressions of faith and prayers and the many good memories people of have your entire family your heart will be warm once again at a time when you thought it may never happen again. Until then may you be strengthen by the many prayers being prayed on you behalf and may the peace of God that excels all thought be with you.
Julie Ashton
January 18, 2013
Continuous heartfelt prayers for you as you journey on; there is no one I know who is not touched by this tragedy, this Cross. Again, continuous prayers.
Peter, Jacqueline, Daniel (Moya), Peter Jr., and Amaris Galik
January 17, 2013
We are so deeply saddened to hear of your loss. We are praying for you and your entire family. but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. (Isaiah 40:31 NIV) God bless you now and forever.
Paul, Angie, PJ and David Broske
January 17, 2013
May your faith sustain you, may His comfort surround you, may the Lord give you his Peace. David, Dominic and Grant are in the presence of the Lord and one day you will be reunited again. It was an honor to give them our humble scout salute this evening. We will continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
January 17, 2013
Sarah, Kate, Finn, Elise, and family,
We will be diligently praying for you all. We can't begin to grasp what you are going through but we have been popcorn praying for you all throughout this week. Sometimes there are no words, just silent tears streaming down our faces for you all. I know that those prayers are dearest because there are simply no words but the groanings we know come from the Holy Spirit. We pray you will be able to hold on to those memories and celebrate their lives and all that you did together. You have so many wonderful pics showing family gatherings, birthdays, travels all over Europe, and fun homeschooling days. You've done more as a family in the time you've had together than many have done in fifty years. Death can never take those memories away, remember that, Sarah. We will be holding you up high in our prayers and continue lifting you all up. May God hold you and strengthen you. Love The Efaws
Kimberly Branyan
January 17, 2013
Oh, my dear friend Sarah, how I wish I could hug you. My heart has broken over and over again since first hearing the horrible news. It was always a real joy to get to spend time with your family and I always looked so forward to our visits, even though they may have been years apart. I am so thankful that technology, at least, has allowed us to still be close despite the miles that physically separate us. I wish I could take your pain away, I wish I could undo the events of the last weekend, I wish I could bring back your loving husband and your sweet, sweet boys. Oh how I will miss them. Know that I, friends of mine, and my whole family are holding you close this week and in the weeks to come. You and Dave have been such an example to me and you have touched SO many lives. I KNOW that Dave, Dom, and Grant all heard, "well done thou good and faithful servant" when they stepped into Glory. I am SO thankful for the knowledge that we will see them again in Glory. That is the only comfort to me and I pray that God will simply pour out His blessings on you and ease your heart. You and your whole family are being prayed for all over the world. May you feel those prayers and feel the arms of Jesus as He holds you to give you His peace and comfort. I love you!!
Sheri
January 17, 2013
As a grandmother of scouts , my thoughts and prayers are with you at this tragic time. May the Lord lift you and carry you thru .
Rachel & Diego Calderon
January 17, 2013
To Sarah and Decareaux family, although you may not remember me and my husband personally, I wanted you to know that you and your family have always had a lasting impression on us. In 2005 when my husband and I had orders to Alconbury, England, David and you were our sponsors. My husband worked with David at JAC Molesworth that year. I will never forget the generosity and kindness your husband and yourself showed to us. They are no words that one can say to comfort the lost of a husband and child. But I hope you find comfort in the days and years to come to know that your family left lasting impressions in other people's lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Nat Benipayo
January 17, 2013
May the light of the Holy Spirit always shine upon you and bring you comfort during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family. May the souls of David, Dominic, and Grant be granted eternal peace.
Rev Nancy Spier Lee
January 17, 2013
Sarah and family, the Zion United Church of Christ-St. Joe (Waterloo) family holds you and all of your family in prayer. We will never forget you and David, Kate or your beautiful boys. Having you live here was a delight. Our hearts are broken and sorrow is close at hand. Yet, the light is never overcome by the darkness. God hold you close.
Chad, Stacie, Brady, & Emma Schulenberg
January 17, 2013
Dave and your family were such a blessing to so many of the Scouting famies during our time in Germany. He was an amazing example of Christ-like service and God's love. May all the sweet memories you have bring a smile to your face, in time. Oh, how we all wish we could bind up your wounds and heal your broken heart! Prayers don't seem sufficient, but we know the Lord himself is. May your family find some solace in His Arms & each other. Thankful that you know they are filled with peace in God's perfect presence, but we know that doesn't lessen your pain and grief. Your entire family is being lifted up by so very many people Sarah! Praying that you, your children, & Dave's parents experience an extra measure of love from your Heavenly Father & those closest to you.
Bo & Carlette Bonnette
January 16, 2013
To the entire Decareaux family, our prayers are all we have that we can offer you for comfort; there are no words. When I think of Davey, I see him marching in the St. Paul band in a Mardi Gras parade and I see that fireman's son that started a fire between our two houses years ago. Keep the good memories in front of you and know that they now see the face of God and that one day you will be together again.
Jan and Dionicio Beltran
January 16, 2013
My husband and I use to work at Brushy Creek and our hearts were very sadden when we heard about your tragic weekend. I know the staff at Brushy is heart broken also. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers and May God give you peace, comfort and strength to face your future. We are so sorry! May they rest in peace in the arms of our Lord and Saviour.
Noel LaCroix
January 16, 2013
Carmen, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at our Hammond Ochsner Clinic. Just know we are here if you need us.
Noel LaCroix and Staff
January 16, 2013
Sarah, children and Family, though I do not know you personally, David was a fraternity brother of my nephew-in-law, Mario Bazile, while at LSU. We are all holding you in heartfelt prayer and support. May god grant you the grace and strength you so deserve today and in the comping days. blessings, Sr. Richard Mary Burke, RSM - Springfield, Missouri
Duke Whitten
January 16, 2013
Sarah the entire Stuttgart Scouting community has you and your family in our prayers. We will forever hold close in our hearts the wonderful memories of Dave, the boys and your family in the many scouting events we shared together. God bless you and keep you and give you comfort in the days ahead.
January 16, 2013
Words cannot describe the feeling this saddening news did to me when I heard it. Dave was an outstanding person and was definitely someone that I counted as an excellent addition to our team in Germany. As a fellow "Who Dat" I feel an even deeper loss for Dave and the boys that I cannot truly express without getting too emotional. May God bless your family during these trying times ahead and keep you safe and close in His protective arms!! -- Wes
Carl, Brianne, Grant, & Gwynne Klotzsche
January 15, 2013
Sarah, your family is a shining example of Godliness and it was a pleasure to have met you while in Germany. Your loving marriage and devoted parenting were obvious to all. My heart breaks for you, Kate, and the little ones yet I know that your faith and trust in God will comfort and guide you. Please know that we will continue to pray for your strength and peace in the days ahead. May God bless and keep you in His tender loving care,
Milicent Mangerchine-Garrison
January 15, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers go out to to David's entire family. We knew David as a young boy through his Aunt Edith, and we know his mother Carmen. We are very sorry for your loss and may god bless your entire family in this time of sorrow. Mrs. May Mangerchine and family.
January 15, 2013
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Nancy Dendramis
AHG National Board of Trustees
Linda Williams
January 15, 2013
I worked with David's mother when he was in high school then joined the Air Force. I am deeply saddened by this tragedy and know that his parents, Sarah and surviving children will hold on with their faith.
January 15, 2013
I cry for you and yours. Please keep the faith Don Fav
DONNA MOSS
January 15, 2013
WORDS CANT BEGIN TO DESCRIBE THE SORROW I HAVE FOR YOU & YOUR FAMILY ,THOUGH I DONT KNOW YOU ALL BUT AGAIN I FEEL A CONNECTION,GOD WILL LIFT YOU & CARRY YOU THROUGH THESE DIFFICULT TIMES ,GOD BLESS & KNOW THAT YOU ARE LOVED DEEPLY .
Connie Hall
January 15, 2013
I just wanted you to know that I am praying for your family. I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope the support of the community will bring you comfort and the goodness of God will eventually heal your broken hearts.
May the peace of the Lord be with them.
May the peace of the Lord be before them.
May the peace of the Lord be behind them.
May the peace of the Lord surround them.
Now and forever. Amen
Kathie Brennan
January 15, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your children and extended family. As a volunteer for the Ozark Trail Association, this breaks my heart.
Mary Settlemoir
January 15, 2013
I don't know this family, but am truly sadden by this loss. Sarah, you are a strong God loving woman and my prayers are with you. God please put your hand on her and the rest of your family.
January 15, 2013
Dear Decareaux family,
What a horrible tragedy and sad turn of events for a weekend that was intended as family fun. I will remember this wonderful father, his sons, and surviving family members in my prayers.
Rest in peace, Decareaux family.
A St. Louis mother
Karen Petitt (AMW/PA)
January 15, 2013
To the Decareaux family, All of Scott AFB is saddened by this news. Our hearts and prayers go out to you for comfort and peace. Truly we mourn your loss as it is our loss as well.
S. Babor
January 15, 2013
I am so sorry ... I can't imagine the feelings you and your family are feeling. Please know that I will keep you all in my prayers and thoughts. I have read your story in the paper and seen it on the news. I hope you will feel the power and strength of prayers, sadness, support and sympathy from those you know and those you have never met. I am a parent and wife....I can't imagine. Again, I am deeply sorry.
Brenda T. Davis
January 15, 2013
Mrs. Decareaux, my deepest heart-felt sympathy is with you and your family. May the prayers of many comfort you, and your strong faith in God sustain you all through this sorrowful time. I am praying for you.
Andrew Kilmer
January 15, 2013
Sorry for your loss....Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Tomie Guidroz
January 15, 2013
I an so sorry for your loss. David was a very good friend. He will be greatly missed. He and I knew each other from high school. I was at St Scholastica when he was at St Paul's. Your family is in my prayers.
susan Fortener
January 15, 2013
This story pierced my heart Sarah, I am so very sorry. As Christians we are family and I join with you in prayer for strength and peace knowing he has a sovereign plan. You are right, they are in God's loving arms - and so are you. You will be in our family's prayers as you continue this journey - you are not alone, he carries you.
Morgan Eriksen
January 15, 2013
My thoughts continually turn towards your family in this time of unbearable pain and I am reminded to pray that the God of Peace would fill you with the fulness of Himself. As a mom of young boys who also love adventure and hiking, I am deeply moved by your loss. I do not know you, but I want you to know that there are MANY people who are lifting you up in prayer all across the United States.
Carol Boyster
January 15, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss, I will be Praying for your Family.
Anderson and Kathleen
January 15, 2013
Sarah - We're praying for you and your family during this incredibly difficult time.
Ramon Perez
January 15, 2013
The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God.
Keelie Shrader
January 15, 2013
Prayers for all of you from AHG Troop KS0252. May your faith in our Father's love hold you up during this time.
Gregory Palermo
January 15, 2013
My deepest condolences to your family for your loss. Dave was a great man and a great father who really loved his children. The Palermo Family is with you grieving your loss. If there is anything we can do for your family, we are here for you. GREG, BEATA, KAROLINA PALERMO
Ken S.
January 15, 2013
Our family's condolences go out to your families. I was fortunate to work with Dave in Germany and to call him a friend and teammate. May God bless you and grant you the strength to withstand your heartbreaking loss. Our family is praying for you.
Justin Johns
January 15, 2013
Dave was a great friend and colleague, as well as a brilliant and fun loving family man. The family will remain in our hearts and prayers. None of us will ever understand these tragedies. God bless!
Darrin Hamlin
January 15, 2013
My deepest sympathy for your loss. You have my thoughts and prayers.
Marsha Unsell
January 15, 2013
Prayers for peace and strength for you at this time of sadness. You and your family have touched hundreds of lives.
Marsha (Annette's sister)
January 15, 2013
My deepest sympathy to you, Sarah, and your children. I cannot imagine how confusing and painful this must be, but rejoice that you have the Lord as your anchor. I pray that He will continue to comfort and strengthen you. God bless you and keep you close to Him. Mary Ferrell
HRM
January 15, 2013
"Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again, and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy." - John 16:22
Sarah, your expression of faith is a "city on a hill" in this dark world (Matthew 5:14). Heaven is our home, because Jesus is our Savior...your boys and husband knew that. They have received "the goal of their faith...the salvation of their souls." (I Peter 1:9). While there are no answers that make sense in this world, may God give you peace and comfort knowing that your loved ones have peace in the next... God give you and your children strength, knowing that you WILL see them again. Your testimony to Christ is inspiring. Much love....
Joy Underwood
January 15, 2013
Heart is heavy as I pray for you all. Sarah, you were always one of those women I highly admired back in Germany. May God's peace surround you and your children.
January 15, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the family.
Steve Jones Brett O'Dor
January 15, 2013
Our hearts are sadden for your loss and our Prayers are with you during this time of Sorrow
January 15, 2013
I keep up with Missouri news since I`m from St.Louis and was so saddened to read of your losses...Our thoughts and prayers are with you,as is God...Sincerely,Mr.and Mrs.Edward Marchiselli,Clearwater,Florida
julie michel
January 15, 2013
From the Michel family to the Decareaux and Hartrum families: We send love and support and friendship and peace to all~
Ronna Raymond
January 15, 2013
I'm a den mom, single mother of three, and I want you to know my heart goes out to you. While there are no words to express my deep sympathy, I'm sending you a big hug and lots of prayers. Be strong, be faithful, be surrounded with love and comfort from all of us who don't know you, but love you and care.
Mary Colleen Hartrum Heck
January 15, 2013
My heart and soul are full of Love and Prayers for God's Blessings and Strength for you, my sweet niece Sarah, Kate, Finn and Elise. And Prayers are for your beautiful loving husband, Dave and baby boys, Dom and Grant to be ever Comforted in the bosom of Heaven. With Love Always. Aunt Mary Colleen
Eric
January 15, 2013
I don't know of any words that could bring comfort, but my family and I will turn to our Father in heaven, asking that he holds you and your family tightly, providing the peace that can only come from Him.
Cindy Vogt
January 15, 2013
No language exists to describe the depth of pain and sorrow we all share for these beautiful lives lost...I can only pray with my heart... for Sarah and the family.... for David, Doninic, and Grant... may God wrap His arms around in comfort and the knowing of His love ... as the world weeps with you. My deepest sympathys, God Bless
Elaine Pontious
January 15, 2013
Our deepest, heartfelt sympathy to you and the Decareaux family. We cannot imagine the depth of your loss. Wishing you comfort and strength in the days and months to come.
debbie kleindorf
January 15, 2013
The Kleindorf family sends their prayers to you and your family.
Diane Willer
January 15, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. I met David a few times when he was young and am friends with his aunt and uncle, Bob and Chris Casale. I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Diane Willer
January 15, 2013
Words cannot express my sadness for you and your family. You don't know me. I am in St. Louis and read this in the paper. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss of your husband and your two beautfiful boys. May God give you the strength to pull you through this terrible tragedy and may your love for your boys live in your heart forever. Know that I will be praying for you and your family. God bless you. Susan Crawford
Elizabeth Adams-Leary
January 15, 2013
We are a family of 6 children, and we can't imagine your loss. Our prayers and condolences are with you. Just know your sons and husband are walking with God now. The Adams-Leary family in Anderson Creek N.C.
Smith
January 15, 2013
The town of Covington LA and the class of 1994 from The St. Paul's school are deeply saddened.
Mary Osia
January 15, 2013
Although I do not know the family, I am truely heartbroken and want to express my sympathy. God has taken three more angels under his wing. God will watch over his remaining angels on earth. My prayers are with you.
Steve Tschannen
January 15, 2013
Such a tragedy for this family. My heart breaks for his wife and my wife and I will remember you all in our prayers.
Gary and Diane
January 15, 2013
Our prayers go out to you and your family. God will see you through this tragedy.
Bob Foss
January 15, 2013
God Be with you
Jack & Mary Ann Josar
January 15, 2013
We are very sorry for your loss. Thank God for your faith in Jesus Christ.
Hugs to you dear ones.
Joelle
January 15, 2013
Words fail to express my sympathy for your family at this time. You are in my prayers. Bear too, as I know from personal experience how deeply animal family members mourn. Hugs to you all.
Gwen and Rich Abruzere
January 15, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to the family as they experience an unbelievable loss. May your wonderful memories and friends get you through.
Damon Abruzere
January 15, 2013
Words really can't describe what people are feeling right now. Dave was a great man, father and husband. Dominic and Grant were outstanding children with an entire life ahead of them. The Abruzere Family sends our Love, Prayers and Condolences to Sarah and the rest of the family. This is another example of how fragile our lives are. God Bless.
Ed, Sheila, Karla & Tim Wheeler
January 15, 2013
The entire Wheeler family that now includes four granchildren will say many prayers for you, as this is such a tradegy, and loss of life of your young sons and husband is just extremely hard to believe. Again, our prayers go out for you and the rest of your family, and we hope that you CAN stay strong during this terrible time.
Natasha Ally
January 15, 2013
My heart is with you - may your husband and two boys rest in peace...What God has willed will always be...God Gives and takes...May God give you strength and patience to pass through this very trying time...you don't know us but our hearts, prayers and thoughts are with you
Lynda Willoughby
January 15, 2013
Sarah, our prayers go out to you and your family. We know your faith will see you through all this, and one day you will see them again.
In Christ,
Sam,Lynda, Elizabeth, Alexandria, Samuel, and Josephine Willoughby
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