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Joan Detmer Obituary

Detmer, Joan Lee (Kleeman), 81, went home to be with the Lord Tuesday, August 20, 2013. Joan was a devoted wife of the late Carl Detmer for 51 wonderful years. She is the mother of 4 children Barbara Mills, Carl (Margaret Anne) Detmer, Laura Detmer, Gary (Karen) Detmer; loving grandmother to Daniel Mills, Derek (Page) Mills, Kyle, Cara, Katie, and Grant Detmer; great grandmother to April and Dean Mills; sister of Ken (Connie) Kleeman; beloved sister in law, aunt, cousin, and dear friend to many. Joan was privileged to be a homemaker and loved being home while raising her 4 children. She taught Sunday school, volunteered at Kingdom House, and was active in Ruth Circle at St. Marks United Methodist Church. She was also an active member of Beta Sigma Phi for 40 years, where she fostered many friendships while serving her community. Joan was an avid sports enthusiast which created a special bond with her grand children. During her retirement years she enjoyed spending the summer months in Colorado with family and friends. Joan was a very caring and tender hearted person. Her greatest joy in life was being with family and she worked hard instilling strong family values. We will always love and admire her, and she will be greatly missed. Services: Visitation 3:00-8:00pm Friday, August 23 at HUTCHENS Mortuary, 675 Graham Rd. Florissant, Mo. Funeral will be 10:30am Saturday, August 24 at St. Mark's United Methodist Church, 315 Graham Rd. Florissant, Mo. Interment St. John's Mantels Cemetery Union, MO. Memorials may be sent to St. Mark's United Methodist Church, or Kingdom House. Online guestbook at www.hutchensmortuary.com

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Aug. 22, 2013.

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September 12, 2013

Laura,

So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Carrie and Steve Mitchell

August 23, 2013

•Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Norbert and family

August 23, 2013

To the Detmer family. Joan and Carl both left a wonderful legacy to both family and friends. We are saddened to hear of Joan's passing. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
With love, Pete and Carolyn Waldo

August 22, 2013

Barb, Carl Jr, Laura & Gary, I was so sorry to hear of your Mothers passing. She was a great person and a wonderful mother. I feel blessed to have known her as I did. May the Lord comfort you at this sad time and may her memory strengthen you in your lives ahead.
Love & Prayers,
Aunt Mary

Diana and Tom Huling

August 22, 2013

Detmer Family,

Very sorry for all of our loss of an amazing and wonderful human being. We are grateful to her for making you who you are. A good day for Heaven for sure. Wishing you all the peace and comfort you deserve during this challenging time. We are here for you.

Mark McAlevey

August 22, 2013

Laura, So sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Mark

Rene Smith

August 22, 2013

Dear Barbara, Laura & Gary: I was so sorry to hear about the death of your mother. I feel blessed to have known her. She was a gentle, quiet soul who will be missed in our lives. Rene & Mike Smith Caitlin Adam Luke Nick

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