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Joan M. Onder

1937 - 2025

Joan M. Onder obituary, 1937-2025, Saint Louis, MO

BORN

1937

DIED

2025

Joan Onder Obituary

Onder, Joan M. (nee Grimm)

July 15, 1937 - April 8, 2025

Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church Tuesday, April 8, 2025.

Beloved wife of Robert Onder Sr.; loving mother of Robert "Bob" (Allison) Onder Jr., James (Kayla) Onder and Sandra (Brian) Sieck; adoring grandmother of 15 and great-grandmother of 3; dear sister of the late Herman Grimm and Arlene Crouther. Our dearest aunt, great-aunt, cousin and friend to many.

Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Assumption Catholic Church 4725 Mattise Rd. 63128 on Saturday, April 12 at 10:00 am. Interment at Resurrection Cemetery.
Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Apr. 11, 2025.

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Nick Ferrara

April 12, 2025

My sincere condolences and deepest sympathies to the Onder family. May you be comforted knowing today and forever, your Mother rests with the Lord.

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