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John Grigaitis Obituary

Grigaitis Jr., John J. fortified with the sacraments of Holy Mother Church left this world on October 28, 2011, 88years and 1-day after entering it. His beautiful bride of 64-years, Shirlene (nee Marlotte), as well as many of his 10 children were at his side in his home when he went peacefully; father of Gina, Stephen (Helen), Michael (Mary Jo), John (Marla), Rick (Heidi), David (Shelly), Gregg (Sharon), Christina (Gery), Kimberly (David), Jennifer (Brent); grandfather of 29; great-grandfather of 3. Preceded in death by father John, mother Helen (Bubnis); brother of William and the late Edward and Bertha; brother-in-law, uncle, cousin and friend. Graduate of St. John the Baptist Class of 1941. Served in WWII in the Pacific Theater. Jr. Football League coach for many years. Retiree from Southwestern Bell. He was a wonderful man who lived and worked for his family. Above all else, he was most proud of his wife and every one of his children and grandchildren. Services: Funeral from KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravois Wed. Nov. 2, 9:30 AM to Our Lady of Providence Catholic Church for 10:00 AM mass. Interment National Cemetery. Masses or contributions to Propagation of the Faith or Our Lady of Providence Building Fund. Visitation Tuesday 4-8 PM.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Oct. 31 to Nov. 1, 2011.

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Annie Baker-Groves

November 3, 2011

Michael, MaryJo and Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. I wish I had known earlier so we could have attended the service. We will keep you all in our prayers

With Deepest Sympathy,

Herman & Annie Baker Groves

Elaine (Sullivan) Valentine

November 3, 2011

To the entire Grigaitis Family,

May your many memories comfort you during this sad time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Carol, Joe & Joshua McClure

November 1, 2011

Our hearts and prayers to the Grigaitis family during this time of loss. May God bless you and bring the family peace.

Rachel Sullivan

November 1, 2011

My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Terri Bippen/Kuster

October 31, 2011

Thinking about you all the way from Jefferson City. What an infectious smile Mr. Grigaitis had! Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during these difficult days. The good man he was is evident by the great children he raised and the wife he loved! Take Care!

Lou Perry

October 31, 2011

To the Grigaitis family, our thoughts and prayers go out to all family members with the loss of John (Mr. Grigaitis as I knew him growing up). I was fortunate to experience a lot of good memories growing up with the entire Grigaitis family.

Christopher Skarica

October 31, 2011

To The Grigaitis family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this, the most difficult of times. May the memories of John stay with you always.

May the Lord bless you and keep you, and bring you peace,now and forever.

With Love, Christopher Skarica

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