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February 24, 2014
Dear Dale, Tom, Auffenberg family,
Shelley mentioned that Joe had passed away. Although I did not Joe, it looks as if brought joy to the people he knew. As Joe is promoted to his "New Life" may his good memories linger in your hearts. Sending you God's grace, peace and joy during these difficult times. Warmly, Cousin Victoria MacDonald and family
Vincie Soyars
February 24, 2014
I have considered The Auffenberg Family to be my second family for pretty much my entire life. Well,since I was in kindergarten. I can't tell you the memories I have of Joe and Anne and Chris driving us all around town. Sometimes Jamie and Tom would hall us around town as well. I learned from Joe that everyone has the compassion for love and everyone deserves to receive it as well. I remember many conversations with Mrs. Auffenberg about the choices she made with her children. I can't tell you how Joe was such a bright spot to his parents. The three of them later in life were inseparable. They were not just family but they truly loved eachothers company. When my Dad died Mr. Auffenberg made sure I knew he was there in his quiet way. The number of trips and family time I have spent with all the Auffenbergs and especially Anne and Joe. My 17 year old daughter,Eliza has a best friend Hayley and her sister Chloe who has Downs has taught Eliza so much. Just like I learned from Anne and her family how to include all people with needs into my life. Eliza wants to be a Special Needs teacher and works with the Special Olympics and The Best Buddy Program here. I think Joe would have loved talking to Eliza about all she has learned. He would have taught her more than she could learn in school. I am just realizing how much we have lost! I have been home with flu and surviving cancer. I love you all as if we are family and that will be forever.
Vincie Rehme Soyars
Jennifer Jones
February 20, 2014
I knew Joe because he was my neighbor. I very often saw him walking in front of my house and around my neighborhood, and it always brought a smile to my face to see him. We would often say hello and sometimes he'd stop to watch my kids or pet my dog. The most memorable conversation was one day when he joined me as I was walking my dog and as we walked together, he told me a long story about his mother and a party the family had had for her(maybe a birthday party). He told it in such a caring way that I could tell how important his family was to him. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Dennis & Mary Beth Becker
February 20, 2014
Jamie & Ellen, and Auffenberg family, We are so sorry to hear of your tragic loss of your brother, Joe. May he find eternal peace in the arms of the Angels in Heaven. May you all be comforted with God's PEACE.
Debbie Gilbert Genung
February 20, 2014
To Joe's siblings,
My mom was Liz Gilbert who worked for years at SLARC. She & Joe had a mutual admiration society going. I saw Joe at lots of SLARC events. What a guy! I know he loved my mom and it was wonderful to see him at mom's funeral. My heart breaks for you all and you are in my prayers.
Lucy Wilmering Fink
February 20, 2014
Auffenberg Family-
I am so sorry to hear that you lost Joe. Six years ago, God blessed us with a vivacious little girl with special needs. She reminds me a lot of Joe. She was singing her heart out at Mass this weekend, and it made me smile as I thought back to being in the pew next to him at Mass at Immacolata. He was always there. I can only hope that world will embrace her the way they did Joe and that her life can be as full as his. He was truly loved by so many people.
You are in my family's thoughts and prayers-
sharon Murphy
February 19, 2014
So sorry for the Auffenberg Family You are in my Prays.
Jamie Gehrin
February 17, 2014
I supported Joe through St Louis ARC for almost a year in 2008/2009. He was always a pleasure to work with and I enjoyed my time getting to know him and his family. I would pick him up from day program and spend the evening with him. We watched old TV shows and he always wanted to eat at Miss Sherry's cafe or a Chinese restaurant near his house. I also enjoyed taking him bowling on Saturday mornings! He and his entire team were really impressive! We went to every event held by the ARC as well as other events like Taste of St Louis. I had not seen Joe for several years but I never have and never will forget him! Thoughts and prayers for Joe and the whole Auffenberg family. Joe will be missed by many! I am lucky to have gotten to work with him.
February 17, 2014
Jamie and Ellen, I am so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my daily thoughts and prayers. God Bless!
Peg Belaska
February 16, 2014
I worked with Joe at the Alzheimer's Association. He was a joy to work with and so funny. We shared a love for the Cardinals even enjoying a game together once. I am deeply sorry for the entire Auffenberg family and will keep you in my prayers.
Maria Mueller Alexander
February 16, 2014
The Mayor of Berkshire has most likely taken over as the Mayor of Heaven! Growing up in Berkshire with Joe was an adventure, an honor and a privilege! Joe had a big, beautiful smile, a kind & loving heart & his laughter was infectious. He was never one to hold back on giving his opinion nor on providing unsolicited words of advice. I was never fond of having to walk the dog but always enjoyed it when Joe was either peddling along beside me on his bike or walking with me! I was fortunate to not only have grown up with Joe but to have been his friend! Joe's departure from this world is tragic and he left this world too early but I can promise you this .... he may be gone but he will never be forgotten! You are all in my thoughts and prayers!
Timothy O. Schranck
February 15, 2014
Thinking very much of you, your family, and your friends today, Joe. So sorry that I could not make it back to St. Louis for your service. I have such fond memories of you in Berkshire, at Immmacolata events and all of my family's special celebrations at home. Thanks for being our friend, Joe. God Bless.
The Saleeby Family
February 15, 2014
Joe always had a kind word for all when he saw them and about them when he would speak of them. Ironically, Joe became close to my mother, and consequently our family, because my mom would always pick him up when she saw him walking or drive him home from events when she would see him. We are very saddened by his passing and wish to offer the Auffenberg family our deepest condolences.
Helen Petropoulos
February 15, 2014
These messages are such a tribute to a life well-lived... touching the lives of others with joy and humor and kindness! Bless you, Joe! My sympathy to the family and all who who mourn his loss.
Angela Woods
February 15, 2014
Joe was a kind-hearted man with a zest for life. He will be greatly missed by many people. I hope that his family and friends find peace during this time. I'll never forget you, Joe.
Joe Nonnenkamp
February 14, 2014
I remember meeting Uncle Joe at a baseball game. He was a great man, and always brought joy wherever he went. I am so sorry for your loss, and will be praying for the family.
Mary Beth Fox
February 14, 2014
I am very sorry for your loss. Happy memories of carpooling to Villa with Joe along for the ride. You are all in my thoughts and prayers
Steve & Jeanette Schranz
February 14, 2014
Jamie and Ellen,
Our sympathies and prayers for you and your family. What a loss. Joe sounds like a treasure, a one of a kind, great guy.
Wendell Garrison
February 14, 2014
Jamie and Ellen, Mary and I were planning to come for visitation today, but the weather has changed our minds. But we want you to know you all are in our hearts and prayers. We love you.
Kathi Taylor
February 14, 2014
Tom, so very sorry for your loss.
Bob & Liz Fitzgerald
February 14, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of the loss of your wonderful brother, Joe. Sending our deepest sympathy and caring.
Jake Naughton
February 14, 2014
To the Auffenberg Family
So sorry for the loss of Joe. When Joe was in your presence, you couldn't help but have a smile of your face. He always made me laugh as we compared episodes of The Three Stooges and talk about Cardinal baseball.
You are in my prayers and will sadly missed.
Julie Hogan Hutson
February 14, 2014
To the Auffenberg Family,
My sympathies to the Auffenberg family. I am so sorry to hear of Joes' tragic death. Joe put a smile on my face every time I saw him. He would always say something that made you laugh. A gentle loving soul. My mom and I were sharing memories and he once told her “If you don't lose weight you will never find another husband, so you better get busy” It made us smile again. I am so lucky to live in Berkshire and be part of Joe's life. Thanks Joe for being such a great person. The Hogan's love you!!
Julie Hogan Hutson
Dealer Tire
February 14, 2014
Our sincere condolences at the loss of your brother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this tough time.
Bob Fox
February 14, 2014
What a beautiful written summary of Joe and his life. Whenever he met anyone, it was with a smile and a hello. There was never a stranger to him. Joe always made me feel welcomed. Joe will be missed, but he will also be remembered. He is in many people's thoughts and prayers, mine included.
Brenda Kopp
February 13, 2014
Sending my sincere sympathy to the Auffenberg family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Joe Mueller
February 13, 2014
Growing up, Sunday's meant two things. Watching football and having popcorn and Root Beer's with Joe. Joe was the Mayor of Berskhire; a truly wonderful person who will be deeply missed.
February 13, 2014
We will miss Joe and his smile at Homewood.
He was a beautiful, gentle soul.
Vicky and Bud Floor
February 13, 2014
To the Auffenberg family,
I am deeply saddened by your loss of Joe. He was always so high spirited and caring. My sincere condolences to the entire family.
Amy Howe
Vicki Amsinger
February 13, 2014
Dear Auffenberg Family, I am so sorry for the loss of one of the best guys ever, Joe. Joe was such a beacon in all of our lives-how could you see that smile and not believe that the day would be good? Thank you, Joe, for all the joy , well-wishes, and just plain-old friendship that you offered so freely to all of us. I miss you and will always keep you in my thoughts.
February 13, 2014
Joe will always be remembered at the St. Louis Arc. Sonja Preston
Sonja Preston
February 13, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with the Auffenberg family. I will always remember Joe and his smile. He was such a kind, gentle, and caring man. He participated in several Leisure programs at the St. Louis Arc. We will cherish the memories and good times that we shared with "Joe".
February 13, 2014
Dear Auffenberg Family,
Prayers to you all. Joe was awesome. I was just talking about Joe to my kids over this past Christmas season, how wonderful a person Joe was, wonderful memories .
God Bless -
Julie Kriegshauser Bilquist
Joe Bova
February 13, 2014
Our deepest condolences to his family and friends who knew him well. We had the pleasure of meeting Joe at the yearly St Louis Arc Texas Holdem tournament. He was a great person, served his community and represented members of the St Louis ARC. We are deeply saddened by this devastating tragedy.
Joe, Rena & Nick Bova of St Louis Mo.
Susan Berg
February 13, 2014
Although I did not know Joe, two of my friends on opposite coast knew him well.
Thank you Joe, for giving hope to us parents and our children, such as my son Carter, for such a well lived life with purpose and serving others.
My thoughts and prayers are with your loved ones.
Mary Wasserman
February 13, 2014
Our sincere condolences to the entire Auffenberg family. We are among the many lifted by Joe's humor, wit, wisdom and joy for living. His memory is a blessing.
Mary, Michael and Al Wasserman
February 13, 2014
Joe was well loved in Berkshire. Loved to chit-chat with everyone on his walks. On behalf of the McGauley Family, we will keep Joe in our prayers.
Joe McGauley
James Murphy
February 13, 2014
Jamie,Tom, Chris and Auffenberg family, I was stunned to learn about Joe's tragic death. The Murphy family has fond memories of Joe from the days we lived in Berkshire.
I will always remember Joe wearing his Batman cape. The neighborhood, indeed, had a super-hero.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Michele Lorenz
February 13, 2014
I ran Joe's bowling league through ARC for many many years. He was such a delight... so sorry for the loss of such a great guy....
Timothy Payne
February 13, 2014
My deepest sympathy on Joe's passing. He was perhaps the happiest person I ever met.
Tom & Meg Maher
February 13, 2014
I first new Joe when he was just past Toddler stage. All of what was written in the obit was evident at that time. What a special person and what great care he received from the Auffenberg family.
Our deepest condolences to all.
Scott Risley
February 12, 2014
I bowled with Joe on Saturday mornings, he was a very nice person to talk with, and I enjoyed his company a lot. He will be in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathy to the Auffenberg family.
John McNamara
February 12, 2014
To the Auffenberg Family,
Growing up in Berkshire we were very fortunate to know Joe from his early years. Walking the neighborhood, listening to KMOX and sharing his big heart, kind words and always a great smile full of love is my memory of Joe. I'm a better person for knowing Joe. God only takes the best. john McNamara
Marian Love
February 12, 2014
Dear Auffenberg family, please accept my sincere sadness,sympathy, and prayers for the loss of your beloved Joe. I did not know him, only of him through his brother Tom who spoke of him with great admiration and love. You all are in my prayers. Marian Love
Jack Davenport
February 12, 2014
God bless you Joe you were an awesome guy I know that you are in peace now watching above us up there in heaven RIP Joe you will be extremely missed
Nancy Auffenberg Rosenthal
February 12, 2014
Joe was an amazing gift to all who knew him.. a gift of joy, empathy, happiness and love. I am heart broken by this tragedy, but at peace knowing he will carry on his mission of bringing joy to others in heaven and be reunited with his loving parents. Blessings to Joe.
Korie Harris
February 12, 2014
Dear Auffenberg family, I wanted to express my sincerest condolences at the loss of Joseph. Although I did not know him well he visited our restaurant and was a pleasure to serve and get to know. He will be truly missed and always remembered.
Ann Dames
February 12, 2014
When my friend M.J. & I were having lunch at the Kaffe House we enjoyed visits with Joe when he would visit our table. He always brightened our day. Thank you, Joe, & God Bless. Annie Bardenheier Dames
sheri shapiro
February 12, 2014
dear auffenberg family~i am so very sorry to hear about your brother and uncle...i know what a fine man he was with such a great heart who was loved by so many...please know you are in our thoughts and prayers...with deepest sympathy and love, the shapiro family
Ashley Clark
February 12, 2014
To the Auffenberg family I don't really know how to put my words together so I'll just say this Joe had a special place in my heart, he had a heart of a(n) angel. I will never ever forget him..... truly a(n) awesome human being. I do believe God let me have the opportunity to work with Joe to be a light in my life...Joe always sang this song at karaoke.... you raised me up... I will always remember you Joe.
Donald, Amy, Katie and Molly MacDonald
February 11, 2014
Our prayers are with the whole family during this very difficult time. Joe was such a great influence and good friend to so many! We will miss him dearly.
We have been blessed to know and love him.
Zack and Audrey Schmook
February 11, 2014
Joe was such a sweet, honest, and funny guy. He was truly one of a kind, and he will be missed.
Sarah Bruehl
February 11, 2014
Joe was my weekly walking buddy last summer with the St. Louis ARC. I was so looking forward to seeing him again. I am grateful for having known him and will miss his friendly face.
Joyce Cammon
February 11, 2014
Tom & Dale and the Auffenberg family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. We were so sorry to hear of your loss.
---The Cammon family
Moe and Karen Brinker
February 11, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Auffenberg family. Joe was a wonderful guy and will be greatly missed.
February 11, 2014
I am grateful to have known Joe and the Auffenberg family. He fought the good fight and brought us alot of joy. May he now be in glory for all times. Peace and comfort,
Paul & Linda Lamberton Kraus
February 11, 2014
Joe was without a doubt one of the most lovable people I have had the pleasure of knowing through life. He had an abundant heart and he shared his smile with friends and strangers alike.....You will be missed terribly and I can't even imagine special occasions and birthdays without a card from Joe. It was only a week ago that my Mother received his Valentines Day card (and she got his Christmas and Birthday cards too). You leave this world having made it a much better place, and for that we all thank you. Enjoy your heavenly reward....it is well deserved !!
Christopher MacDonald and the MacDonald Family
February 11, 2014
I had the honorable pleasure of working with Joe at the Arc and also bring friends outside of work. He bowled with my Uncle, Daniel Liebig, and every Saturday when I went to watch the boys bowl, Joe put the biggest smile on my face. Joe was a predictable person in my life which brought me great comfort. I enjoyed coming into work every morning to see which plaid shirt Joe chose for the day and he would get so excited when he could buckle his belt a little tighter over time. He was a Hallmark person in my life and in many other's lives. Please know my family and I are praying and thinking of the family all the time and will see you Saturday. Audrey Roos, Karen Roos, and Chip Roos
Trent and Darla Porter
February 11, 2014
Tom & Dale, we can only imagine how painful it must be to lose your brother, he must have been a wonderful guy! So glad that you have the peace of knowing that he is in heaven and reunited with your parents. That's a wonderful picture of grace. We pray for God's comfort for you and that those wonderful memories will flood your hearts and minds and give you a special joy in this time of sorrow.
February 11, 2014
Heartbroken to hear of Joe's passing. I enjoyed working with Joe at Arc… but it was always a great day when I ran into Joe around Kirkwood. He will be missed. Sending our condolences to the many who loved Joe and all those whose lives he touched… including ours. The Stewart Family
Chris and Tammy Butano
February 11, 2014
Chris & Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss, you will all be in our thoughts and prayer.
Tim Rhame
February 10, 2014
Joe was a great person who never met a stranger and was not afraid to voice his opinion on any topic. I will remember his knowledge of the Cardinals and many other statistics of sports. My heart goes out to the Auffenberg family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers and it was a privellage to know Joe.
Best Regards,
Tim and Amy Rhame
Cyndi Woollard
February 10, 2014
Joe was one of a kind! He will be greatly missed.
bill and nancy reed
February 10, 2014
Tom and Dale
Please accept our sympathy and prayers for Jo and your family.
Bill and Nancy Reed
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