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Mary Castaldi Obituary

Castaldi, Mary R.

Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church, on Tuesday, May 16th, 2023. Beloved daughter of the late Anthony and Mary Castaldi; loving sister of Patricia (the late Obert) Cotham, Anthony "Tony" Castaldi, Christine (the late John) Volker, Concetta (William) Risk, Deborah (the late Dale) Kaikkonen, and Linda Castaldi; our dear sister-in-law, aunt, great-aunt, and friend to many. She was preceded in death by her brothers, John, Donald, and Joseph Castaldi, and her sisters, Arlene and Gloria Castaldi. Mary was a civil servant of the City of St. Louis for 48 years.

Services: Funeral from Kutis Affton Chapel, (10151 Gravois Rd), Thursday, May 25th 9:15 a.m. to St. Francis de Sales (2653 Ohio Ave.) for 10 a.m. Mass. Interment at Mt. Hope Cemetery. Visitation Wednesday 3:00-8:00 p.m.


Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on May 22, 2023.

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Janice Fairless

May 16, 2024

Mary just drove past your old flat and thought about you...can't believe you have been gone a year. Your passing made me fuel my retirement as we never know God's plan for us. We never got that last lunch we talked about but know you were loved and well respected. Many of your old firefighter friends have expressed grief and shock over your passing.

Kathy Doerr

May 25, 2023

Mary and I worked together for 45 years. She was the best. I remember once she won an award for Employee of the Year, and in my opinion, she deserved the award every year. She was a beautiful soul, through and through. I miss her. I pray for Mary and for her family. May they have peace of mind for their wonderful lady.

Beth Seright

May 23, 2023

Mary was so very kind and so helpful when I was retiring. She was always pleasant, patient and so knowledgeable at her job. She will truly be missed. My condolences to the Castaldi family.

Kathryn Woodard

May 22, 2023

Mary was so helpful to me upon my retirement. She exemplified what it meant to be a Civil Servant in the City of St. Louis. My prayers go out to her family and friends.

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24

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3:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

MO

May

25

Funeral

9:15 a.m.

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, Affton Chapel

10151 Gravois Road, Saint Louis, MO 63123

May

25

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

St. Francis de Sales

2653 Ohio Ave., MO

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10151 Gravois Road, Saint Louis, MO 63123

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