Search by Name

Search by Name

Matthew, Mary Jo and Taylor Rose Trokey

1984 - 2018

Matthew, Mary Jo and Taylor Rose Trokey obituary, 1984-2018, St. Louis, MO

BORN

1984

DIED

2018

FUNERAL HOME

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, South County Chapel

5255 Lemay Ferry Road

Saint Louis, Missouri

Matthew, Trokey Obituary

Trokey, Matthew, Mary Jo and Taylor Rose Matthew, his beloved daughter Taylor Rose and wife Mary Jo (nee Ryan) began their eternal life together with God on Friday, February 2nd, 2018. Matthew, born September 22, 1984, is survived by parents, Jim and Kathy; sister Kimberly (Collin) Bowers; brother Brian; grandfather Charles (Dorothy) Trokey; nieces Jilly and Josie, and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Mary Jo, born March 15, 1985, is survived by mother Polly; father Frank Fick; brother Jeremy. Service: Funeral Mass at Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque on Wednesday, February 7 at 11am. Burial will follow at Park Lawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the American Red Cross. Matt was an avid donor and supporter. A KUTIS SOUTH COUNTY SERVICE.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Feb. 6, 2018.

Memories and Condolences
for Matthew, Trokey

Not sure what to say?





Jennifer Derner

February 10, 2018

Polly and family, no words will ease your pain but may the grace of God and the love of family and friends hold you up during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss. Peace to you in the days ahead.

February 9, 2018

R. I. P.

February 9, 2018

Jim and Kathy, I am so sad about what happened. I can't imagine your pain. Please know I am thinking of you both and wish you peace through this sad time. Deb Hedrick Molitor

David & Karyn Warburton (nee Liddy)

February 9, 2018

Our deepest sympathy to the Trokey & Faulstich Families.
May their gentle souls rest in peace, Amen.

February 8, 2018

May the God of comfort grant you strength during this difficult time. My condolences to the family.

Mary Guntli

February 8, 2018

Both families will remain in our prayers forever as this tragic loss is inconceivable to all. The Mary Jo I knew from work years ago will be the one in my heart forever.

Pat Godfrey

February 7, 2018

Kathy, I am so sorry for your losses. My heart hurts for all of you. My prayer is that God will soon replace the pain with peace.

February 7, 2018

I want to express all my love and prayers to you, Polly and Frank. Matt, Mary Jo and Taylor
Rose are with our loving God and He is taking care of them. They are being renewed by Him.

Lynette La Hay

Jerry & Anna Geen

February 7, 2018

Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to the Trokey family. We'll keep you in our prayers for your tremendous loss. God bless you and your family.

Kelly Saggio

February 7, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the families. May God's mercy and love be with you, and may he comfort your hearts always. You are in my daily prayers.

February 7, 2018

May God be with the family during this difficult time. I am deeply saddened to hear of your great loss and will continue to pray for all of you. - St. Louis Resident

Terrie Valleroy

February 7, 2018

Kathy and Family
There are no words to express how sadden I am to hear of your loss... I pray for comfort for all of you and know that GOD will forever watch over you.

Ben Miller

February 7, 2018

Condolences to both families. I knew Matt from high school at Vianney (Class of 03) and he was a good guy. Praying for his, his wife's, and their little girl's eternal peace.

Kyle Donley

February 7, 2018

Jim, Kathy, Kimber & Brian -- I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. From being at your house so much growing up, I'll always remember Matt being a great guy who was always kind and respectful to us younger kids and a great role model to Brian. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

George Kloster

February 7, 2018

Very sad to hear this news. Didn't know Matt all that well. We ran with some of the same people in high school and college. I never experienced a moment with him where he wasn't having a good time, smiling, and laughing. Always the nicest guy. My condolences to both families.

Maty Radil Bottini

February 7, 2018

We send our love and condolences to the Faulschish / Fick family. Remembering this Young Trokey family in our Prayers. RIP
The Radil-Bottini Families

Steve Kaspar

February 7, 2018

Jim and Kathy, so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and both family's at this most difficult time.

Michael F. Godfrey, Jr.

February 6, 2018

The family of Michael F. Godfrey, Jr. extends their deepest sympathies to the Trokey and Fick families at this time. May God be with each of you, and comfort and strengthen you during this incredibly difficult time. You are all in our prayers.

Sincerely,
Michael F. and Madonna (Meyer) Godfrey

Lina Chavez-Hauser

February 6, 2018

Frank and Polly, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that you have peace during this extremely difficult time.

February 6, 2018

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

February 6, 2018

We are heartbroken. You are forever in our hearts. You will NEVER be forgotten. Fly high and take care of our baby girl until we join you. Taylor girl, you have the best daddy and he loves you so much. We will miss you all and love you. Dan and Laura

Kathleen O'Bryan

February 6, 2018

Keeping your family in my prayers during this time of unimaginable loss.

Joyce Johnson

February 6, 2018

I am so heartbroken for this young family. I pray God shows his grace and mercy on the remaining family members.

The Bibas Family

February 6, 2018

Jim, Kathy and family, We are so very sorry for your loss! They will always live on in your hearts and memories! Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

Laura Goez

February 6, 2018

I knew Matt from high school. He was an amazing person! He was happy all the time and very nice! I'm sorry for the loss for Matt, Mary Jo and their new daughter. May they all be safe in God's hands! Rest In Peace

Sue Kennedy

February 6, 2018

Dear Kathy and Jim,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I am so very sorry for your loss and I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. With Deepest Sympathy, Sue (Lengyel) Kennedy

Steve Kaspar

February 6, 2018

Jim and Kathy, So sorry for your loss.I will be praying for you and your family thru this difficult time.

February 6, 2018

I am heartbroken for the immediate family and friends of this beautiful couple. I cannot begin to imagine the intensity of your pain and hope that your happy memories carry you through difficult days ahead.
A St. Louis resident

Donna Seymour

February 6, 2018

There are no words to express our deepest sympathy to your families on such a tragic loss. May God continue to give you strength to ease the sorrow, pain and sadness you are feeling. Know many have you in their thoughts and prayers. Gary & Donna Seymour

February 6, 2018

a very sad day for the Trokey family stay strong and God will look over you in this time of need. Will keep you in our prayers and may peace be with you



Sincerly
Tom & Cathy Rea

Mark Feigenbutz

February 6, 2018

I can honestly say that just about every memory I have of Matt involved him smiling or laughing. I'm so sorry for everyone's loss. Rest in peace Taylor Rose, Mary Jo, and Matt.

Roseann Hughes

February 6, 2018

Saying prayers for all.

February 6, 2018

May God's love sustain you during these emotionally difficult days and all the days to follow.

My condolences to all.

February 6, 2018

Rest in the peace and love of God's arms.
What a tremendous loss.

Peace and prayers for the families.

P David

February 6, 2018

Jesus wanted to make them his special Angels
Prayers for all

Kay Williams

February 6, 2018

Words fail to express the sorrow felt at this time. May Matt, Mary Jo and Taylor Rose be united in Heaven, in peace and love. Prayers for comfort to both families, relatives and friends.

Sharon Pagano

February 6, 2018

We are so very sorry for your loss. We will keep all of you in our prayers.

February 6, 2018

Trokey family...We are so saddened to hear of your unthinkable loss. Please know that you all are in our family's thoughts and prayers.

February 6, 2018

May God bless you in this time of deep sorrow. With our heartfelt sympathy. Mike and Linda Haberberger

Ron & Judy McNeely

February 6, 2018

Gods comfort and peace. May he wrap you all in the shelter of his arms.

Kay Williams

February 6, 2018

May God comfort the families, all relatives and friends of this loving couple! Words can not express the extreme sorrow we feel! Surely they are united in Heaven, at ease and in peace!

The FTD Faithful Blessings Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

Pamela Heitz

Sent Flowers

Judy & Dave Pope

February 6, 2018

May God comfort you and may Matt, Mary Jo and Taylor Rose rest in peace. You have my heartfelt sympathy.

Natalie Collora

February 6, 2018

God Bless both families . I knew Matt in high school he was a wonderful person ! I will be keeping everyone in my thoughts and prayers .

Rosalind and Joshua (Johnson) Finch

February 6, 2018

Words cannot expresss my deepest sympathy to Mary Jo's family. I am heartbroken to hear this news and may she be free from pain in heaven.

Mary Lou Frank

February 6, 2018

God bless your families with comfort and peace.

Showing 1 - 50 of 50 results

Make a Donation
in Matthew, Trokey's name

Memorial Events
for Matthew, Trokey

Feb

7

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

Saint Margaret Mary

Alacoque, MO

Feb

7

Burial

Park Lawn Cemetery

MO

Funeral services provided by:

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, South County Chapel

5255 Lemay Ferry Road (at Butler Hill), Saint Louis, MO 63129

How to support Matthew,'s loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Matthew, Trokey's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more