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Nov. 11, 2025

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Neal Schaeffer Obituary

Schaeffer, Neal T.

Schaeffer, Neal T., 80, November 6, 2025, husband of the former Marilyn Arb and Army Reserve Veteran. Mass: 10 a.m. Wednesday., Ascension Catholic Church, Chesterfield. Visit: Schrader Funeral Home, Ballwin, Tuesday, 3-7 p.m. For more info, visit Schrader.com.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Nov. 9, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Neal Schaeffer

Nov

11

Visitation

3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory

14960 Manchester Road, Ballwin, MO 63011

Nov

12

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

Ascension Catholic Church

230 Santa Maria Drive, Chesterfield, MO 63005

Nov

12

Interment

Holy Cross Cemetery

16200 Manchester Road, Wildwood, MO 63038

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Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road, Ballwin, MO 63011

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Nancy Marshall

Yesterday

Marylin and family. I am so sorry for your loss. Neal was such a special person: always kind and caring, it was an honor to have known and worked with a man of such integrity. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Kathy Denton

November 7, 2025

Tom, your father’s light doesn’t fade — it lives on in you, in every kindness you show and every life you touch. May his memory be a steady warmth in your heart.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during the upcoming days and beyond.

Cindy/ Ascension Bereavement Ministry

November 7, 2025

Dear Marilyn and Family,

“But this I call to mind,
and therefore I have hope:

The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases,
his mercies never come to an end;
they are new every morning;
great is thy faithfulness.
“The Lord is my portion,” says my soul,
“therefore I will hope in him.”

Praying for the peace of Neal’s soul and strength in the abiding Presence of Our Savior for you and your loved ones.

Ascension Bereavement Ministry

Marie Sinnett

November 7, 2025

Rest in peace, dear friend.

Matthew Conlon

November 7, 2025

Neal was a great guy with a great sense of humor. Very sharp engineer who could work with anyone...solve problems and get the job done...all with a smile.

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