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Nicholas Aitken Obituary

Aitken, Nicholas Aaron at the age of 18, suddenly on Thursday, November 26, 2009. Beloved son of Tamara (nee Bergman) and Bart Aitken; loving brother of Ian Aitken; dear grandson of Pauline and Robert Aitken and the late Betty and Charles E. Bergman; dear Godson of Sandra Aitken and Ethan Aitken; loving nephew, great-nephew, cousin and friend of many. Nicholas had attended MICDS, Horton Watkins High School and graduated from Provo Canyon School in Provo, Utah. Nicholas enjoyed cross country running, playing the guitar, was a peer mentor at his high school, a talented artist and served as an alter boy at his church. Nicholas was bright, witty and insightful and also a very caring, sensitive and compassionate person. Services: A funeral service will be held at the Nativity of the Virgin Mary Orthodox Church, 416 Ewing Ave., at 5th Street, Madison, IL, 62060 on Monday, November 30, 2009 at 10:00 a.m. Interment Fells Cemetery, Rostraver, PA on Wednesday, December 2, 2009 at 10:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials appreciated to Families Anonymous, Inc., P.O.Box 3475, Culver City, CA 90231-3475 or to the charity of the donor's choice. The family will receive friends at LUPTON CHAPEL 7233 Delmar Blvd., University City on Sunday, November 29, 2009 from 4-8:00 p.m. with prayers for the departed (Panihida service) at 7:00 p.m.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Nov. 28, 2009.

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Rob Benn

November 27, 2016

Not a day goes by that I don't think of my old roommate Nick...(Texas) I think about how his brotherhood changed my life forever... And about how grateful I am to have my own life today. sending my most sincere love to all his family and frands today.

Cindi Aitken

August 26, 2015

Time does not heal the loss of a child, but we go on, as they would have wanted us to do.

Gratian Russell

April 12, 2010

Hey this is Gratian Russell. I went to Provo Canyon School with him and we were very good frends. If you want to give me a call my cell is 801-831-5931. I have family out there in MO and I wIll be out there this summer so we can talk if u want to. I am so sorry.

Gratian Russell

ryan bishop

March 8, 2010

hello this is Ryan BIshop, i am just one of the people that nick helped turn there life around. he lived with me out here in Arizona, he showed me that not everything in the world is going to be easy and ifyou just put some effort and put your mind to it you can achieve just about anything

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December 28, 2009

Dear Aitken Family:
Our son currently at GH and I saw their blog regarding your son. We are deeply sorry to hear of your loss! Blessings to you each and every day. God Bless!
Beth & Lenny D

Amanda Mosher

December 20, 2009

Words can not express my sympathy for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Find comfort in your memories of the precious years he was here with you.

Shelley Smith

December 17, 2009

I have just read of your precious son on the GH blog. My 18 year old son is in treatment. I am just realizing how connected all families in treatment really are, by the sadness I feel for you and your family. Please know that I am praying for your peace of mind. He sounded like a wonderful young man.

b kraft

December 17, 2009

Bart,

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your son Nicholas, our prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief.

Brad Kraft

MARY JO BUERLEN

December 16, 2009

I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. I DIDN'T KNOW NICHOLAS PERSONALLY, BUT AFTER TALKING TO HIS AUNT DONNA WHO LOVED HIM DEARLY, HE WAS ONE SPECIAL PERSON. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY.

December 16, 2009

Dear Aitken family,

You do not know me but my son is in treatment now. I read about your son in the blog and felt I needed to contact you. I will be visiting my son for workshop in a few weeks and I plan to talk about Aaron's life with him. Your precious son sounds so wonderful, he will never be forgotten.

A mom

Terree Skomsky

December 15, 2009

Bart, Tammy & Ian:
No words can comfort you through this time of loss, but just have peace knowing that heaven has gained another angel.

Mark and Ellen Jefferis

December 14, 2009

Dear Tamara, Bart and Ian,
After having just read through your many loving guest book entries, please remember that we are also part of your support team. We only knew Nick through friendship with you but know what a special person he was and we share your loss. We will continue to pray God's comfort for you all.

December 13, 2009

Dear Aitken Family,

We just heard of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Janice (Chuhran) and Skip Loraw

December 7, 2009

Robin McClanathan

December 5, 2009

Dear Tamara and Bart,
Joe and I are so sorry to hear about you loosing your son Nick. We send you our prayers that you may somehow gather the strength to get through each day one at a time.
Robin and Joe McClanathan

Jenny

December 4, 2009

Tamara, Bart and Ian,

I am so sorry for your loss he was a great young man to work with. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time of great loss.

December 3, 2009

We cannot imagine your profound loss and sadness at this time. Your family is in our prayers as you grieve and find peace.
Deepest condolences,
The Goley Family

Allison Weight

December 3, 2009

Dear Tamara, Bart and Ian

Please know we are thinking of you during this extremely difficult time.

With love and sympathy,
Allison and Doug Weight

Ira Polon

December 3, 2009

Bart,

Please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of Nicholas. Know that my and my colleagues' thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

December 3, 2009

Bart,
I'm so sorry to hear about your son. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Richard & Pat Shepherd

December 2, 2009

Bart, Tami, and Ian,
I am so sorry for the loss of Nicholas.
He will always be in our hearts. God bless each one of you.
Lisa, Jordan, and Travis

Ed Cline

December 2, 2009

Bart,Tamara and Ian,
Tamara and I are saddened to hear of your tremendous loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Joe Packee

December 2, 2009

Bart-

It was with great shock and sorrow that I learned of the death of your son. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Joe Packee

Wolfgang Ritschel

December 2, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Tom Miller

December 2, 2009

Bart,

Please accept heartfelt condolences from my family to yours. The loss of a child is something no parent should have to bear.

December 2, 2009

Tammy, Bart and Ian,

I wish for your love and faith to support you during this time of such shock and sadness.

Betty Walsh

December 1, 2009

Tamara, Bart, and Ian,
We are deeply saddened to learn of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. God bless.
Jamie and Joey Wilmsen

TODD DRAN

December 1, 2009

BART, TAMMY, IAN

I AM AT A LOSS FOR WORDS. JUST KEEP IN MIND THAT YOUR FAMILY IS BEHIND YOU.

TODD AND GRETCHEN DRAN

Kyra Petro

December 1, 2009

Dear Aitken family,

Our prayers are with you all. We send our deepest sympathy.

With Love,
Kyra Petro and Adam Zewe

Mark Morgan

December 1, 2009

Bart, Tammy & Ian,

Words fail to express our sympathy for your loss. We shall keep you in our prayers.

God Bless,
Mark, Cathy, Aaron & Caitlyn Morgan

Wynn M

December 1, 2009

I am so sorry, I knew your son and he was a loving smart and creative person. I really am grateful for the time I spent with him. I'm in treatment now and will remember him every day. Of all the people I knew back home, he was by far one of the nicest and most compassionate. I'm so, so sorry for this tragedy. I cared a lot about him and he is a big part of my motivation. Stay strong. I feel for you.

Ashwin Jain

December 1, 2009

Dear Aitken Family
I remember many of the good times shared during our many years at Forsyth together. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. May your memories bring you comfort.

-Ashwin Jain

Sheila & Ted Stegeman

December 1, 2009

Dear Tamara, Bart & Ian,

We were so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Your friends from Forsyth,

Ron Roberts

December 1, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

December 1, 2009

Dear Bart, Tammy and Ian, Please accept our deepest sympathy at the loss of your beloved son and brother, Nicholas. May his memory be eternal. With deepest sympathy, Dr. Dimitri and Pauline Petro

December 1, 2009

Tamara & Bart - we are terribly saddened to hear about Nicholas' passing. We are keeping you in our prayers during this difficult time.
The Rossi Family

Loren Hennessey

December 1, 2009

Tamara and Bart,
I am speechless, but my thoughts and feelings are overwhelming. We never expect death to come in the middle of a life, only at the end. Although God has taken Nick to be with him, he has given us an angel to watch over us. As parents, know that all of your love and worries have led to peace for Nick. Know that he is safe and free! Your "Family" will always be your strength. My love to all of you.

Tom Shearer

December 1, 2009

Bart and Tamara,
Janis and I were shocked to read of your tragic loss. I'll always remember Nicholas as a "Schwäbischer" from his early years. May God be with you in this difficult time and know that your are in our thoughts and prayers.

Diane Aitken Piot

November 30, 2009

To Bart, Tammy and Ian,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

November 30, 2009

Bart,
We are so sad to hear this news of your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
Tim, Bev and Meg Martin

Jim Kelley

November 30, 2009

Bart and Tammy,

I am stunned at your loss and know there are no words I can offer to comfort you during your intense sadness. We'll pray for your peace of mind, knowing that only God and time can heal your hearts.

Jim Kelley and family

Ken Morrow

November 30, 2009

Bart and family,

I can't imagine the pain and loss you are feeling at the tragic passing of Nicholas. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. With Faith and friends we can truly bear the unbearable. Know that Nick is with God, God is with you, and you have many, many friends.

November 30, 2009

Tamara, Bart and Ian

Our prayers are with your family during this time. We are so deeply saddened about your loss of dearest Nicholas. If there is anything we can do please ask.

Mike, Amy and Joey Lojan

Tyler, Kimberly, Taylor & Tanner Artz

November 30, 2009

Tamara, Bart & Ian,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will never forget the great times our sons had playing together. May the Lord bring strength and peace to you in this most trying time. With our deepest condolences and sympathy.

Montgomery Family

November 30, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers our with you during this time of loss. May you find comfort and strength in the memory of Nicholas and the love of your family and friends.

November 30, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
May God allow you to find peace during this difficult time and memories of Nicholas give you comfort and strength.

Hoefler Family

Michael Atkin

November 30, 2009

Dear Aitken family,

Words cannot express the sadness I feel for the loss of your son and brother. Nick was a good friend of my son, Chris and he will be missed. God bless you and be with you, now and forever.

November 30, 2009

Dear Tamara, Bart and Ian,

Our deepest condolences and sympathies to you and your family at the irreplaceable loss of your son.

We are deeply saddened and our thoughts are with you.

Preethi & Vijay & Pop UmaShanker

Sandra Ritch & Family

November 30, 2009

We are so saddened to hear about your son Nicholas. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

RINKU DESAI

November 30, 2009

May God Bless You in this difficult time.

Joel Burke

November 30, 2009

Dear Bart, Tammy and Ian,

Our deepest condolences and prayers are with you during this troubling time. May God be with your family.

Jim Davis

November 30, 2009

Dear Bart, Tamara, and Ian: My deepest sympathy to you, your family, and friends. I pray that you will be comforted during this most difficult time. (Matt 5:4)

Bill and Shannon Willhite

November 29, 2009

Bart and Tamara: We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

D Sullivan

November 29, 2009

For the short time I knew Nick he made a great impression on me as a wonderfully intelligent, funny and genuinely nice guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you, he will always have a place in my heart.

Jeff & Laura (Aitken) Siebe

November 29, 2009

Dear Bart, Tammy and Ian,

In sadness, we give our sincere condolences and deepest sympathies on your loss of Nicholas. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and family and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time.

Krystal White

November 29, 2009

Tammy, Bart, and Ian,
Although I haven't seen Nick since he was in 7th grade, I can still picture him thoughtfully sketching during our study hall. I am incredibly sorry for your family's loss.

Cheryl (Crimando) Regan

November 29, 2009

Tammy, Bart, you are in my thoughts. So very sad for you and Ian.

Shirley

November 29, 2009

Nothing can ease the pain of losing your loved at this time, but always remember the good times shared and keep in mind and heart the promise God made in the Bible of seeing your loved one again. Just as he raised Jesus he also will bring back your loved one to a perfect life on a perfect earth. May the peace that only God can give be with you at this time.

Amy Taraboletti-Shannon

November 29, 2009

Dear Tami, Bart and Ian,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. One cannot even fathom what you are going through. I wish there was a way that I could fix this for you or give you a reason why or at least find some words of wisdom that would make it easier for you to endure. I can only pray that you will find the strength to get through this and continue to live your lives the way Nicholas would want you to do. Remember that you are in our hearts and our prayers.
Love Amy, Dan and family

Joyce Ferencz-Eger

November 29, 2009

Tammy and Bart,
My prayers are with you all!
Memory Eternal!

November 29, 2009

Tamara, Bart, and Ian,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer, Steve, Sam and Ben Hahn

Marei Dran-Burnfield

November 29, 2009

Dearest Tammie, Bart & Ian:
My heart aches with sadness for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love to all of you,
Marei

Bruce & Linda Taylor

November 29, 2009

Tammy, Bart & Ian,
Words cannot express to you how heavy our hearts are for you as you release your precious Nicholas to our heavenly Father, who has received him with open loving arms & he is at rest now. Keeping you lifted before God as you journey thru this process.
In Sympathy

November 29, 2009

Dear Tamara Bart and Ian-
We cannot imagine your sorrow. Please know
that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lynn, Tim and Bergen Farthing

November 29, 2009

Nicholas is now in the HOUSE OF THE LORD, where his gentle soul, will forever rest in peace.
May the Almighty Father grant you and your family the fortitude to bear this great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Remain Blessed.

Fabian & Ibironke Onunaku

dan drahushak

November 29, 2009

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Geri Gilbertson

November 29, 2009

Dear Bart & Tammy,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I remember Nicholas as a beautiful little boy I saw at Jerri Anns in Fayetteville. You have my deepest sympathy.

Kim Nega-Pozo

November 29, 2009

To the Aitken Family May God Bless you and keep you in his peace Im Sorry

Tamara Yakovac

November 29, 2009

Dear Bart and Tammy,

I was so saddened to read about your son. He is a beautiful likeness of you both. May God get you through each day as He has each previous day. May peace find you and your family. My sympathies to all of your family.
Tammy Simkovich Yakovac

November 29, 2009

Dearest Tammy, Bart and Ian,
We are so sorry for the devastating loss of your beloved son and brother, Nicholas. Words cannot express our deepest sorrow and grief for your family. Our prayers are with you and your family. May God give you strength. Nicholas lives on in our hearts and in all those whose lives he has touched.
Penny and Larry Casella (Pittsburgh, PA)

Al & Marie Maruskin

November 29, 2009

We are stunned and truly sorry on the loss of Nicholas. May God give you strength at this terrible loss.

Mike Goh

November 29, 2009

Dear Bart and Tamara Aitken,

We are deeply sadden beyond words to learn of the loss of your beloved son Nicholas. Please accept our deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this great time of need. May God bless you and give you strength during this difficult time.

Mike & Joanne Goh (Singapore)

November 29, 2009

I am so sorry for the loss of your dear Nick. I remember him well as an eager, sweet boy in my fourth grade class. His sweet smile and genuine kindness will forever be cherished memories My thoughts and prayers join with all who knew him. God bless you.

With deepest sympathy,
Judith Sayre

November 29, 2009

Dear Bart, Tamara and Ian,

we are so saddened by your tragic loss and can’t even imagine what you are going through. You are in our prayers and our thoughts, may your faith give you strength. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Steffen Herrmann with family

November 29, 2009

Mr. & Mrs. Aitken,
I am deeply sadden to hear about the loss of your son Nick. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this great time of need. May God bless you and keep you.

Derrick Wallace

November 29, 2009

Dear Bart, Tamara and Ian,
Please accept our deepest condolences for you and your family. We are saddened beyond words about your sudden loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Russell, Liz and Andrew Parker

November 29, 2009

May. the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation give you all the needed strenght to endure doing this time of such deep sorrow.

November 29, 2009

Tammy, Bart and Ian,

We are deeply sorry for the loss of your son and brother Nicholas. Our hearts are heavy at this time. You will be in our prayers today and always. God bless you.

Peggy and Sonny

anonymous

November 28, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. May the Lord give you strength. We are all praying for you.

George, Karin, Blake and Grant Klenovich

November 28, 2009

Dear Bart, Tamara, and Ian,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. All our love,

Elizabeth Frye

November 28, 2009

Bart and Family,

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Please accept my condolences and know that you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. May you find peace in the memories of your son and may your faith see you through this difficult time.

In deepest Sympathy

November 28, 2009

Bart, Tamara & Ian,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We mourn with you and will always remember Nick for the love and friendship he shared. May God comfort you and sustain you forever.

The Kennedy's

Linda and Grier Raclin

November 28, 2009

Tamara, Bart and Ian,

We are so saddened by this sudden and unfathomable loss. Please know how much you are in our prayers. We are thinking of you every minute. May God bless you and give you strength. With deepest sympathy and with all our love, Linda and Grier Raclin

November 28, 2009

Dear Tamara, Bart and Ian,
We are so sad to hear of your loss. We just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and if there is anything we can possibly do to help please let us know.
All our love,
The Abramson Family

November 28, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this heartbreaking time.
The Lowreys
St Louis

Theodosius Lazor

November 28, 2009

To my family in the Lord,
I pray that the soul of the servant of
God Michael AAron may be numbered with those who are in the bosom of Abraham and Isaac and Jacob, and that hismemory will be from generation to generation. +Meteropolitan Theodosius

November 28, 2009

Tamara, Bart and Ian,
we are devastated by the news and mourn with you. We pray that you will be uplifted in your sorrow by your family and friends and your church community. If there is anything that you need, we are here for you.

Todd, Sabine, Andrew & Will McDowell

Member of the St. Nicholas Orthodox Church

November 28, 2009

"Memory Eternal","May He Rest in Peace With The Lord". Respectfully, Frank O. Gorash III.

November 28, 2009

Tamara, Bart and Ian,
We cannot imagine what you are going through at this time.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
We love you,
Patti & Tony BouSamra

Kamala, Dakin, David & Heidi Sloss

November 28, 2009

Tamara, Bary, Ian,

We are all in shock here and feeling such sadness for your family. We knew Nick as a young sweet boy, full of talent and life. You are all in our prayers.

Love,

The Bernsteins

November 28, 2009

Dear Tamara, Bart and Ian,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
With our deepest condolences,

The Daltons

November 28, 2009

Dear Bart, Tamara and Ian,

There are no words to express how sorry we are for your unimaginable loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

With love,

Jenni Gerard

November 28, 2009

Tammy, Bart and Ian: i am so sorry for your loss. i loved nick more than i have ever loved another human being. i know what an incredible person he was. he went through so much and always came out with a smile on his face. i could write a novel about all of the amazing things about him. my prayers are with you and with nick every second of every day. we all miss him and know that he has finally found the peace and happiness he's always wanted. my heart is with you.

Leigh Gerard

November 28, 2009

Tammy, Bart and Ian,
Although we have not had the opportunity to meet in person, I want you all to know that my heart is broken for this huge loss as well. My daughter, Jenni, loved Nick dearly and you are not alone in your pain.
Please know that you are all in my prayers.

Britt Garlock

November 28, 2009

Dear Tamara Bart and Ian-

I am overwhelmed for you all. I have seen your strength in action, but remember that the "Family" you created will be there for you whenever you need us.

With the deepest sympathy-

Todd Bredice

November 28, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

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