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Patrick McKay Obituary
McKay, Patrick Jonathan
passed away peacefully on April 29, 2021 after a lengthy battle with cancer. He was preceded in death by his father, Donald McKay, his mother Phyllis McKay, and his sister, Lauren McKay. He is survived by two sisters, Leslie McKay and Lindsay Martin, and one brother, Tim McKay. Uncle of Ben and Jack Martin, Aidan Philand and Pryor, Evelyn, and Jude McKay.
Patrick had a large circle of friends and was lucky to be able to spend his final months surrounded by those closest to him. He and his family are grateful to his girlfriend, Leah Cole, who took great care of him over the past year. He will always be remembered for his love of music, St. Louis sports, and his unique sense of style.
In lieu of flowers and a service, his family and friends request that you listen to a favorite song, watch a Blues or Cardinals game, and raise a glass in honor of Patrick McKay.
Donations can be made in his honor to the Sheldon Arts Foundation, 3648 Washington Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63108. See boppchapel.com
"Sometimes we live no particular way but our own."-Grateful Dead
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Jon Wolter
December 17, 2021
Carry on brother, we will meet again. 10-26-85 Tampa Sundome, what a trip!
Rebecca Kaiser
July 25, 2021
Rest In Peace Patrick, enjoyed my time as a listening partner.
Linds
May 3, 2021
Forever grateful for the special moments I was able to share with Patrick over the past few months.
Sean Kerns
May 3, 2021
The best memories of you will continue my friend.
With me and many others
Jim and Missy Biggs
May 3, 2021
To Patrick's family and friends: We will miss our favorite neighbor, fancy dresser, fun backyard partier, and most of all, friend. Humphrey St will never be the same. RIP and Cheers.
Jennifer Valvero
May 1, 2021
Rest In Peace friend
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