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for Ray Clouse
Nisha chand
November 11, 2020
Its been 30 years. He was the best long doctor. Very kind n caring. Taught him few words in sign language . was so funny n helped me deal with my disease. I am deaf n vision impaired . my prayers to dr john kiglore. Now im 51 n still dealing with that and not found the best like dr ray clouse! Rest in peace. Ray!!
Bill Kaufman
September 11, 2007
It is with deep sorrow that I learned of Ray's passing. I grew up with Ray in Nappanee, IN, and my Father had known Ray's parents for many years before that. Ray was a kind, caring and very intelligent person. He helped my brother Dick, when his oldest son developed a very rare eye condition, by putting him in contact with an expert at Barnes. He will be dearly missed in this world. My deepest sympathies to John and all the other members of Ray's family.
Juanita Huie Fuller
September 10, 2007
After returning from a lovely vacation, I was exceptionally saddened to learn about the demise of Dr. Clouse. He was elegant, compassinate, warm, kind and smart, and most well respected by his colleagues and others throughout the BJH Medical Center. He truly touched the lives of those who met him whether as a patient, colleague or fellow employee.
My condolences to his partner and family members. I am blessed to have known him in my life. His life was too short but impacted signifcantly and personally the hearts and souls of many.
Dick Kaufman
September 9, 2007
Ray's sister Anne and I graduated from Nappanee High together in 1967. Later my mother and Ray's became close firends. Ray and his sister were both brilliant caring people. I stayed in touch with him through his mother. Fifteen years ago when my son had a rare disease, I discovered that another research physician at Barnes was involved in research that could help my son. I tried to contact the physician but was unable to get through. I called Ray and within twenty-four hours I was in touch with that physician. Five years ago, our neighbor's daughter was diagnosed with a serious intestinal disease. They were desperately seeking a second opinion. I called Ray and without hesitation he simply asked for their phone number. He immediately called them and was able to confirm the diagnosis and the proper treatment.
He will be missed for his great mind and his caring heart. God bless his family and John.
John Goessling
September 8, 2007
Raymond Clouse, my Crohn's Doctor for many, many years will be missed. His caring personality always made be feel better. He always had the answers and made me smile. My prayers go out to him and his family / friends. Dr Clouse touched many lives at Wash U / Barnes Hospital and he will be remembered for many, many years to come....God Bless
Kathleen Adams, BSN, RN
September 7, 2007
It is with sadness that I enter a tribute to Dr. Clouse on behalf of not only the patients he cared for who suffer from Cyclic Vomiting Syndrome, but also for all that have benefitted by his research on this mysterious and difficult illness. Dr. Clouse has published research, attended and spoken at CVSA conferences and agreed to serve as an advisor on our CVSA Professional Advisory Board. His dedication and persistence in caring for adult patients with CVS has gone beyond the call of duty. We offer our wishes for some moments of serenity to his family as they are reminded of appreciation from so many who benefitted by his practice of the "art" of medicine.
Kathleen Adams, BSN, RN
President & Research Liaison
Cyclic Vomiting Syndrome Association
Barbara Framer
September 6, 2007
I met Ray in 1991, when he first saw me and tried to diagnose my "mystery illness." It was only later, in 1997, when I came back to St. Louis for a visit, that he told me at cyclic vomiting syndrome. Then, in coordination with my doctor in Virginia, he suggested options for medication trials. Whenever I came to see him when I was in town, he was warm, caring, interested, and supportive.
I moved back to St.Louis in 2001 and began seeing Ray at least once a year. Our last visit was in December 2006, after he had been out for some time. He came in smiled, shook my hand, and shook his head to signify that he had no answer for me. I was, according to him, the most "refractory patient" he had - someone for whom nothing works. But he was going to keep on trying.
I'm so sorry he just ran out of time to find the right answer for me. I know he found the answer for many, many sufferers of CVS and other ailments. He'll be sorely missed as a brilliant and caring doctor.
Barbara Framer
Howard Mishler
September 5, 2007
I went to Nappanee High School with Ray. He was a fun loving Guy.
Was very smart.He liked to tease.
Donald Smith
September 5, 2007
I just learned of Dr. Clouse's passing. I knew he had been sick but believed it was behind him. Dr. Clouse was the finest physician that I have ever known. I first met Ray in 1979 when he was a fellow with Dr. Alpers. I was having some problems then. I'll always remember how he appropriately disagreed with Dr. Alpers. Of course, Ray was correct. When I would come in to see Dr. Clouse he came in with a big smile and would say, "the one and only Don Smith." I trusted Ray implicitly. He has pulled me through many tough times over the years. Ray was "my" doctor. He was brilliant, funny, and so compassionate. Most importantly, I felt he was my friend. Dr. Ray Clouse made the world a better place. He will be missed greatly. My heart felt sympathy goes out to his family. I miss him dearly all ready.
Phyllis Klein
September 5, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. We worked together at the CCS a number of years ago. He was a genuinely caring individual. He will be missed. John please accept my condolences.
Phyllis Klein, RN
Washington University
Center for Clinical Studies
Rona Levy
September 5, 2007
I met Ray professionally, but I felt a special connection with him. He had a unique combination of caring for others, humor, and intelligence - and especially a perceptiveness and honesty that cut through posturing and dishonesty when he saw it – which will be sorely missed, but which I feel very fortunate to have known.
John Ruhl
September 4, 2007
I was saddened tonight to hear of Ray's passing. He and I had a lot in common over a few short years in high school and college. His sister Ann and my first wife Cara Dunham were best friends and both left us too early. Ray worked at the Rexall drug store owned by Wayne Dunham, who was to become my father-in-law. When I needed a roommate for my junior year at Purdue, freshman Ray was the one I called. He was probably the smartest person I have ever known, but I still chuckle about him agonizing over his calculus book. Of course he was working all of the problems in the next chapter before going to the lecture.
Ray was a groomsman that summer in my wedding, and I ran into him a few times on campus my senior year, but I regret that I could probably count on one hand the number of times I saw him after graduating. I heard this summer that he was ill, but the summer slipped away without me calling him. I had a fleeting thought today that I should call him, then heard the news tonight that his funeral was today. Another regret.
Ray was talented, but perhaps more importantly a genuinely nice, caring and sincere person, and I have always respected him greatly. My condolences to John, Matt, Aaron and Alan.
Debby Williams, BSN
September 4, 2007
I worked as Ray as his research coordinator 10 years ago and thought he was an exceptionally great doctor. He was compationate and caring with his patients. I am very sad to hear he has passed away. John, I will keep you in my prayers.
Donna Van Meer
September 4, 2007
I know Ray from working at Wash. U., and through Darren, who loved him dearly. I could say anything to Ray and joke with him about everything. He and Darren talked me into participating in his "special" research studies - something I wouldn't do for just anyone. Ray always made me feel comfortable with his kindness and gentle touch. He will be greatly missed.
Sara (Dawson) Gross
September 4, 2007
I grew up right next door to Ray & Ann, & I have the best memories of my childhood with all the neighborhood kids. We played kick ball, hide in seek, baseball, climbed apple trees, spent many hours at the Clouse's home. What outstanding people & big hearts. I'll never forget, out of the four homes in the neighborhood four of us were leftys & Ray was one of them. They were Ray, Doug Chokey, Denny Arnott, Sara Dawson (me). Doug, Robin & Darin Chokey, Denny, Donna & Doreen Arnott, Steve, Susan & Sara Dawson & Ann & Ray all lived four surrounding houses, what a great way to grow up. What great memories & a great guy. What a honor that he touched my life. He will be dearly missed!
Donna Arnott Hollar
September 4, 2007
How sad I am to hear of Ray's passing. I grew up across the street from Ray, and he was a funny, caring, very intelligent neighbor, who had a lot to give.
He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
Lulu Stribling
September 4, 2007
John and Ray,
Carroll and I feel it was just yesterday that we ran into both of you having dinner at Moxy. My thoughts and prayers are with you John as you move into this new chapter of your life. Ray was so warm and kind. I was so very saddened just today to learn of your loss. I know you will miss him so very much. My prayers are with you. Lulu Stribling
Colleen Walters-Doke
September 4, 2007
The world has lost a truly great treasure. Ray and I were classmates at Nappanee Central School through graduation in 1969 from Nappanee High School. One of the many fond memories I have of Ray is when we were both students in Mrs. Stump's class (I believe it was 4th grade). She would post our math scores on the chalk board. Ray and I were always neck and neck, and I would always give that extra push when he got ahead of me. High school brought further competition in band class. We both played B flat clarinets, and we both wanted "1st Chair". We challenged each other for that prestigious position throughout the years. The friendly competition finally ended when he switched to (I think) bassoon, and I switched to alto clarinet. I recall "The Three Muskateers" consisting of Ray, and his two buddies - Gene Thomas and Mike Roose. John Hinton also was a good pal. I can still see that group scheming up fantastic projects and letting their imaginations run wild. I have not kept in contact with Ray throughout the years, but I did get to speak with him about 5 years ago at Bent Oak Restaurant in Elkhart when he was taking his mother out for her birthday. It was great to see them both. Ray still looked the same as he did in high school. Our fathers (Jake Walters and Max Clouse) were classmates in the Nappanee school system, both skipping a grade and advancing on to the next grade. Perhaps we were destined to be friends back then. I have many more memories, but the space is limited. I recall Ray having a great mind, but more importantly, he was a truly great guy with a heart of gold. I join everyone in expressing my sympathy to his partner, John, his nephews, uncle and cousins.
nick drexel
September 4, 2007
Ray, you always will remain in my memory as a very fine person; please know that your confreres in OStJ appreciate your loyal and dedicated service very much. John, be sure to know you are in my prayers. Bless you both.
Christine Brinker
September 4, 2007
You have my sympathy. Dr. Clouse will always be in my heart even though I didn't get to meet him.
Robin Wenger
September 4, 2007
The last time I saw Ray was at his mother's funeral, April 2006. And before that, who knows, probably when we were still in high school. When Ray graduated from HS, I was his successor at the Rexall. Talk about some shoes to fill!!! Thanks for enriching our world with your wisdom and wit. You were truly golden. May God bless your family and John in this time of great loss.
Terrye Kocher
September 3, 2007
Ray was my escort to the Ballet for many years and a willing sampler of my culinary experiments. Unfortunately I did not stay in touch with him, I regret that now. He was a great person.
Jp
September 3, 2007
Wow.... When I was 16 years old, Dr. Clouse was the first doctor who saw me for my GERD. What a great guy.
He asked me what was going on and the pain I was feeling and after my mother answered for me, he politely asked that she leave the room for my exam and then he asked me again so he'd hear *my* response intead of my mom's.
He could really relate to someone my age.
I'm shocked that he'd passed at such a young age. I'm 43 now and realize that Dr. Clouse must have been pretty young when he first saw me as a patient.
Sue Jacobson
September 2, 2007
Ray, we had the best times in high school. I will always remember you as the smart, talented, fun person that you were at 18. You had so many gifts to share with the world and you will be missed. Love, Susie
Kathleen Danna
September 2, 2007
Dr. Clouse was my son's doctor for his Crohn's disease. We respected and admired him so much. He was a very fine man. My son was Rocco Danna.
Cynthia Biever Montgomery
September 2, 2007
I had the pleasure of working with Ray at the Rexall drugstore when we were in high school and it was one of the most fun times in my life. We also had fun engaging in activities that involved our love of dogs and politics. (We were 2 of the 3 members of the Young Democrats in Nappanee)!
Ray was one of the best people that I have ever known. I haven't even seen him in many, many years, but hearing of his death has deeply, deeply saddened me. As James Taylor said, "I always thought I'd see you again."
I offer my deepest sympathy to you, John. I am grateful that he had your love for all these years.
Julie Dijkstra
September 2, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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