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Thomas Cerneka Obituary

Cerneka, Thomas P. 72, died August 15, with his family by his side in St. Louis. He was born in 1939 to Peter and Mary (nee Benedict). He was preceded in death by his parents, his brother, Jim Cerneka, sister, Mary Ann Davis, and grandson, Charles Burns. He is survived by his wife, Janet (nee Yaeger), brothers Pete (Louise) and Denny (Jean), sister, Kathy, children, Lisa M.D. (Tim) Burns, Kent (Jennifer), and Heidi, and granddaughters, Casey and Sarah Burns. He graduated from Cathedral High School in Belleville, Il., and St. Mary's University in San Antonio, where he met his wife. They celebrated their 50th anniversary last year. He retired in 1999 from a long successful career as an actuary, and pursued his golf game by living part-time in Tonto Verde, AZ. He loved sailing at Innsbrook. He enjoyed international travel, and Cardinals' baseball. Tom sang in the church choir in Rio Verde, AZ. He was affectionately called Beepa by his granddaughters. He was a Knight in the Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem. As a community volunteer, he was the former Chairman of the Board at Near Southside Employment Coalition. He was also Chairman of the Board at Provident Counseling. Services: A Memorial Mass will be held on August 18 at 4 p.m. at Ascension Catholic Church, 230 Santa Maria Drive, Chesterfield. From 5 to 8 p.m., a reception will be held in the parish hall to celebrate Tom's life and to visit with family and friends. His body has been donated to science. In lieu of flowers, the family asks for contributions to Maryknoll Lay Missioners (http://maryknolllaymissioners.org/) (f/b/o Heidi Cerneka's missionary work), or the charity of your choice.
Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Aug. 16 to Aug. 17, 2011.

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August 22, 2011

Dear Pete and Family

Sorry to hear of your brother, Tom's passing. You and the entire Cerneka family are in our prayers.

Joe and Kathleen Davis
Linwood, KS 66052

Chuck Rheinecker.

August 18, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Tom. High school and college classmate. Tom was my 1st roomate at St. Mary's.

August 18, 2011

To the Cerneka Family,

Please accept my deepest sympathy. Tom and I were in the same fraternity at St. Mary's University.

Tim Richards, Swansea

CAROL CAMPBELL

August 18, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.
Carol Campbell (St. Louis)

August 18, 2011

Denny and Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dick and Sue Beelman

Chip & Kathy Gray

August 17, 2011

Denny and family,

We are sorry to hear of Tom's passing.
All of you and Tom will be in our prayers. God bless you and keep you in this time of sorrow.

Dan Wollaeger

August 17, 2011

I am sorry about Tom's passing. I always enjoyed boating by your dock at Innsbrook and having many pleasant conversations with him. He was a great guy.

jack and cindy dietrich

August 16, 2011

dear janet and family, please know you have our deepest sympathy. sorry,but we are unable to attend the service due to we both have to work.our thoughts are with you all during your time of grief and may your memories bring you comfort. sincerly yours,

August 16, 2011

We will join in remembering Tom; a beautiful person, inside and out; who will continue to serve his community. With love and prayers from Bonnie and Chuck Udell

Mary Seematter

August 16, 2011

We are sorry to hear of Tom's death. Losing a husband, Dad. brother, uncle and friend leaves a hold in one's life. I am sorry that our Seematter family will be unable to join you at the memorial mass. Love and prayers from Mary, Ed, Sara, and Colleen.

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