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David FELIX Obituary

FELIX, David Long "Every day I open my eyes is a good day" was a mantra Dave Felix spoke for many years. But on November 7, 2020, just shy of his 99th birthday, his eyes did not open. Dave was a happy, generous, hard-working man with plenty to show for it. He grew up in Indiana, the son of a Presbyterian minister and his wife, Ralph and Mildred Felix. He was a star athlete in High School, graduated from Ball State University, and met his beloved wife, Phyllis, as teachers in Columbia City, Indiana. They moved their family to Florida in 1960. Dave worked as a teacher and coach, district sales manager for Chrysler Corporation, manufacturers' representative, and cocktail lounge owner. Quite the diversity. His love of the water and instinctive investment smarts brought him to buy a lot directly on the Gulf of Mexico for just $14,000 in 1971. He and Phyllis built a house there in Palm Harbor, a town nearly no one had heard of at the time. They loved living with the gulf-front views, and later bought a condo nearby with the same beautiful views and sunsets. After retiring, the first time, he entered the liquor license lottery for $1 and won the opportunity to open a cocktail lounge. With business partner, Jennie Alloway, the Pour House operated for over 10 years in Tarpon Springs, the epitome of a "Cheers" bar. After he sold the Pour House, he began volunteering at Morton Plant Hospital, and was chosen "Volunteer of the Year" in only his second year of service. He also enjoyed a behind-the-scenes role in politics and education over the years. Once fully retired, he simply enjoyed living on the Gulf, with his children, Beth and Dave Jr., living nearby, along with their families. Life wasn't quite the same once Phyl passed away in 2010, though, after 63 years of marriage. She was the love of his life. He enjoyed meeting friends, especially, best buddy Buzz, for coffee for nearly 20 years, Blue Coyote, Perks, Witch's Brew, Eco-Bean and Ohana Fresh. He was greeted and spoiled with strong coffee, warm welcome and great friendship at each. His final years were blessed with love from family, Beth and Chuck Wessell, and Dave Jr., Ellen, Lauren (Kyle), and Allie (Stephen) Felix, along with many wonderful close friends. He loved and appreciated life, his Martinis, and, of course, his views of the Gulf. He thought he would live to be 100, and he almost made it. Though Dave will be missed greatly by all who knew him, now he and Phyllis will be reunited forever. Please remember him with a smile and simple gift of kindness to others. Plus, a Martini toast of "Cheers" at your chosen time of day! Clear Right, Dave. You're going Home.

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Published by Tampa Bay Times from Nov. 15 to Nov. 16, 2020.

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XOXO

December 11, 2024

Happy Birthday, Dave !
CHEERS !!! XOXO

XOXO

June 16, 2024

Happy Father´s Day, Dave! Sure glad you decided to have kids !!! XO

XOXO

December 11, 2023

Another Birthday ! Sure miss you, but know you are here in spirit. I love you lots.
CHEERS !!!

Beth

June 18, 2023

Happy Father´s Day, Dave !!!
Sure miss you.
XOXO

XOXO

December 11, 2022

Happy Birthday #101 !!!
XOXOXOXO
Sure love you !
Cheers !!!

XOXO

November 7, 2022

You've been gone 2 years now.... so many things remind me of you, and it makes me smile! I am sure you and Phyl are looking out for us. I'll be drinking a martini tonight and thinking of you! CHEERS !!! xoxoxo

Beth

June 19, 2022

Beth

June 19, 2022

Beth

June 19, 2022

Happy Dad´s Day to the BEST dad imaginable! You have spoiled us, and also guided as to the true definition of "father". Sure love and miss you lots !!! XOXO

Beth

December 11, 2021

Happy 100th Birthday, Dave ! I know you and Phyl will be enjoying a Martini at cocktail hour, and I will enjoy one tonight too, with a big toast to YOU ! CHEERS !!! XOXO

Beth

November 7, 2021

It's been one year since you've been gone! You are missed very much - your smile, your happy spirit, your love of martinis ! I will be sipping a martini and toasting you tonight! xoxo

June 20, 2021

Happy Father's Day, Dave. Our first without you ... I sure love and miss you lots !!!
xoxoxo

December 11, 2020

Happy 99th Birthday, Dave !!!
We will be sipping a Martini in your honor tonight!
xoxoxo

December 11, 2020

November 26, 2020

Happy Thanksgiving, Dave. Sure missed you this year. I am sure glad you decided to be a dad !!! XOXOXO

Rachel Gause

November 19, 2020

Sending never ending love to Dave and his loving family. Upon meeting Dave many years ago we quickly realized how special he was. It was an instant bond and forever friendship. A true highlight for us every time he came in! Beyond grateful for our many conversations, treasured memories and the precious photos we’ve taken over the years. We just know you’re dancing up there in those awesome kicks we all loved so dearly. I wish peace for your family and an overwhelming sense of presence in your spirit.
We love you all so very much
Love, Rachel and your ecobean family

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Pamela Barrett

Planted Trees

Laura Wessell

November 17, 2020

Oh the many things I learned from this man.
Smiling is contagious. You always felt better after spending time with Dave.
Happy hour is longer than 60 minutes.
Helping others can bring you joy.
Starting your day with coffee and ending it with a martini is enough to make a good day. Having those drinks with friends and family is a great day.
I have never felt more welcome than hanging out with Dave.
I smile as I write this knowing that everyone he met will be toasting him and remembering stories of what an amazing man he was.
Rest knowing yours was a life very well lived!

Laura
Chuck’s Daughter, Beth’s Bestie

JW/JKH

November 16, 2020

My deepest sympathy to the Felix Family for the loss of your loved one, David Long, and pray God gives you comfort, peace and strength.

Ken Candela

November 16, 2020

To the king pf beefeater martinis you will be missed by all we aspire to live your life of giving.
Ken

Karen Benton

November 15, 2020

I loved Dave’s positive take on life. He always made me smile ! I will miss him!!

Simone Taylor

November 15, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but your special memories can help you & your family cope. Remembering your loved one today and always. Please except my deepest sympathies.

Vicki Wyant

November 15, 2020

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Tamara

November 15, 2020

Uncle Dave had a verve for life that was unmatched. I was lucky enough to be in his orbit on numerous occasions and he made a huge impression on me. The love and positive energy that emanated from him was shared with friends and family with an abundance of generosity.
Rest In Peace Uncle Dave.
With love, Tamara

Cathy Powers

November 15, 2020

Patient, kind, fun .. he was indeed special. The love he shared with Phyl was something I was honored to witness. To this day I measure love by their bond - probably why I'm single. I watched that house on the water being built. What should have been nerve wracking and stressful turned out to be fun. They built a dock that went out into the water. At the end of the dock Dave had a crab trap. He'd catch those poor things and boil them. It broke my heart to hear them squeal. So one time, when he wasn't home, I went out on the dock, pulled up that cage and let all the crabs go. True story!! I don't remember if we told him or not but I'm sure he just laughed. Dave and Phyl .. two beautiful people that made my world, everybody's world, better. They had a patent on "It's 5 o'clock somewhere". Thank you Dave for being wonderful.

Craig Eberhard

November 15, 2020

Great man that lived life to the fullest!

Lesley Klein

November 15, 2020

Sweet Dave! I was blessed to know him when he patronized the Blue Coyote and the Witch's Brew. He and Capt. Buzz were permanent morning fixtures 5 days a week. We laughed together... we cried together.. We went to see President Bill Clinton in St. Pete years ago... one of many great memories. He's with the love of his life now and an angel watching over us now! He's having coffee & martinis with Phyl now!❤❤❤

Allie Felix

November 15, 2020

My sister Lauren and I were so fortunate to have grown up neighbors and to have spent every week spending time at Gramma and Papa’s house - making crafts, putting on plays, going swimming, eating dinners together. It was a special bond that not all grandchildren get to have with their grandparents.

My Papa was a happy-go-lucky man for as long as I can remember and was always sure to make others smile during his weekly trips to the coffee shop. I feel fortunate to have been able to take him to coffee every so often on trips back to Tarpon.

While we will miss him nearly, God called Papa to be with his wife in Heaven nearly 10 years after her passing. May they both rest in eternal love and peace.

Lauren

November 15, 2020

Papa, we will miss your coffee dates, hugs, and stories! So thankful for all of your love and laughter through the years. You’ve brought so much light to people’s lives.

I know you are at peace and enjoying a sunset happy hour with your sweetheart in heaven.

Love, your sugarplum

Atala Purdy

November 15, 2020

What a great guy! He was a shining light for our Auxiliary at Morton Plant Hospital. He will be missed.

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