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JAMES TIM "DUB" INGRAM James Tim "Dub" Ingram, 33, died Sunday, July 27, 2014, at M.D. Anderson Hospital in Houston, Texas. He was born September 20, 1980, to Lou Lyon and Tim Ingram of El Dorado, AR. He is survived by his wife, Brooke Bowles Ingram, whom he married May 14, 2005, and a son James Tim (JT) Ingram, III; his parents; sister, Alison Burton (Clark); many aunts, uncles, cousins, colleagues, and friends. Dub was preceded in death by his grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. John Clem Ingram of El Dorado, and Mr. and Mrs. W.F. Lyon of Warren; his mother-in-law, Mrs. Suzanne Hazellief Bowles. He was a 1999 graduate of El Dorado High School and attended the University of Arkansas at Monticello and belonged to Kappa Alpha Fraternity. For the last nine years, Dub served as a sergeant in the patrol division and canine handler, along with his partner Hammer, with the Union County Sheriff's Office. Visitation will be held Tuesday, July 29, from 5:00-7:00 p.m. at Young's Funeral Directors. Funeral services will be performed by Brother Rob Walker at St. Paul United Methodist Church in El Dorado, Wednesday, July 30, at 10:00 a.m. with full law enforcement honors. Interment will be held at Crossroads Cemetery with a 21 gun salute by Dub's brothers from the Arkansas Sheriff's Department. Procession will be led by the Union County Sheriff's Department Honor Guard consisting of Hammer, Dub's partner, Kenny Gulledge, Scooter Bass, Andre Lovett, Josh Newton, Jonathan Messer, and Neal Greer. Serving as pallbearers are Dale Smart, Craig Smart, Philip Stone, Brandon Warren, Andrew James, Jimbo Sheppard, Jonathan Reynolds, Jason Horn, Matt Reynolds, Scott Lane, Trent Foreman, Will Stracner, Clark Burton, Jarrod Parrish, and Jordan McBride. Serving as honorary pallbearers is the Union County Sheriff's Department. Memorials preferred to the Melanoma Research Foundation, 1411 K Street, NW Suite 800, Washington, DC 20005, or Education Fund in Memory of Dub for James Tim Ingram, III, at First Financial Bank in El Dorado. An online guest registry will be available at www.youngsfuneralhome.com
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Joel Harper
November 12, 2014
The first time that I met Dub was during our time at the police academy, he was the first person that I met there. We ended up being next door neighbors, and eventually pretty much inseparable, sat together during class. Always giving the other one a hard time about something. After graduating the academy, we went on our separate ways, but talked to each other pretty regularly, trying to catch up or to just give the other one a hard time again. I am truly saddened by his passing, and I was honored to know him and become friends with him. I am honored to have him call me his friend, I miss you Dub.
August 7, 2014
Mrs. Ingram taught my kids and my grandkids, Dub and my son was classmate "99". My condolence to the family
Josh & Molly Rice
August 1, 2014
Brooke & JT, there are no words to make the pain go away...but we pray you find peace & comfort in God! We love you both & are praying for you!
Diana Orren
July 31, 2014
U r so truly missed Dub we all love you
Sapna Patel
July 31, 2014
An honor and privilege to know Dub, Brooke, JT, and your entire family. Our deepest sympathy and thoughts to you all during this time.
Carolyn & Maury Joe
July 31, 2014
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss.
Wanda Bass
July 31, 2014
"Miss Lou", I just learned of Dub's death. While I didn't know him as well as I did Alison, Olivia and Joseph spoke highly of him and laughingly remembered some good times they all shared. You and your family have my deepest sympathy during this difficult time.
Jimmy Peacock
July 31, 2014
Tim and Lou, I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can comfort you at this time, but know that if those words did exist, that is what I would try to say to you now. God bless each of you and the family.
Diana Orren
July 30, 2014
I am so sorry about the lost of Dub Ingram he was a good man and will be missed by many and all
Clayton Childers
July 30, 2014
Mr. Tim and Mrs. Lou,
I am so sorry to hear about Dub. It had been a long time since I had seen Dub, but I have a lot of childhood memories playing baseball with him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.
Brittany Bradham Livingston
July 30, 2014
Thinking of you and praying for you during your time of loss.
Betty Pill
July 30, 2014
With deepest sympathies
Cindy Arnold
July 30, 2014
Alison,
I just heard about your brother. I am so sorry! Thinking of you all..*HUGS*
Mary Hannah (Guthrie) Rutledge
July 30, 2014
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May Dub's memory and his positive impact on so many lives comfort you during this time and all the days ahead. He was a wonderful person. My deepest sympathies and love.
April Mills
July 30, 2014
I will truly cherish high school memories that you were apart of. Your bubbly personality made an impact on us all. May God give your wife, son, family and friends peace during this time. Rest in peace. EHS Class of 1999
Rachel "Nichols" Bendure
July 30, 2014
Lou, Tim, Allison, Brooke and JT: my thoughts and prayers are with you today and everyday. May God give you strength and peace during this difficult time. Dub was a wonderful man. I have so many great memories of our childhood together! Sending love your way always!
Melissa and Chris Ludwig
July 30, 2014
Brooke and JT, we are praying for you and the rest of the extended family. Dub was a great friend, and all our hearts will have a huge void. Know that he touched so many lives whiLe on this Earth. If you need anything at all, please do not hesitate to call Chris. He is just up the road and can help at anytime. We love you guys!
John Cary
July 30, 2014
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.....
michelle lott
July 30, 2014
Brooke me and britt are soooo sorry for your loss...our deepest thoughts and prayers for you...sending love to you and your family.
Dana Lewis
July 29, 2014
We extend our sympathy and love to your entire family in the loss of such a kind and easy going friend. Our prayers are with you all for God's grace and strength as you mourn a life so full of love! Dana & Luther Lewis, Justin & Meredith
John and JeNelle Lipton
July 29, 2014
Tim and Lou, We are so sorry for your loss and our deepest sympathies to all of you. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers in the difficult days ahead. John and JeNelle Lipton
Janelle Murphy
July 29, 2014
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Lisa Worley
July 29, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless and keep all of you. I'm glad I got to know and work with Dub, he had a wonderful personality and loved his work. Sgt. Lisa Worley, UCSO.
Debbie Ward
July 29, 2014
Brooke, so very sorry....my thoughts and prayers are with you and your young son!
Paige Matochik Fitzgerald
July 29, 2014
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot imagine what you all must be going through. Please know that your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for peace and comfort for each of you.
Eric Grimes
July 29, 2014
Praying for the family
July 29, 2014
Tim, Lou, Brooke, JT, Allison and all the family you are all in our prayers and love today. Came by visitation and it was so crowded I felt I would just write you a note. Dub was definitely loved and respected by many. Our children had such fun growing up at St. Paul. May God surround you all with his angels to carry you through this loss.
Linda Cameron Smith and family
robert strangr
July 29, 2014
Sorry for your family loss
james davis
July 29, 2014
Sorry for your loss
Pat, Gene & Allen Chandler
July 29, 2014
You all are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. We found Dub to be a very nice and thoughtful young man. May the Lord give you comfort and strength.
Susan Gleason
July 29, 2014
Lou & Tim, My heart and prayers are with you all. Dub touched so many people during his life leaving everyone that knew him with sweet memories, many of which will always make us laugh and smile. I will be unable to attend the service tomorrow as I am out of town on business but hope to see you soon. I pray that a piece of his "larger than life" light shines upon all of us. Love you
July 29, 2014
Thinking of you and your family. Sorry for your loss. Jim and Martha Burleson
David and Barbara Hogg
July 29, 2014
David and I cannot express the loss we know you are feeling. Dub was so good with the little boys and girls playing soccer and he was a great man for them to look up too. Remember I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Linda Hopper and Sam Work
July 29, 2014
Dear Lou and Tim: You and your family have our prayers and deepest sympathy. Words seem so empty but please know that Sam and I care.
Sarah Beth Ezell and John Cameron
July 29, 2014
The entire Ingram family is in our thoughts and prayers. John and I have so many fond memories of Dub growing up at St. Paul. He was always so full of life and love. He will be missed so much. May God bless you and keep you all close during this difficult time.
Christina Foster-Harris
July 29, 2014
My deepest condolences to Brooke, JT & Dub's family. Dub was an very special person and I couldn't have asked for a better friend. He will be truly missed!!! I pray that we as his friends can help carry on his spirit so that JT knows just what an incredible man his father truly was.
Benny & Janell Vestal
July 29, 2014
Dub touched so many lives in his career; he loved public service and helping others. He accomplished so much and it was an honor to see his enthusiasm toward his work. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
July 29, 2014
Life is unfair when you bury your children. In the midst of all the hurt, pain and dark skies, there is a hope for the future promised by Jesus. May God give you comfort and peace for your sadness and loss.
Jill Harrell Sellers
E. Courtney Paulus
July 29, 2014
Praying for the family. Love you all.
Holly Hanry
July 29, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God's peace and comfort surrounds you all today and in the days ahead.
Clint & Melanie (Byars) Mullinix
July 29, 2014
You are all in our hearts and prayers. Dub touched so many lives and will be missed so much by everyone that knew him. May the Lord bless you and bring you peace and comfort. Love to you all!
Sylvia Campbell Jackson
July 29, 2014
Lou and Family so very sorry. May God be each of you as you walk through this time. Praying for you all.
Love from Sid Campbell's sister. Sylvia. Jackson, Baker La.
Justin, Summer, Clayton, & Schuler Sewell
July 29, 2014
Praying for you Brooke, JT, and the entire Ingram family.
Nikki Worrell
July 29, 2014
So sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you . Love Kent and Nikki Worrell and Family
Ben Matthews
July 29, 2014
My Prayers are with the family during this difficult time.
July 29, 2014
Our Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Union County Treasurer's Office
Debbie, Julie and Melinda
Jim and Lisa Johnson
July 29, 2014
Brooke, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this unimaginable time.
Paula Beard
July 29, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with all the family members during this trying time.
Kelly & Tom Sheppard
July 29, 2014
Please accept our sincere sympathy for your loss.
Joy Barnes
July 29, 2014
Brooke, Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With our love, Joy and Bob Barnes
Nancy and Gary Wagnon
July 29, 2014
Our hearts are filled with sadness from this news. I'm so glad that Gary and I saw Dub last October in church when we were back for a visit. He will be missed but he will always be there in your heart. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Teresa Matochik
July 29, 2014
Dear Ingram family, Words can never reflect our sorrow for this horrible loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Pete and Teresa Matochik
James & Betty Hall
July 29, 2014
Tim and Louann,
Our prayers are with you and your family.
Debbie Miller
July 29, 2014
Tim and Lou, I am so sorry on the loss of your son Dub. Words can't express how sad I am. I will pray for you and your family. Debbie Miller
Candace Palmer
July 29, 2014
Brooke, I am Wendy's cousin. I think we met one time at Hali's graduation. Prayers for you and your family. I can't imagine the pain that you're feeling right now but just know that we are praying for y'all!
July 29, 2014
Lou, you may not remember me. I worked with you in the Eldorado School District. I now live in Vinita, OK. I saw this sad news on facebook. I just want you to know that I will pray for your family in this terrible loss. Sincerely, Junelle Rafferty
Mark & Mary Thomas
July 29, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. He was a great person that just made you smile when you saw him.
Cassie Reed
July 29, 2014
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Dub was a great person and classmate, and will be missed by many. Praying for you and your family during this difficult time.
July 29, 2014
Dear Lou and Tim,
Our hearts are heavy with the news. Please accept our most sincere condolences to you and Dub's family.
With love,
Karin and Steve Cirelli
Marcie Ethridge
July 29, 2014
My thoughts and Prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Tangy Yarbrough-Ford
July 29, 2014
May the Lord shower you with his peace that surpasses all understanding. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Dub was my classmate, class of '99.
Kim Monk Boddie
July 29, 2014
My heart and prayers go out to all of the Ingram family. May God lift you up and give you peace during this difficult time. Dub touched so many peoples lives. His love and kindness will definitely be missed. I wish I could be there to show my love and support. May God bless you all!
Jackie and Bob Warren
July 29, 2014
Brooke, our thoughts and prayers are with you and JT. Dub was someone very special to so many.
Paulette Johnson
July 29, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. From all accounts, he will be missed by so many. Please accept my sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Sending lots of love at this time of sorrow. Sincerely Paulette Johnson
Trey Lieblong
July 29, 2014
Thoughts and prayers for family and friends in this difficult time.
Dub touched many lives and will always be remembered
Trey and Stephanie Lieblong
Jim & Renae Hightower
July 29, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Benny Bailey
July 29, 2014
Our prayers for the family
Shelly Burns (Lyon)
July 29, 2014
My heart and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. I wish I could be there with you.
July 29, 2014
God will be at your side during this and will guide you. Praying for Brooke and J T as well as the rest of the family Rachel Davis
Lisa Griffis
July 29, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss!!! Praying for peace and strength for his family!!!!
Allen and Donna Barker
July 29, 2014
I'm deeply sorry for ya'lls loss , he will be missed by many my thoughts and prayer's are with all the family.
Jeremy Hackett
July 28, 2014
It was an honor to get to know Dub before, during and after he pledged KA. Prayers are with Dub's wife, son and family and hoping that knowing they will be reunited one day will ease their pain. He was a really great guy and he will be missed by all.
Edna Epps
July 28, 2014
My deepest condolences. So sorry for your loss. Prayers to all!
Eveann George
July 28, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family. Dub was a fantastic person and I will always smile when I think of him.
Angela
July 28, 2014
Brooke, you and JT are in my prayers and I will continue to pray for comfort in knowing Dub is in no pain...Love ya
Arkansas 911 News
July 28, 2014
Thanks for being a Hero during your short time with us.
July 28, 2014
I enjoyed many years working with Dub (and Hammer), and also valued his friendship! He was a fine, dedicated officer with a big heart. My prayers are with you in the loss of your loved one, and we will all meet again one day. Thanks to Kenny G. For always being there with Dub through thick and thin.
Neal Greer
Justin Murphree
July 28, 2014
Dub was one of the good guys who you always knew had your back. His personality and great smile was always a pleasure to see and be around. He will be missed.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Matthew 5:9
Gretchen Garrison
July 28, 2014
Lots of love and prayers for your whole family. Love you so much! Gretchen, Kevin, & kids
Ronnie & Janice Greer
July 28, 2014
Tim & Family... Ronnie & I are so very sorry for the loss of your son. Please know you & family are in our thoughts & prayers.
Chasity Sartor
July 28, 2014
Prayers for the family!
Sarah and Eddie Champagne
July 28, 2014
Tim, Lou, Alison, Brooke, J.T. and extended family, no words can heal our broken hearts. Dub was such a Special Young Man. He fought with bravery and dignity. Prayers for you all in the hard days that lay ahead. Dub was so loved by his Family and Friends. He will be missed and will live forever in our hearts. God Bless You All.
What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us." -Helen Keller -
Darlene Mabry
July 28, 2014
You will be greatly missed
Wendy Walton
July 28, 2014
My memories of Dub date back to Wesley Club days at St. Paul UMC when I had him and many of the other boys in my class. They gave me a run for my money, but would not trade that memory at all. Dub was a keeper and is a keeper in my heart now.
Becky Stephens
July 28, 2014
I am so very sorry about the loss of such a fine young man. To you all, I extend my deepest sympathy. Lou, my heart breaks for you. There is no greater loss than that of your child. Sincerely, Becky Russell Stephens
Judy Fife
July 28, 2014
Brooke and Family, Can't tell you how sorry I am. Pleasure to work with Dub. Always a gentleman. Praying for you and your family.
Bob and Jackie Warren
July 28, 2014
Lou and Tim. There are no words to say how much we loved Dub. He was part of the family. We love you guys and just want to give you a big hug and hold on tight. Brooke, you and TJ are in our prayers , too. Prayers for all of you.
Amy Stewart
July 28, 2014
I pray for comfort and peace for the family!
Regina Young
July 28, 2014
Love you Brooke praying for you all
debbie vines
July 28, 2014
my prayers goes out to his family. He was a great man, and officer. he would always stop and talk to anyone he saw he knew. Always had a smile on his face. my heart goes out to his family. god bless you all. he will be missed by so many people.
Cindy Hudgens
July 28, 2014
May The Lord Bless you and Keep You .... You all are in my thoughts and prayers??
Glenda Thurlkill
July 28, 2014
Lou and Tim,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mike and Glenda Thurlkill
Jennifer Connor
July 28, 2014
Praying for his family. He was a great man who will be greatly missed.
Wayne Goode
July 28, 2014
Not only did we lose a good Deputy, we lost a good family man. Gonna miss ya Brother. We will see each other again.
Brittany Bowman
July 28, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss! Praying for the friends and family.
Cassandra Land
July 28, 2014
You all are in my prayers...
RIP classmate..
Carolyn Boshears
July 28, 2014
Tim and family. May peace and comfort find you and your family during this most difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Glynda Priddy
July 28, 2014
Prayers going up for the family, friends and coworkers; May God be with you and comfort you.
Kelly Guice-pepper
July 28, 2014
Brooke you & your family are In my thoughts & prayers. I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
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