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Judy Merila

1945 - 2022

Judy Merila obituary, 1945-2022, Longview, WA

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1945

DIED

2022

Judy Merila Obituary

Judy Irene Merila

Oct. 24, 1945 - March 15, 2022

On Tuesday, March 15, 2022, Judy Irene Merila, age 76, passed peacefully, surrounded by family after a valiant battle with Parkinson's, despite surviving breast cancer 33 years prior. Judy was best known as the owner of Judy's Restaurant & Catering, the renowned Longview eatery she created and owned for nearly thirty years.

Judy was born on October 24, 1945, in Virginia, Minnesota to parents Walter and Margaret Merila. She was raised in Northern Minnesota and graduated from Cherry High School in 1963. In 1964, Judy and Gary Wallace were married and had three daughters. The family moved to Longview, WA in 1967.

While Judy was best known as a successful restaurateur, she also attended nursing school, worked as Deli Manager for Keil's Grocery Stores, and was a correctional officer at the Cowlitz County Jail. At the jail, Judy found working conditions that were unfair and in 1977, she filed and won the first sexual discrimination lawsuit within Cowlitz County while bringing in the first female attorney to fight a case in the county, paving the way for more equal treatment of women in the workplace.

Judy was an active community member and had many hobbies such as gardening, knitting, cooking, and snow-skiing. She was active in her church, Altrusa, Longview Ski Club, and Koinonia just to name a few, but her greatest joy was spending time with her two grandchildren.

Judy was beloved by her family. She was preceded in death by; her father Walter Merila; mother Margaret Walkki; brother William Walkki; and sister Jane Palokangas. She is survived by; sister Joyce Wallace; daughters Kristin Wallace, Michelle (Wallace) Dalen, Shannon Wallace; grandchildren Jacob Bass and Chloe Bass; along with various nieces, nephews, and cousins.

A memorial service and reception will be held on Sunday, April 10th at 2:30pm at The Roxy Theater, 1101 Commerce Avenue Longview, WA. Contributions can be made to the American Cancer Society or the Parkinson's Foundation.

Published by The Daily News on Apr. 3, 2022.

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Eugene Ollila

April 9, 2022

Judy was such an active and engaged person, and I was privileged to know her when she transferred to Cherry, and date her several times soon thereafter. A perfect cheerleader for whatever she did. I am sorry to have missed her in her last visits to Minnesota. She will be missed! My regards to her family.

Carol Ray

April 5, 2022

I met Judy when she lived at Monticello Park. We would always remind her of the delicious carrot cake and fresh breads she served at her cafe. she had a great sense of humor. My love and prayers go out to the family.

Carol Ray

Aubri Dills

April 5, 2022

I was a med tech for Judy at Monticello Park. She was truly one of a kind. She was set in her ways and always had the best smile. I loved her humor. I remember one day that i was not having a not so good day Judy actually sang me a song and even danced a little, the song was Janis Joplin Mercedes Benz. We all loved Judy so much, what an amazing women. I feel honored to have known her. My prayers go out to her family

Kathy Demarest

April 5, 2022

Judy was a wonderful lady and I am so blessed to have known her through ski club, hiking, and being a great friend. My heart goes out to the family and hope that you can find warmth in fond memories of her. Hugs to Shannon and sisters.

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